Xa ngokukhawuleza uthi: "Yilahle le mkhuba! Uyisiphukuphuku! "- 'uyaziqhatha', akunene? Yintoni yena ... Ndihlala ndisika isonka ukuze ... Igazi kum ... Ndihlala ndidla isidlo sakusasa phambi kweTV ... Ndiyakuqonda kakhulu! Ngenxa yokuba imikhwa yethu ayilona nto. Ubuntu bethu. Ukuba sisehlweni abanye abantu. Le ntetho ekuqaleni ibonakala ingcikivo, ewe?
Kodwa makhe sijonge. Yintoni umntu onokuyiphatha ngayo malunga nawe? Kunokwenzeka ukuba, akwanele: yinto intombazana, i-harmonious, igqoke ngokugqithiseleyo, kwamehlo amnyama kunye neenwele ezimnyama. Ingqiqo enkulu iya kuqaphela: kubonakala sengathi uyabathanda, okanye: into ebomini bakhe ayikho. Ngaba uyavuma ukuba inkcazo eyenziwa ngumdluli-ophawulayo, ngaba wena? Hayi? Kakade! Akazi ubuntu bakho.
Kwaye, njani, umzekelo, unokukuchaza umntu oza kuhlala nawe iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku?
Uvuka ekuseni, uhlamba, agqoka, uthanda ukubukela iTV kwaye uxoxe nabahlobo, uthanda ukuya kuma-discos namaphupha okudibana nendoda yangempela. Ngakumbi nje nge nyaniso? Khangela, kungenxa yokuba umntu uchaza imimiselo yakho: vuka kusasa, uhlambe, ubukele iTV, uxoxe nabahlobo ... Yintoni enye ongayongeza kwiinkcazo zakho? Yintoni engonelanelekanga ukuchaza ubuntu bakho, ngaphandle kokuhlaziywa kwemikhwa yakho?
Kwaye neminye imikhwa yeso sizathu esibizwa ngokuba yingozi.
Umkhuba omubi yinto ekhusela ukuba uphelele; njengokuba ungathanda ukuba, kwaye wenze oko ukhona. Izikhonkwane ze-Gnawing akuyona yonke imimiselo emibi kulabo abathanda ukuzalisa izilwanyana emizimbeni yabo kwaye bacinge ukuba ukuchaneka kukuthi "intsha ebumnandi." Kodwa ukuhlawula kusasa kusenokuba ngumkhwa ombi womntu ofuna ngamandla ukukhula.
Ewe, le mizekelo iyimifanekiso. Ukongeza kobudlelwane bakho bobuqu, kukho inxaxheba yentlalo: umkhwa ombi into ekuthintela ukuba ube yinto efanelekileyo emehlweni "loluntu". Ukuvuma, mna ndiyazi ukuba ngubani - "uluntu". Iiprofesa zambiza "intlalo", izazi zeengqondo - "ukungazi kakuhle", iipolitiki - "imbono yoluntu" ... Ngubani na owaziwayo. Kodwa oko kukuthi, yintoni eyayichazela imithetho yayo kwaye ifuthe ukuziphatha kwethu kunye nemikhwa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ndicinga ukuba emva kokuphulaphula izimvo "zoluntu", ongazikwazi ukubaleka kuzo, amadoda esiwabethe kakhulu, kufuneka siziphulaphule size senze isigqibo: oko kukuthintela ukuba uphile ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Emva kwengcamango yomzuzu, ungaphendula lo mbuzo ngokwakho. Okwangoku, ndiza kubhala uluhlu oluqhelekileyo olukhusela ukuphila "ngokugcwele", "okudla" ixesha lethu, ukuthatha ulawulo lobomi bethu kwaye lusithintele ukuba sifinyelele into esinokuyifumana.
Ukukhawuleza ukuvuka
Kule nto yonke iyaqala. Uvuka isahlulo seyure ngaphambi kokuba ushiye, uhlamba ngokukhawuleza ubuso bakho, sondle isidlo sakusasa, usebenzise ngokukhawuleza ukwenza i-makeup - kwaye usuku lufana "luqhutywe".
Umthombo : ngokuqhelekileyo kuluvila nje. Kukulungele ukulala ebhedeni elongezelelweyo ngomzuzu, ingakumbi ngomntu osondeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, kwenzeka ukuba umntu uyavuka ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yokuba akanakuvuyela usuku oluzayo, uyamesaba ...
Isiphumo : umntu uyeka ukulahla ixesha, kwaye ixesha liqala ukulahla umntu: i-press, "ithathwa ngumqala" kwaye inokunyanzela ukuba wenze into ongazifuni ukwenza.
Indlela yokulahla : vuka ngeyure ekuqaleni. Ebusuku, lungiselela "ingcamango enomdla ngosuku olulandelayo", cwangcisa intlanganiso enomdla okanye ucinga oluhle. Umzekelo, okwangoku uvuka nje, ubhale ngengqondo incoko: ukudibana nomntu wam amaphupha , okanye ukunqoba kwam emsebenzini. Xa uphupha - ngokukhawuleza uvuke uze ulungele umbhede ukuze kungabi nasilingo sokubuyela apho, wenze izinto ezintle: vula ifestile uze uphuze indebe yekhofi. Mamela umculo. Hlalani nithule okanye nilenze kakuhle.
Isiphumo : uza kwandisa ubomi bakho ubuncinane ngeyure. Emva koko-enye iyure ... Ndiza kukuxelela imfihlo yokuba izazi zengqondo zifumene izinga lokulala komntu ngosuku: iiyure ezingama-5 - eziqhelekileyo, iiyure ezingama-6 - ezincinane, iiyure ezingama-7 - ezincinci, kunye no-8-kwakhona ziqhelekileyo. Ngaba uyaqonda? Ungaphila iiyure ezingama-19 ngosuku!
Kudala
Ukunciphisa ukutyunjwa, iintlanganiso, kwiindiza kunye neetreni enye enye indlela "yokuphosa" ubomi bakho. Ukongezelela, ukuba ungabonakali intlonelo kubantu abakulindeleyo, bayeka ukunithatha ngokungqongqo.
Umthombo: kunokwenzeka ukuba awufuni ukuya apho uya khona. Ukungahlehlisi, "ukuhamba ngeendlela" kwindlela, "ukhohliwe imali ekhaya" - ezi ziphumo kuphela.
Isiphumo: uyeke ukuthembela ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kwaye ungabi nzulu - njengomntu ongaphumeleli.
Indlela yokulahla: okokuqala zivumele ukuba ungahambi ezintlanganisweni, apho ungafuni ukuya khona. Ngoko uza kunciphisa inani lokulibaziseka okungenani kabini. Emva koko, ungabi msinya. Emva kweso sidibano, esasimiselweyo, sibize kwaye siyikhansele. Mema nje phambili. Ukuba ufanele uhambe, cinga kwaye uziqonde: yintoni eyokuyeka? Ukulandelela "izithintelo" zakho, unokuziwela kalula. Okanye ungagqithisi - ngqiqo yakho.
Isiphumo : "uhlambulule" ubomi bakho kubathintana abangenasidingo kwaye uyilungise. Ukufika ngexesha liyisicelo sobomi obunzulu.
Ulibale ngokuzibophezela
Uyakhumbula ukuba udala kangakanani uthembisa ukutyelela ugogo wakho omdala? Kwaye uyalibala yonke into ... Kakade, uthe uthe ndiza kungena ngenxa yokuba kwakungenakunqwenela ukunqanda ... Kodwa andizange ndihambe! Uze alinde aze akhumbule! Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukhumbule! Umthombo: kunokwenzeka ukuba, awufuni ukubacaphukisa, okanye kunoko-uloyiko lokuba yinto embi, ungayithobeli, awuphenduli. Yingakho uthembisa.
Isiphumo: ukuba awuzalisekisi ezi zithembiso, awuyi kuba yinto oyikwesayo, usenokuba ngumntu ongathembekiyo: uthembisa kwaye akazange akwenze - kubi nakakhulu kunokuba wala.
Indlela yokulahla: funda ukuba "cha." Emva kokuba ufunde indlela yokwenqaba , qhubeka uthembisa izithembiso ngokukhawuleza. Ngenxa yokuba ishishini elingagqibekanga linempembelelo "yesenzo esingagqitywanga". "Zithwele" kwi "RAM" kwaye azikuvumeli ukuba usebenze ngokukhawuleza nangempumelelo.
Isiphumo : unokwenza izinto ezilungileyo kwaye ufumane ukuzonwabisa. Ukubulela, okudluliselwa ngamehlo, izenzo kunye "nomvuzo ovela ngaphandle," kuya kuphucula kakhulu umgangatho wobomi bakho. Ukukrazula umkhuba omubi kunokwenzeka kuphela ngenye indlela - ukuyibuyisela kuyo entsha-incedo. Khawukhumbule: okokuqala oko uya kuvuyela ukuziphatha ngendlela entsha, okwesibini - ngokuqhelekileyo, kwisithathu - ngokuzenzekelayo, okwesine - uya kuphelelwa ngumsindo ... kwaye apha kufuneka udibanise kunye kwaye uqhubeke. Makungabikho iingxabano eziliwaka "ngokuchasene", kodwa kukho enye "ngenxa" - ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha. Naphezulu. Umkhwa usungulwa iintsuku ezingama-40. Oku kwafunyanwa ngabangcali beengqondo. Ukunyamezela ezi ntsuku ezingama-40. Kwaye-ke uza kubona ezo mphuculo, ezikuphela kweengcinga zakho zasendle.
Imithetho yokwenqaba ngokuhloniphekileyo:
- Bhengeza ibinzana ngelizwi elizolile, elithembekileyo. Kuya kuba bhetele ukuba amahlombe aqondiswe kwaye imilenze yomibini imile phantsi phantsi.
- Ukuqala ngeli binzana kuyimfuneko kumagama: Andikwazi ukwenza oku.
- Qinisekisa ukuba uchaze ngamagama amabini okanye amathathu ukuba kutheni ungakwazi ukwenza. Ngoko ubonisa intlonelo kwisicelo somntu kwaye ungamthuki ngenxa yokwenqaba.
- Ukuba ingcaciso yakho ingaphezu kwamagama ayisithupha - le ngcaciso embi. Sika.
- Musa ukuxolisa. Unelungelo elifanayo lokungafuni, njengoko yena-ukubuza. Yenza kuphela oko unokukwenza kwaye ufuna ukukwenza.
- Musa ukukhawuleza. Makuvumele ukuba umntu aqonde ukuba uyivile, uyayiqonda kwaye akunakunceda.
- Musa ukuzibandakanya kwingxoxo. Incoko yonke kufuneka ihlangane neengongoma ezimbini: isicelo sinqatshelwe.