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Kwaye umgaqo wokuqala, oku kukuthi: akufuneki nje ukuba wonke umntu akufutshane nawe akuthande. Awukwazi ukulungelelanisa wonke umntu kwaye nceda wonke umntu.


Konke kwaqala ngento yokuba ngelinye ilanga ubomi bam buzaliswe ngokuqhwaba. Akukho nto inomdla kum. Kwaye ubomi babonakala bengenashukela. Kodwa oko kwenzeka. Kwaye uyazi ukuba ixesha lokutshintsha into ...

Uthando. Leli gama lalifana nokudumala, ukungaqondi, ukungabi nalutho, inzondo ...

Sisoloko sifuna ukutshintsha, ukukholisa, ukubuyisela abantu. Kodwa le mpazamo ejulile!
Ngoko ndifuna ukuthini ukutshintsha? Kwaye ndandifuna ukutshintsha umntu owayesondele kum. Ndiyitshintshile kwaye ndatshintshile, kodwa yonke into yangenza ndithukuthela.

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Ndiye ndikholisa abanye, kodwa ihlabathi alikwazi ukutshintshwa. Wonke umntu uyaziqonda ngokuhlukileyo. Ngamnye wethu unemibono yethu. Kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukubeka ezinye iimbono. Kodwa indlela yokwenza abantu bakuqonde, bathande, bahlonishwe?

Kwaye umgaqo wokuqala, oku kukuthi: akufuneki nje ukuba wonke umntu akufutshane nawe akuthande. Awukwazi ukulungelelanisa wonke umntu kwaye nceda wonke umntu.

Ukuze ufumane Uthando, kufuneka ufunde ukuba ungayinika njani.

Kwaye ndaqhubeka ndikholelwa, ukubonisa. Ndema. Kwaye waqhubeka ekholelwa yonke into awayeyikholelwa ngaphandle kokuvumela ezitsha.

Hayi, ngo-conservatism ekusasazeka njengengqungquthela, andizakuze ndifumanise nantoni na entsha! Kwaye akukho nto iya kundinceda ukuba ndiqhubeke phambili! Yaye lo yiMgaqo wesiBini, endimele ndibe nayo.

Kwaye ngoku ngoku, ndaqala ukushiya izinto ezininzi. Ndaqalisa ukutshintsha. Shintsha iimbono zangaphakathi. Kwaye ndahluke ngaphandle. Ukusuka kwi-brunette ndaphenduka nge-blonde.

Kutheni sicinga kwaye sibukeka, sidla abanye? Kutheni sifuna iingcebiso kunye nezimpendulo kwiintsebenziswano kwiincwadi, amaphephancwadi .... Ukuba kukho impendulo eyodwa kuphela, kufuneka ujonge.

Khangela ngaphandle ngaphandle kwakho. Sitshintsha wena kuphela.

Nguwe kuphela onokukwazi ukonwabile okanye udabukile.

Iingcebiso ezininzi, abaninzi abantu bathi kufuneka wenze oku kwaye. Xa sixelelwa, qiniseka, kodwa njani? Xa besithi banamandla, njani banokuqina?

Kukho unyango olulodwa kuphela. Ukuzichaza.

Ufuna nje ukuzixelela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke. Yeka ukuzungezwe ngabantu ababethulayo. Ewe, abantu abakwazi ukujika, kodwa xa usitshintsha, aba bantu baya kukushiya.

Futhi ngothando, ungazami ukutshintsha umntu omthandayo, kuba uguqula omnye umntu, khumbula ukuba mhlawumbi lo mntu omtsha akafuni ukuhlala nawe.

Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukunqwenela lonke uthando. Yaye khumbula, xa abantu ababini bangene ebudlelwaneni, ubomi babo ngabanye bufanele buphucule, kodwa kungekho enye indlela.

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