Uhlobo olusebenzayo lwentsebenziswano kuzo zonke iindawo zomsebenzi wabantu lukwahlukana kwemisebenzi (indima), kuyafana nentsapho. Ukuba ngamnye umtshato uyazi kwaye uyaphatha ngempumelelo iimbopheleleko zabo, ngoko intsapho iya kulahlwa yimpumelelo. Iingxaki ziqala ukuvela xa indoda okanye umfazi, okanye bobabini abanqweneli ukwenza imisebenzi yabo, bazame ukunqoba abanye, okanye ukuphazamisa inxaxheba kwenye. Umfazi ongenakwenzeka uyakha umsebenzi kwintsapho. Indima yakhe yodwa yowesifazane, kukuxhasa umyeni wakhe, uncedo ekwenzeni imisebenzi yakhe, kodwa ukuba angenzi umsebenzi wakhe kumlingane.
Ukusebenza kunye nokuzinikezela ekusebenzeni kweendima zabo zihlala zihamba kunye nempumelelo enkulu kwintsapho, kweshishini kunye nentlalo yoluntu. Kwaye kunjalo, xa elinye lamalungu entsapho lizama ukudlala indima yabantu, inqaba ukwenza imisebenzi yabo, okanye ixhalabele indlela abanye abaqhuba ngayo imisebenzi yabo, badlala indima yomveleli oqinileyo.
Ukuphumelela ekusebenzeni kwemisebenzi yakho kuxhomekeka kwindlela owenza ngayo indima yakho yabesifazane ebomini nakwintsapho ngokukodwa. Oku kufuneka kukukhathalele kuphela. Kungenzeka ukuba unethuba lokuqesha abancedisi ukuba bahlele ubomi bendlu, okanye bacele ukuba bancede abantwana kulo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, uxanduva lomyalelo kule ndawo luhlala kuwe kuphela.
Ukuba ube nolwazi lwezakhono zamabhinqa kunye nobuchule, unokufumana impumelelo enkulu nakwintsimi yentsapho. Ukwenza oku, unokufunda ukupheka, ukugcina indlu, ulungiselele ubomi bendlu ukuze ukhululeke. Namela ingqalelo kwindlela abafazi abaphatha ngayo kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Zizinike ngokupheleleyo kwiintsapho kwaye wenze yonke imizamo yokufezekisa ukuhambelana nokuphila kakuhle ekhaya.
Inyaniso yokuba uya kunceda umyeni wakho ukuba afumane impumelelo ekusebenzeni kwakhe umsebenzi uya kuba yimpumelelo yakho ekudaleni intsapho ephumelelayo. Ulwazi lweemfuno zamadoda amathathu luyakunceda kulo:
- Indoda kufuneka ikwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yayo njengentloko yentsapho, isondlo kunye nomkhuseli.
- Indoda kufuneka ive le mfuno kwintsapho yakhe.
- Kubalulekile ukuba indoda iphakame ngaphezu kwowesifazane kule ntsimi.
Kwimimandla yanamhlanje, ukutyekela kukuba le migaqo yokuqala iphulwa rhoqo. Kwakukho ukuhlasela komfazi kwintsimi yomntu. Ngenxa yoko, sinesizukulwana soomama abasebenza, bancintisana namadoda ekunyuseni izinga lezemfundo, ngokwemali engenayo.
Kwimeko yekhaya, naye, akuyiyo yonke into yokuzola. Ibhinqa isetyenziswe ekubeni yinkokeli emsebenzini, kwaye uzama ukwenza okufanayo ekhaya, ukwenza izinto ngendlela yakhe. Lo mfazi waqala ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi, indoda ngokuchaza, ngokuzimela. Ukulahleka okukhulu kubo bobabini boba kukuba le ntokazi yazimelela, kwaye oku kubangela ukuba uyeke ukuva ukuba ufuna ukukhusela indoda kunye nelelo lakhe.
Ngenxa yokuba umntu akayiva isidingo semisebenzi yakhe yesilisa, akayiva i mfuneko yakhe, ngoko ke akaveki ukuba kufuneka abe yindoda yangempela. Ukuze uhambelane ngakumbi nomsebenzi owenziwe, umfazi ufumana iimpawu zomntu zobuntu. Oku kuthetha ukulahleka kobhinqa, okwenziwe kwintengiso yesetyhini kunye nesithandwa sowesifazane. Ibhinqa ligxininiswa, kukho ukwesaba xa ezama ukuthatha uxanduva lomntu ekufuneka asithathe. Oku kuphazamisa ukulahlekelwa koxolo olubalulekileyo kunye oluyimfuneko olufunekayo ukudala intsapho eyonwabileyo. Ukuba ibhinqa lichitha ixesha elininzi kunye namandla okwenza umsebenzi ojoliswe kumadoda, ulahlekelwa kuye loo mi sebenzi ebalulekileyo eyimfuneko yowesifazane. Ngenxa yoko, yonke intsapho ilahlekelwa.
Kwintsapho yaphumelela kwaye iyavuya, umfazi kufuneka akhumbule ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba indoda yintloko yentsapho, isondlo kunye nomkhuseli. Ubumnandi bomyeni ngokuthe ngqo kuxhomekeke kwindlela enza ngayo indima yakhe yindoda kwintsapho, kwaye nokuba uziva uncedo lwakho, imfuno yakho yentsapho. Mshiye loo mntu ithuba lokukhokela intsapho, yenza umsebenzi wesilisa endlwini, unikeze yonke into oyifunayo kunye nosapho. Kuphela isidingo esikhulu kunokukuvumela ukuba uhambe ngaphaya kwemida yemisebenzi yakho kwaye wenze umsebenzi wesilisa.
Musa ukulindela kubantu abaphelelekileyo ekusebenzeni indima yakhe yindoda. Uza kulungela wena kunye nendoda, ukuba awuyi kuthatha i-carp kwiimfumba kwaye uphazamise imisebenzi yakhe. Ukuba ujamelene neengxaki, kwaye indoda ayisebenzisi imisebenzi yakhe yesintu njengomkhuseli, akufanele ukhalaze. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba uthe nje unengxaki, uchaze ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo intsingiselo ebalulekileyo yengxaki kunye nokuba yiyiphi imiphumo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ngumbuzo: "Ziziphi iingcinga zakho kule ngxaki? Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko? ". Ngaloo ndlela, uya kumxelela ukuba uyintloko yentsapho, unike ubunzima bakho kumntu wakho, kwaye oku kuya kuba sisihlandlo esihle sokuba umntu azive efunekayo. Utshintsho lunokuthabatha ixesha elide, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba unomonde kwimeko apho indoda ingayithathi ingxaki emva kokumxelela yonke into.
Ukuqala kwenguqu kunokubeka udumo lomntu. Indima yendoda ayilula ukwenza lula kwaye kungekudala uya kuqonda ukuba kutheni. Umvuzo omkhulu kumntu uya kuba yindumiso yakho. Musa ukuzisola ngamazwi okubulela. Isiphumo siya kuba sikhulu kunokuba umntu efumana umvuzo womsebenzi. Yaye ungakulibala ukuba uzalisekise ngokufanelekileyo nangokuziphendulela uxanduva lwakho lokuhlela ikhaya. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kukwazi ukubeka umgca ocacileyo phakathi kwemisebenzi yendoda nomfazi, kwaye uncede ukuphatha ngempumelelo imicimbi yamadoda kumadoda.
Ukuba awucacisi ngokucacileyo indima yamadoda kunye neyesifazana, oko kusongela imisebenzi. Emva koko indoda iyaqala ukwenza inxalenye yomsebenzi wesetyhini, kwaye loo ntokazi-yindoda. Yonke inokulungiswa, ukuba ukuhanjiswa kweendima zisesigxina, kodwa kwimeko xa kwenzeka rhoqo, ngoko ukunyaniseka kwentsapho kuyingozi.
Kwimfundo yabantwana, kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela ukuphuhliswa kwezakhiwo zemvelo ngokuchongwa ngokwesondo, kwaye oko kufuneka bakubonelele kubazali ngokufanelekileyo imifanekiso yendoda kunye nomfazi ngenxa yabo. Ekusebenzeni kwendima yakhe yamantombazana, umama ubonisa umfanekiso wakhe wesicatshulwa. Xa eqhuba imicimbi yabasetyhini kunye nothando olunokuthi luba ngowomfazi kuphela, xa ehamba ngeengubo zowesifazane, enomdla ngokunyamekela abantwana, efezekisa imisebenzi yakhe yasendlini, emva koko ekhangele, abantwana bayayifaka umfanekiso wesifazana. Xa yena, ekusebenzeni kwemisebenzi yakhe, enqabisa ukwaneliseka ngobomi bakhe nangolonwabo, umfazi unceda abantwana bakhe batyeke umfanekiso omhle wobuntombi.
Xa abantwana bebona ku-ntloko yenkokeli enamandla, xa uyise ebonisa imisebenzi yakhe njengomgcini wesondlo kunye nomkhuseli ekusebenzeni, xa ethatha uxanduva ngokuzithemba, ngelixa enandipha into eyenzekayo, le nto ibangela umhlaba ocebileyo wokuphuhlisa iimpawu ezinjalo kubantwana kwaye ube ngumzekelo wekamva umyeni kumantombazana. Amantombazana aya kutsalwa kubhinqa, kunye namakhwenkwe - ukuba abe nesibindi kwimeko xa intsapho ibonakala ngokucacileyo kwimifanekiso yamadoda nabasetyhini.
Ukuba intsapho ayifaki njengoko ichongiwe ngokwemvelo, xa kungekho mida ecacileyo phakathi kokusasazwa kwemisebenzi, oku kuya kuba yingxaki enkulu. Ngokwezibalo zamakhaya apho iimbopheleleko zamadoda nabasetyhini zazingekho, kwakukho iziganeko zobungqingili. Abantwana kwiintsapho ezinemigangatho efanayo abazange bakwazi ukufumana ingcamango ethile yemisebenzi yamadoda kunye neyowesifazana, kwaye babengenalo impawu yokuxelisa.
Inkqubo yemfundo iya kufundisa abantwana izinto ezininzi eziya kubanceda baphumelele ngokuphumelelayo ubomi ukuze bavuye. Nangona kunjalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu abantwana abangayifunda kwintsapho yinkwenkwe ukuba ibe nesibindi, kwaye intombazana ibe yintombi.