Njengomthetho, amadoda, nangona ukukhulelwa komfazi kucetywayo, usabele kwiindaba malunga nokuzaliswa kwentsapho ngokukhawuleza kwaye kungalindelekanga. Ngendlela, ngokuqhelekileyo oku kungakhokelela ekubonakalisweni okungaqinisekiyo kwemvakalelo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba abaninzi abafazi baqala ukuziva besaba ukuxelela wabo othandekayo malunga neendaba ezivuyayo. Kwaye ukuze lo "myalezo" ube novuyo ngokwenene kwaye ukhunjulwe ngumyeni wakho kunye nawe ixesha elide, sikunike icebiso eluncedo.
Iimveli zenkcubeko kwaye akukho mvelaphi
Enye yeendlela ezilula ukuwazisa amadoda malunga nokukhulelwa sisitatimende esilula solu cwangciso: "Ndikhulelwe!". Kodwa kuphela ukuthetha oku kumyeni wakhe kuyimfuneko ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Enye indlela yokuziphatha yokuzalwa nokujonga indlela yokukhulelwa kukuqwalasela ukuqokelela "intlanganiso yeentsapho kunye nokuvuma ngokucacileyo phambi kwentsapho yonke." Umzekelo, umele ukamema zonke izihlobo kwaye awuyikulibala malunga nomyeni wakho, xa ulungiselele yonke intsapho yokutya. Kulo sidlo, ungabonisa iindaba zokukhulelwa kwakho. Ngokwendlela, ke akudingeki ukuba uzalise izihlobo kunye ngamnye ngamnye ukuba abike ngokuzaliswa okucwangcisiweyo kwintsapho yakho.
Ufuna ukuba yinto yokuqala!
Ukuba ufuna ukuxelela umyeni wakho malunga nokukhulelwa kwifom yangaphezulu, ngoko kutheni ungenzi njengesipho? Umzekelo, mnike isipho kwiphakheji enkulu, apho kuya kubakho ukupakishwa okungaphantsi, kwaye ngoko-mgaqo we "matryoshka". Kule phakheji yokugqibela encinane kufuneka ubeke izibhengezo, apho kuya kuba luvavanyo lokukhulelwa nesiphumo esihle. Nanku kuwe indlela engavamile yokuthetha ngokukhulelwa kunye nenjongo ekhangayo.
Ngoxa uncedo lweengcambu zezingane, unokubetha enye inketho. Umzekelo, thumela njengepelule kumyeni wakho. Ukongeza kumanqaku kuwo kufuneka kubekho inqaku ngala mazwi: "Ndiza kudala!".
Unokuxelela kwakhona ngesimo sakho esibucayi ngoncedo lweposikhadi. Amakhadi anjalo anakho ukuhanjiswa, ukuqokelela zonke iindlobano zesidlo sangokuhlwa. Ngaloo mzuzwana, ubuso obumnandi beentsapho buya kukhanyisa umoya kwaye unike iqabane lakho ulwandle olunemizwa ekhuthazayo, evuya kuwe.
Ngendlela, sonke siyazi intsomi yezingane malunga ne-stork izisa abantwana, kwaye ukuba ayikwazi ukunyamekela kuye, ngoko unokukhangela umntwana kwiklabishi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, awuyi kuzisa intaka endlwini, kodwa unokubetha i-khabichi. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uthenge intloko yeklabishi uze wenze udidi lwalo, usebenzisa uvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Ukwakhiwa okunjalo ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda lakho iqabane ukuba liqonde ukuba kungekudala uza kuba nguyise.
Olunye uhlobo oluphambili lwamaTekhthi okanye iguggi apho ungenza khona umyalezo kwimiyalelo ngala mazwi: "Ndiza kuba ngubaba!" Okanye "uBawo uyandiqhayisa!", "Ndiya kuba ngubawo!" Okanye into enye, into ebalulekileyo kukubonisa fantasy.
Ukuba unayo i-photoshop, thabatha umfanekiso apho ufaniswa khona nesisu uze usayine: "Uza kuba ngubaba!". Ngendlela, unokwenza upende lo mzobo.
Ewe, ukuba uye waba nexesha lokuya kwi-ultrasound ngaphandle kovavanyo lokukhulelwa, sebenzisa oku kwaye ubonise i-albhamu yezithombe ozifunayo. Le albhamu ingaquka iifoto ezivela kumhlobo wakho wokuqala, imitshato kunye nexesha eliqaqambileyo lobomi obudibeneyo, kunye nesithoso se-ultrasound yokuqala kufuneka sigqitywe kunye nohambo lwezithombe.
Unomdla kwisihloko kunye neefoto? Emva koko nenye indlela yokuxelela iqabane lakho ukuba uya kuba nguyise. Mcele ukuba athathe umfanekiso wakhe, kodwa esikhundleni sokuthi "Omnye, ezimbini, ezintathu," zithi "ndikhulelwe!". Ngelo xesha, awuyikutshitshisa nje ikhoboka lakho elithembekileyo, kodwa uya kukwazi ukubamba le mzuzwana.
Nceda umxelele umyeni wakhe ukuba umyalezo onomdla unokutsalwa kwisisu sakhe "Nantsi ngoku uhlala usana" okanye "Tata, nceda!".
Yaye indlela yokugqibela yokugqibela kukuthenga ummangaliso-ukumangaliswa. Emva koko kufuneka uchithe ngokucokisekileyo, ulwahlule zibe ngamacandelo amabini, kwaye endaweni yesitotyi kwisitya, ubeke kwi-tested folded or note. Emva koko kufuneka "ulale" iqanda uze ulinike lona iqabane lakho. Olu khetho lokubonisa iindaba zakho iqabane liyakuyixabisa.