1. U xanduva.
Umgaqo wokuqala kunye obaluleke kakhulu kuwo wonke umgangatho osebenzayo ugcinwa uxanduva. Kuthetha ukuphendula kungekuphela kwakho nakwizenzo zakho, kodwa nakwabo ababuthathaka, abancike kuwe okanye abo bangenakuzimela. Kwaye ukungakhathaleli, ukungabikho komsebenzi kunye nesimo sobutyebi akusayi kunceda umntu abe ngumntu ophumelele ngakumbi.
2. Musa ukuyeka!
Amandla okuzisa umsebenzi ekugqibeleni kuyimfuneko, uyaziwa kubo bonke. Kodwa bambalwa abantu bacinga ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukuqala umsebenzi ofanayo ukususela ekuqaleni. Xa into ephuka, xa izicwangciso zitshatyalaliswa, xa zingasebenzi ekuqaleni, kubonakala ngathi yinto elula - konke oku kufuna idolophi elithile eliza kuvumela ukuqala ngokuphindaphindiweyo kude kubekho umphumo owanelisayo.
3. Ngaphandle kwesiphoso.
Imisebenzi efanelekileyo kukuba, umzekelo, ukukwazi ukugxeka abanye ngeempazamo okanye ngokwabo. Umva wecala unciphisa kakhulu nayiphi na intuthuko, ngaphandle koko, kunokukwenza ukuba unikwe imisebenzi eninzi. Umntu ophumelelayo uyaqonda ukuba omnye umntu akakwazi ukumgxeka ngeempazamo zakhe, kodwa yena uzama ukuzivumela ukuba azixolise yena, kuba wonke umntu wenza amaphutha. Kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu owaziyo ukuhlangabezana nabo.
4. Iphupha.
Iingcamango zinomdla kakhulu. Ewe, ukuba uqhubeka uguqa emafini onke amaxesha, umngcipheko wokubanjelwa ebomini ngokwenene ukhulu. Kodwa umntu ongenako ukuphupha, akayi kufezekisa iziphumo ezintle kwiinto zonke, kuba, eneneni, akanayo into yokuzama.
5. Uqikelelo.
Okumangalisa kukuba, abantu abadala abadala baphila njengokuba basaya esikolweni. Ukuba ufuna ukuvuya kwaye uphumelele, kuya kufuneka unikezele umnqweno wokuba uxabise nganye yezenzo zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha umbono wezinye umntu ubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ukugxekwa kunye nokudumisa kudla ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kubalulekile ukugxila kwimvakalelo yakho, kungekhona kwimbono yomntu.
6. Ukuzidla.
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba bayayazi kwaye bayazi kakhulu kangangokuthi abananto nto yokufunda - kungabikho kwabanye, nakubomi. Ukuzikhusela kukukhokelela ekubeni, ekugqibeleni, baphumelele ngabantu abangabonakaliyo abangazange banqikaze ukubuza iingcali zeengcali ukuba zithathe iikhosi kubafundisi abalungileyo. Imikhwa emihle - oku, kubandakanywa, ukukwazi ukuphuhlisa, kunokuba uphumule kwiimpahla zakho zokuzilahla.
7. Ixesha.
Ixesha, njengesihlabathi, ngokukhawuleza ligeleza ngeminwe yakho, kwaye awukwazi ukuyibuyisela. Ukuba ufuna ukusebenza ngokuphumelelayo, phu melela kwaye ungachithanga ixesha, ngoko kuya kufuneka ufunde ukulawula ixesha. Abaninzi bavumela ixesha ukulawula. Ulungelelwano oluchanekileyo lomsebenzi nokuzilibazisa, ukuzithiba nokuziphatha - oko kuya kunceda nabani na ukuphumeza iziphumo ezinkulu ngexabiso eliphantsi.
8. I zizathu.
Imikhwa efanelekileyo kukuba akukho zizathu. Abalahlekelwayo kuphela bakholelwa ukuba le mpahla yaphuka, kuba loo mini kwakukho into embi, abangazange bayigcine. Okanye ukuba ishishini elitsha alizange lisebenze, kuba akusona ixesha okwamanje. Akukho xesha elingcono nelona lifanelekileyo, into ekhoyo ngoku, kwaye akukho mpawu emibi okanye emihle eya kunceda okanye ithintele ukuphumelela impumelelo.
Imilinganiselo efanelekileyo - uncedo oluhle nakweyiphi na inzame. Siyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba kungcono ukuba sikwazi ukuqhuba ukuqhuma kunokushunya, kodwa asiyi kukhumbula rhoqo ukuba i-psyche yethu kunye nesimo sethu sinemikhwa emihle nembi efuna ukulungiswa. Ukuba awulandelanga impilo yakho kuphela, kodwa kunye nemvakalelo yakho kunye neengcamango, imikhwa efanelekileyo iya kuqhuba ngokukhawuleza ekujoliswe kuyo.