Ngesondo? Akukho ngxaki!
Ukuxhamla kwezoqoqosho, iingxaki ngemali, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa yimisebenzi yabo - ukususela kulo xinzelelo, waphelelwa ngokupheleleyo umnqweno? Hayi! Kwakuyinkxalabo ekugqibeleni yabonisa amadoda ukuba kwakuza kufuneka afume ngokugqithiseleyo ukuze afumane into ethile. Kwaye le nto ingakhathazeki kuphela. Xa sicinga ukuba abafazi baye bazimelele ngakumbi kwaye banokuzithemba, ubulili obuqinileyo kufuneka bubonise ingcamango kunye nendlela engavamile yokumangalela ebhedeni. Umbuzo uvela - bafumana phi ukuphefumlelwa? Iimvumi zoononophelo, amaphephancwadi angama-erotic - kutheni? Iingcamango eziye zahlolisiswa ngamanye amaxesha zikhokelela ekuhloliseni kunye nokuzivakala kwamnandi kokubili. Yaye ungesabi ukuba iimfuno zakho ziphezulu kakhulu-ukuzonwabisa kwesondo kufuneka kufunyanwe ngamaqabane omabini, ngoko-thabatha ezandleni zakho uze umbonise ukuba ufuna njani ukuba angene embhedeni. Emva koko makamkele inyathelo kwaye aqinisekise ukuba isifundo asizange size.
Ulungelelaniso ndawonye ngaphandle kwendlu yedwa
Iindaba ezimbi: ngokwezibalo, ama-63% amadoda angaphantsi kweminyaka engama-26 ahlala ekhaya kunye nomama. Kodwa kukho okulungileyo: 46% yamadoda alungele ukuhlala phantsi kophahla olulodwa kunye nokuthanda kwabo emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zokutyelela. Kwaye uya kuvuya ukufunda ukuba abaninzi abantu bafuna ukuhlala kwindawo engama-120 m kwaye bachithe ama-ruble amawaka angama-40 kwimeko yekhaya labo-isisombululo esihle kwiingxaki zezindlu, akunjalo?
Ukulingana? Ewe, kwaye akukho
Abaphathi bamakhosikazi, abafazi abahloniphekileyo, ngaba u-Alice wayesesifumana kwiLizwe Lemimangaliso, kwaye uluntu ekugqibeleni lwaqonda ukuba imbono "yobundlobongela obuthathaka" ayikho? Ngokomphando weYunivesithi yaseHeidelberg, abantu babini kwisithathu bafuna ukufumana amalungelo alinganayo kunye nabasetyhini babo, kwaye kuphela umntu wesithathu kuphela okholelwa ukuba uluntu lwethu lusetyhini. Kodwa lawa onke amagama. Ubomi bokwenene, ngokukhawuleza ukuba imicimbi yemihla ngemihla ivela kwi-ajenda (ngubani oya kuguqula umntwana we-diaper okanye ukupheka isidlo, okanye uhlambe umgangatho), amadoda, nangaphezulu kwabo bonke ootata abatshatileyo bentsapho, babalekele isigqibo sabo, bafumane izizathu ezininzi kunye nemiba ephuthumayo. Njengoko umkhuba ubonisa, ngokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala, ukukhululwa kwintsapho nganye kuyaphela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi bayayinyamekela inzala. Ngendlela, amadoda atshatiweyo, ngokungafani nalabo abahlala ngaphandle kwesitampu kwiipassports zabo, bafuna ukubona ukusabalaliswa kwabo kwemveli kwiintsapho zabo: indoda iyona isondlo kunye nesondlo, kunye nomfazi ngumgcini wekhaya.
Umthandi ongenamdla
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngobunye ubusuku kuyindlela enhle yokuphepha ukucaciswa okucacileyo kobudlelwane kunye needrama. Indoda engatshatanga namhlanje ikhetha ukulala ngesondo ngaphandle kokuzibophezela. Oku akuthethi ukuba utshintsha amantombazana ubusuku bonke. Kuphela nje ukuba wakha ubudlelwane bakhe nabasetyhini ngendlela engayithatha uxanduva kwaye ayinciphisi inkululeko yakhe.
Yakhe iminqweno
Nabani na othethile, kodwa siyazi ngokuqinisekileyo: kungakhathaliseki ukuba sinokuziqonda njani ukuba ihlabathi lethu elityebi liyinqobo, sonke siyafana njalo kwi nyaniso yamandulo: indoda, yokuqala, iyayithanda amehlo akhe. Ngako oko, awukwazi ukufunda iPetrarch in original, kodwa kufuneka ube ne-manicure, i-pedicure, i-epilation egciniweyo kwaye kungekhona kuphela.
- Ama-36% wamadoda athande xa ibhinqa lizinwele ezinde
- Amadoda angama-9 kwabangama-10 afana neenwele zeBrazil ezisuswa kwiqabane
- Amaphesenti ama-27 amabhinqa anamaqabunga ekhanda elicolileyo kwaye alungele ukucheba rhoqo
- 73% bajonga ukungabikho kwezikhwebu esikhumbeni ngokwabo nakwiqabane elihlambulukileyo
- 45% baqwalasele lo wesondo
- Ama-43% alungele ukwenza ukubethelwa kwisifuba, umva kunye nemilenze ngenxa yeqabane
Ingxowa okanye ubomi?
Ngokwe-poll ngu-Emnid, i-23% yamadoda yayiza kubingelela unyaka wobomi babo kwi-euro yezigidi. Kwaye kuphela i-17% yabasetyhini abaya kuvuma loo mcimbi.
Wathanda kwakhona i-pyshechki
Ukunyaniseka okuqhelekileyo ekugqibeleni kukugqibeleni kubangela imibhikisho. Iimodeli, abafoto beefoto kunye namaphephancwadi bayalwa ngokukhawuleza "ukwesaba okukhulu" kwaye bethenda kwiqondo eliqhelekileyo. Wonke umntu uthanda ukubuyela kumfazi wesimo. Ngexesha, kwiintanethi zentlalo, kwanamaqela "asetyenziso lweefomu ezimangalisayo" zivela. Ngaphandle kokungaxhunyiwe kwi-intanethi, umgangatho ofanayo unokulandelwa: kwiphando lika-Gewis, malunga nama-70% wamadoda aqinisekisile ukuba bathanda abafazi emzimbeni kwaye ama-5% kuphela amadoda akhetha i-hudyshkas. Ngendlela, ngokweengxelo ezifanayo, ama-53% wamadoda akholelwa ukuba i-pyschy inomdla kakhulu, kwaye i-29% inokuqiniseka ukuba ayincinci. Ukugqithisa iinwele emzimbeni, indoda ibuye ihlale ihambelana, njengokucwangcisa umsebenzi, ukuvisisana naye, okungeke kuthiwa ngamantombazana abo alahlekelwa yiyo. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, iindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu - zityhila ubudlelwane obuchanekileyo phakathi kweqondo kunye nexesha lokuvuswa komntu ekucingweni komfazi. Kuyavela ukuba iifoto kunye nabanikazi beefom ezinobungcambu zikhuthaza amadoda ngakumbi kwaye, kubalulekile, ngokukhawuleza kunokuba kucatshulwa kwamantombazana anomfanekiso wamakhwenkwe.
Musa ukuthetha nantoni na, thandeka!
Kukho izinto azingaboniyo aze azilahle iindlebe. Umzekelo, ibali lakho malunga nesigqoko esitsha okanye ibali lenkonzo yentsapho yakho. Kwaye kukho into ayifuni ukuva kuyo nayiphi na ibhinqa. Akukho. Nantsi ukulinganisa kweyona nto engathandekiyo kwimibandela yamagama endoda ekulungele ukususa kwisicatshulwa sakho: "Andikulungele ulwalamano", "Masihlale sihlobo", "Akunjalo wena, mna", "Awuzange uliphulaphule".
Isondlo esifanelekileyo
Borsch kwiiyayile, iizambane ezidibeneyo kunye no-anyanisi okwesibini kwaye usebenzise i-dessert. Ukususela ebuntwaneni bokuqala sifunda ngokucacileyo imbono elula: "Indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele esiswini sayo." Ngoko ke, xa sikhula, sizungeze abameli bentsebenzo yesini esomeleleyo, sinonophelo, sinomdla kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, sizama ukubondla ngokufanelekileyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngabaphandi baseNtshona nakwababhinqa bathi, siyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba isigaba sinokuthi sibe ngumbala we-colorblind kwaye singaphenduli kwiingubo ezibomvu, kodwa akaze azilibale iipeya ezenziwe ekhaya. Kwaye kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kufuneka kubekho isongezelelo. Nangona ehlabathini lonke abantu balwa ne-cholesterol kwaye baqhuba ubomi obusebenzayo, amadoda aseRashiya, sivuyisa, ngelixa sinyanisekile kwiimfashini zefestile, kwaye umntu oyedwa kuphela kuma-30 unako ukulahla izindlu zangasese, ukhetha ijusi ye-celery kunye neqabunga isaladi. Nangona ezinye zeengcebiso zezinzulu zeNtshona zisesengcono ukuphulaphula kunye. umzekelo, zama ukubandakanya ukutya kwakhe okunye ukutya kunye nemifuno (ngaphandle kwe-asparagus, broccoli kunye nekholifulawa) - ziphucula umgangatho kunye neentlobo zentlobo, kwaye ngokubanzi zilungele impilo.
Uthando oluhle
Wonke umntu wesibini ukholelwa ukuba iqabane elifanelekileyo lingafumaneka kwi-Intanethi, nangona ukukhangela kuthatha iinyanga ezili-19. Kutheni kude kangaka? Ngethuba xa ukuzingela i-intanethi yindoda ephuphayo, ininzi amadoda iyancengela isidima sayo, kunokuba ixelele ngokukhawuleza inyaniso. Kodwa, siyavuma, nathi sihlala sisithintela ubunzima bethu.
Applied Psychology
Ngokwe-portal dating mening men are developing a whole strategy to understand the object of their desires. Abangama-63% abaphendulileyo bakholelwa ngokukratshi ukuba ekubonweni kokuqala banokuchonga ngokuchanekileyo abo bajongene nayo - i-princess, i-stocking bluhlaza okanye i-bitch. Isiqingatha samadoda siqinisekile ukuba umfazi uvula ubuso bakhe bokwenene kuluntu xa ebonisa imbeko yakhe. Nangona iinkqubo azibukela kwiTV zingasebenza njengesiseko sezigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Kwaye awaziwa into engcono - iindaba okanye "Dom-2". Isiphetho sokugqibela, nangona kunjalo, bahlala belala. Umntu ngamnye wesihlanu ucinga ukuba umntu unokukwazi ukuba nolwazi olusenyongweni. Kwaye apha isondo ekhuselekileyo ithola intsingiselo entsha!
Ngenyameko, ukungaqondi kakuhle
Inyaniso yokuba amadoda ngokuzithandela axelela umngane wabo omncinci amancentimitha angaphezulu. bonke baye baziwa ixesha elide. Kodwa into yokuba abanandaba malunga nokukhuselwa, ngathi indaba. Ngokutsho kweso sifundo seKinsey Institute, i-45% yamadoda athi ayifumananga neikhondom ezazisetyenziswa kwiinyanga ezintathu zokugqibela. Oku bubunye ubungqina bokuba amadoda athenge iikondom ubukhulu obukhulu, ngaphantsi kwefuthe leefilimu zeefayili kunye nemifanekiso eqingqiweyo - abanalo ingcamango malunga nobukhulu bokwenene besithunzi sabo kwaye xa bethenga baphumelela ukucinga. Imiphumo yezinto ezinjalo ziyabulala - iikhondom azihambelani, zidiliza okanye zitshintshile ngexesha elibi kakhulu.