Amava ambi.
Ukuba indoda ihlukanisile, isizathu esingazange sitshatile unokuba ngumntu obomi bentsapho engashiyikanga iimbuliso ezimnandi. Mhlawumbi ukhumbula umfazi wakhe owayengumfazi omnandi kunye nentombazana ethandekayo, owayenomdla ngaphambi kokuba umtshato kwaye emva kwexesha elide, kodwa eyona nto yayiphezu kobushushu boqobo, apho aphefumula khona iinyawo zakhe. Mkholise ukuba awunjalo, akuyi kuba lula. Amanye amagama akwanele apha, kodwa kunoko bubungqina obunzima, ngaphandle kokuqinisekisa ixesha, akukho. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bunzulu, kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye ulinde ade anelisekile ukuba ixesha alizange lenzile kuwe elincinci kakhulu. Kulo mzekelo kuyakunceda ukufumana isizathu sokuqhawula umtshato, ukungaphumeleli komfazi owayengumfazi kwaye uzame nzima ukuba ungafani naye kwaye ungenzi iimpazamo zakhe.
Abantwana.
Kukho ukhetho oluninzi: unabantwana obubuhlobo abengafuni ukuba noxanduva lwakhe okanye unabantwana abesabayo ukuzithoba kuye. Okanye omnye wenu akafuni ukuba nabantwana. Kwezinye iimeko kubangelwa ngabantwana ababa isikhubekiso kunye nesizathu sendawo. Ukuba kuyacaca ukuba kutheni engatshatanga, ukuba neembono zakhe ngale ngxaki, akusoloko kucacile. Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo. Ayikho imimiselo yendawo yonke apha, ukuvunyelwa kwinqanaba lakho akusoloko kunokwenzeka. Ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba, okukhethileyo kukuphelisa ubudlelwane kunye nokukhangela iqabane oza kudibana nalo mbono oqhelekileyo malunga nokuba nabantwana, inani labo nesimo sengqondo kubantwana abasuka kwimitshato yangaphambili.
Imali.
Kukholelwa ukuba amadoda akhathaleli ukuba umfazi ufumana phi. Kodwa oku akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Omnye ufumana ubunzima xa ubomi bakhe buhlala ekhaya kwaye alusebenzi, umntu akayithandi ukuba umfazi wenza imali eninzi. Akubona bonke abantu bavuma ukutsala ngokupheleleyo umxholo wentsapho, njengoko bengavumi ukuba bahlale kwindawo yesibili kule nkalo. Kufuneka usebenze ngesiseko sezinto ezidakisayo - imali okanye ukungabikho kwazo. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukuba usebenze, oku akunzima. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngoxa uncedo lwakho, umvuzo ofuziselayo utsho, ukwanele ukuba umntu uxakeke ngento ethile ngaphandle kwemiboniso yeTV kunye nokupheka. Ukuba isibini sithandwa ngumfazi, kwaye indoda ayinakunqikazeka, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba isigqibo esilungileyo siya kuba sishiye isikhundla sakhe. Kungcono ukumnceda ukuba azifumene kwaye abe nemali kakhulu njengoko iinjongo zakhe zivumela.
Abazali.
Ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu sokuba angatshatanga kunokuba nobuhlobo obunzima kunye nezihlobo. Akunandaba nokuba kukho ukuphambana nomama wakho okanye nomama ngawe - kusoloko ingxaki. Ayikho enye indlela yokuphuma, ngaphandle kwesigqibo sokwakha ubudlelwane babo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwezihlobo, kungabandakanyi nembono yokuhlala kunye nabo.
Inkululeko.
Amadoda ayesaba ukulahlekelwa inkohliso yenkululeko abonakala babenayo. Le mibuthano yendabuko kunye nabahlobo, ubudlelwane obulula kunye namantombazana oyithandayo, ukungabikho kwindlu ngaphandle kweenkcazo. Ukuba awuzange uqedele indoda yamadoda, ukuba umntu uyayixabisa ubuhlobo bakho, ngoko amantombazana angase apheliswe ebomini bakhe, kodwa kungcono ukuba ungaphazamisi nabahlobo. Ekugqibeleni, uyazazi ixesha elide, kwaye mhlawumbi uncinci. Kuxhomekeke kumfazi ukuba ingaba umntu uya kukhululeka kwaye ingaba uya kuba nomnqweno wokubuyela ekhaya, engalali kunye nesinye intombi.
Xa ebuzwa ukuba kutheni engatshatanga, kukho iimpendulo ezikhulu ezahlukeneyo. Ngamanye amaxesha isizathu esinokuba sisenokungafuni ukujonga umfazi ongenakho ukuzaliswa ngokupheleleyo, ngamanye amaxesha ukwesaba ukungafezekisi umyalelo wakho wokuhlala kunye kunye kunye nokuba rhoqo umfazi angathanda. Amadoda ahlala ehamba nantoni na, kuphela ukugcina intombi yabo yepaspoti ihlambulukile. Musa ukukhawuleza, cinezela kwaye ugxininise umtshato. Esi sigqibo sinokutshatyalaliswa nje ngothando lwenu, ukunyamekela kunye nokungabikho kwezo mpazamo ezibuhlungu eziza kubakho abafazi besabekayo kwiingcamango zakhe. Ukuba ufunda iminqweno yakhe kunye nezinto ezithandayo, yenza ngokunyamekileyo nangokungaqhelekanga, ngoko umnyango weofisi yokubhalisa uya kuvula ngisho ne-bachelor enzima kakhulu.