Ziziphi iintlobo zabasetyhini abazenzayo ngaphandle kwezesondo?

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngenye yeempawu apho umntu anquma ukuba umfazi angakhanga njani umdla. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo abaziqondi izinto ezinokubenza baziphathe ngokwesondo, kwaye eziza kubangela ukuba bahlukane nabalingani.


Ngezantsi, siza kubhala uluhlu lwezinto, izinto, izicwangciso zomntu ngamnye emfanekisweni wowesifazane owenza ukuba angabonakali ngoluvo lwabagxeka kakhulu - amadoda. Okumangalisa kukuba, ixesha elichazweyo li-banal-banal, ukuba akucaci ukuba abanye abafazi abaqondi ukuba ukugqoka ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kubonisa ukuziphatha okukhethekileyo, kuphelisa nje i-muzhchin.

Ukubonakala okubonakalayo

Ukungabonakaliyo, ngokwembono yamadoda, iinwele ezinokungahlambulukanga zikhangeleka, ngaphandle kwendlela ethile, ekhuniweyo, isikhumba esinyanyisiweyo, izinto ezingenakunyulwa, ukungabikho kwesinye okanye amaqhosha amaninzi, izicathulo ezingcolileyo. Musa ukuhambisa i-flash kunye ne-flashy, i-makeup ayiyiyo. Kuyafana nokungabikho kwakhe ngokupheleleyo kuloo matyala xa isikhumba singapheleleki.

Ngokwemvelo, ukuba intombazana sele igijime kwivenkile elisondeleyo ngaphandle kokwenza okanye ngokukhangela izambatho zakhe, ayikho into yokukhathazeka ngayo - wonke umntu uyaqonda ukuba kunzima ukugqibelela yonke imihla. Awukuba ukuba iimpahla ezinjalo zingena kumkhwa, akukho nto entle kwaye kufuneka umntu acinge ukuba abantu, njengamathole eenkomo ezintathu, abaqapheli nantoni na. Ewe, bambalwa kakhulu kubo baqonda iingxaki zokuzenza kunye nokwenza umqubu, ukubonakala okutsha, okungahoywa ngumntu kuya kuphazamisa nabani na.

Gcina iliso kumfanekiso!

Akukho mibuzo engaphantsi malunga namanani. Ukuba ibhinqa lithembele ekuzaleni kwaye bonke abameli besiganeko esihle sentsapho yakho babezikhukhumeza, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uyeke ukulandela ubunzima bakho. Ngokwemvelo, ngamnye wethu unikezwe ngeendlela ezihlukeneyo ngokwemvelo, kodwa kuphela abafazi abaneempawu ezibonakalayo abanokubonisa iimpawu zabo. Abanye bafanele baqonde ukuba kufuneka baqoke ngokukhawuleza iimpahla ezingakwazi ukufihla ukungaphumeleli. Ngokomzekelo, amadoda akakwazi ukuma i-brap-bra, ekhangele phantsi ngaphantsi kwee-T-shirts kwaye engadluli kuwo onke amanqanaba angenakwenzeka ukuba athabathe nabani na. Kuyafana neendwangu zokudonsa abafazi abazithandayo ukugqoka ngamanani afane nekiso.

Ngaba kuyinyaniso ukuba imigaqo echazwe ayikho kuwe? Kodwa kutheni ke ngezitrato unako ukudibanisa unxibe, ungenakunqwenela ukuphulaphula iingcebiso zabathengi?

Ukuyicombulula le ngxaki ilula kakhulu: kunele ukuzinyamekela kwaye ungaqalisi inkqubo. Ngokwemvelo, asikhulumi ngento yokuba ibhinqa kufuneka liye kwivenkile, lihamba ngokuziqhenya kwi-stilettos kwaye ihlale lilibale ukuba yiyiphi i-sneakers. Ukongezelela, unokwakheka kakuhle kunye ne-nevonya ukuze ubhekane nekhigram yesiseko okanye ipowder, ungayifaki i-gubyarenko-ebomvu yomlomo kwaye ugqoke iimpahla eziqhelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqinisekise ukuba iimfumba, i-manicure kunye neengubo zifanelekile kwaye zinike ukuzithemba. Ndikholelwe, amadoda aya kukuxabisa!

Ukuba iqela lesibini ngesinye sezizathu litshintshile, kufuneka ukwazi ukuliva ngexesha kwaye utshintshe ikhabethe yakho. Umzekelo, imeko ihlala ikhona xa ibhinqa elikhulile ngeli xesha lizama ukuzenzele kwi-miniskirt, njengokuba yayingaphambi kokukhulelwa. Ndikholelwe, madoda, ekuboneni ukungaqondi kakuhle okunjalo, kunye namacala abo ekhupha iingubo zabo, kunye neengcambu eziphakamisa isikhwama senqatha, akukho nto Kuhle ukulungisa intombazana enjalo ayiyi kucinga. Enye into ukuba umfazi olahlekelwe ngumntu wakhe wangaphambili ekugqibeleni uza kubuya kwiifom zangaphambili. Emva koko unokucinga ngezinto ezihlehliselwe ixesha.

Musa ukuzithandayo? Musa ukuzijonga ngeengcinga zabantu!

Ukuba umfazi oyinyaniso uphambi komntu, unokubukela ubuhle bakhe ngeeyure. Kwaye ke apha asikhulumi nje ngomtsalane wangaphandle - intombazana kufuneka ibonise ukuba uyayithanda ubomi kwaye uyazi indlela yokuzonwabisa ngayo. Ngaphandle koko, bhala i-nato, ukuba abantu bayakuxabisa ubuhle kunye nobulili, akufanelekanga.

Ayikho imfihlelo emva kokuba konke nawuphi na umfazi onokuyonwabela i-mink coat, imimoya ephathekayo okanye imoto entsha, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokuzonwabisa kwiitya zokutya eziqhelekileyo ngokutya inkezo yokubhema iwayini edibeneyo esitratweni esityebileyo. Ukuba ibhinqa liqaphele umnqweno wokuzibhaptiza kuye, ukuzivalela kwabanye, iingcamango zakhe azijolise kwizinto ezenzekayo apha kwaye ngoku, ngoko sinokugqiba ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba le nto ayikho into enomdla kuye. Kwaye amadoda anxibelelana nabo, inxalenye yendawo efanayo, apho lona wesifazane engabonakali umdla. Ngaba ucinga ukuba ubuhle obunjalo buza kubangalisa ingqalelo yomntu wonke?

Amadoda ayamangalisi ukuba ibhinqa lingaqhenqabisi, lisoloko litshitshisa, liloyiko lokubonisa iimvakalelo zinyani. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba kukho intombazana enhle yedwa ehlezi kwi-cafe, kodwa ukubonakala kwayo kubonisa ukungabi nako ngokupheleleyo. Enyanisweni, amadoda abona umzimba phambi kwabo, owaziyo awaziwaphi apho. Kucacile ukuba akuyiyo yonke inkosana efuna ukuza kwaye iyazi malunga nelolu hlobo.

Ehlabathini levumba

Kuyaziwa ukuba umntu, nangona ephakama kwisigaba esiphambili sophuhliso, wayesoloko egcina izilwanyana ezininzi. Omnye wabo ubuchule bokukhetha iqabane elungileyo levumba. Apha asiyi kukukhumbula iinyaniso ezingekho mbalwa ukuba i-awara kufuneka ithathwe ubuncinane kanye ngosuku, kwaye xa kunokwenzeka ukuba iphunga elimnandi lisuka emlonyeni lixesha lokubuyela kwiingcali.

Ingongoma kukuba akusizo zonke iziqhumiso ziyakwazi ukutyelela ingqalelo yindoda, kuba sonke sihluke, kwaye ngenxa yoko, umntu omnye unokuthanda ukuvumba, ngelixa enye inokubangela ukuba kuqhutywe intloko. Ngoko ke, zama ukukhetha loo maqumba kunye namanzi angasese ayenziwayo.

Enye impazamo inokuqwalaselwa ngentshiseko enkulu yokuqhumisela. Ukuba uthanda isiphunga, emva kwemizuzu engama-20 ukuya kweye-30 siya kufaka kuyo kwaye siyeke ukuziva. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abanye abayiqondi. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba iphunga elikhethiweyo livela kuwe, cela abanye ukuba bacinga ntoni ngawo. Ininzi idla ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba baphumelele baphunga iphunga lakho kwaye awudingi ukuyihlaziya. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo ukuba ukuvumba akunakwenzeka. Kule meko, indoda enomdla ifuna ukuza kufutshane kwaye iphefumule ngokuthanda kweqhumiso.

Ukuba ibhinqa livutha kakhulu, i-aromatoschuschaetsya yakhe ibanga elingama-mitha ayi-100, ambalwa amadoda aya kufumana isondo.

Ulibale ngemilinganiselo yabantu

Ukuziphatha komntu, njengokukrakra okubukhali, umnqweno wokuhlangana rhoqo kwiingxabano, imfuneko yokusebenza njengamahashe e-drayra-konke oku kunokukhangela kuphela ummeli wesini oqinileyo, ngubani umphathi welo mfazi kwaye ufuna ukumcenga njengomqeshwa othembisayo.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kuyimpawu yamadoda, ibhinqa kufuneka lincinci, linyameke kwaye linyamezele. Nangona kunjalo. Ngaphandle koko, endaweni yokumbamba, indoda iya kufuneka ifake inxaxheba kunye nokuzama ukukhuphisana.

Ukubiza umnxeba - kungekhona ukusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke

Iingcali zengqondo zithetha ngokubodwa ukuba ngabafazi abathile bezakhono ezithile zangaphambili banokukwazi ukukhupha izambatho. Ukholo olulodwa lungaba ngumdlalo wesondo, apho yonke into eyamkelekileyo kwimbini ethile ivumelekile. Ngaphandle koko, izixhobo ezifana nezibhotshi eziphakamileyo, izitokisi ezitshintshiweyo, izikhumba zitshitshisa umntu.

Kufuneka ufunde indlela yokukhetha iimpahla ezifanelekileyo kakhulu kwimeko nganye.

Ukuhlalutya iingcebiso ezi ngasentla, kunokugqitywa ukuba isondo ngumfazi owaziyo ukuthambile, ubonakala kakuhle, egqoke kwindawo, usebenzisa i-perfume, amathandabu kunye nama-flirts ngobugcisa. Enyanisweni, ukuziphatha ngokwesini kukufana nomfazi okwenene.