Wonke umfazi wayejongene nobugcisa bokukhohlisa. Lo mnqweno wokukholisa abantu, ukuthabatha, ukuthabatha, ukubopha umntu, ukukhwela, njl njl. Imfihlelo yokukhwabanisa kwabasetyhini ixazululwa ngaphandle kobunzima xa umntu efumana indlela efanelekileyo kwimeko. Abafazi baye bahlala bekwazi ukusebenzisa lo bugcisa. Kodwa njani kwaye ungayisebenzisa njani ubugcisa bokukhwabanisa kwaye uyayiphumelela, ngoku siya kuthetha nawe.
Ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nokudlala ngothando
Ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nokudlala ngothando kubona izinto ezihluke ngokupheleleyo. Emva kwakho konke, unomdla nomntu onqwenelayo, kwanomntu ongazi wena nobomi bakho, ukukhupha umoya, okanye ukuqeqeshwa, mhlawumbi ukunika ubuhlobo bakho ngokucacileyo kunokwenzeka ukuhamba. Ukuba awuyidingi indoda, ngoko unokwenza udlala ngothando kunye nokulibala malunga naso.
Ukutshatyalaliswa yinkqubo eyahlukileyo, yendalo kwaye iyasebenza. Musa ukukhohliswa ngabani na, ngaphandle koko ubeka umngcipheko ukuwela othandweni nomntu. Kufuneka ube ngumxhasi. Okokuqala, kufuneka ubeke into efanelekayo, okukwenza wenze ukuba ufuna ukwakha ubudlelwane obude kunye obuqinileyo. Ewe, ukuba kwindawo efanelekileyo, phila nalo mntu wonke ubomi bakho, uze ufe kunye naloo mini. Ewe, ukuba unokucinga ukuba i-satellite owenza ngayo izicwangciso, ayiyi kutyalwa kuwe, ngoko kuya kukwanela ukuba uchithe ubuncinci kwiminyaka emibini kwinkampani yakhe. Xa usenza isigqibo malunga nezinto ezikhethiweyo, kufuneka wenze impembelelo enomntu ngalezo zindlela zonke, okufuneka ukuba zifumaneke kwi-arsenal ye-women-seducer.
Ukudlala ngothando kudinga izakhono ezithile
Iimfihlelo zobugcisa besifazane akulula ukutyhila, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Indlela yokukhohlisa umntu? Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze ugxininise kwizinto ozikhethileyo, ukuba ufanelwe ukuba naye, unomdla kwaye ufuna ukuhlala naye ebomini bakho bonke? Kulula ukuyenga umntu, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene.
Ukuze umntu abe ngowakho ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokulula, kufuneka ukwazi zonke izinto eziphathekayo kunye nezinto ezincinci zezengqondo kunye neemfihlelo zokukhwabanisa kwabesifazana, ukuze usebenze kunye nabo kwaye uhambisane nabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo wonk 'ubani wayezibuza ukuba kutheni amanye amantombazana enjengamadoda, kwaye abanye bengayithobeli. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukukhangela amadoda yilezo ntombazana ezikwazi ukuthetha nabo, kwaye akunandaba nantoni na ukuba unemizekelo yokujonga okanye ayikho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ucinga ukuba le ndlela ilula kwaye ihamba ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane kunye namadoda? Nangona kunjalo, oku kuqinisekiswa ngenzululwazi ngabafundi beengqondo, iingcali ezizama ukutyhila iimfihlelo zokukhwabanisa, kwaye nokuba nobomi ngokwayo bubonisa ukuba yonke into iyafana nale. Ukuba loo nkcazelo ikulempumelelo, kufuneka usebenzise ngokuhlakanipha. Ukuba uyazi kwaye uya kuqonda yonke i-physiology kunye neengqondo zengqondo zabantu, unokukwazi ukuphepheka ngokulula iimpazamo ezininzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, amantombazana amaninzi ayenzile phambi kwakho, ungasebenzisa ulwazi lwakho nezakhono zakho, ngelixa ukhohlisa kakhulu abaninzi abantu kunye namadoda. Kubonakala ukuba abo basetyhini, ababazi zonke iimfihlelo kunye nazo zonke iziqhelo zengqondo, abanenkinga ekusebenzelaneni namadoda, baqhagamshelana nabo ngokulula kwaye bahlala beqwalasela amadoda.
Abasetyhini bajonga ngokucacileyo ezininzi iimpawu kunye nomgangatho wesilisa, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abaphatha kakubi. Bafuna nje ukuba abafundi baphephe ukukhwabanisa, bazame ukutyhila baze babonise oko kubangelwa izenzo zamadoda, ngamaxesha athile aqondakaliyo kwabasetyhini kunye nendlela yokuthintela ukuxabana nokuhlukana. Kwaye ukubonisa abantu ukuba bangubani ngempela. Mhlawumbi xa befunda eli candelo, baya kwenza izigqibo ezithile, bavule amehlo abo kunoma yintoni na imeko, baqonde indlela yokuziphatha kunye namantombazana.
Kwimihla endala kwakukholelwa ukuba ngamnye wethu unempumelelo yakhe, ukuba intlanganiso yabantu abancinci sele sele isetyenziswe ngaphambili, engayi kugwenywa, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudibana nomlingane wakho womntu. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba ukungahambi ngokukhawuleza kungekhona ngengozi, kwaye nakwiindawo ezingafaniyo zihlala zifihliwe. Abasetyhini banamhlanje banamanye okuthandayo, abavumeli izinto zihambe ngokwazo. Ukuba ibhinqa ibeka injongo, iya kufeza yona. Abafazi abahlakaniphile kwiimeko ezinjalo banokuzuza kumava abanye abantu, kuba kulula ukufunda kwezinye iimpazamo zabanye kunokuba abakho, nabasetyhini banokusebenzisa ngokunzulu ulwazi olukhoyo.
Abasetyhini namhlanje bakhetha abaqabane, njengokuba abaninzi abafazi banomdla-abanobuchule kumadoda. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba amadoda athi intombi ifuna indoda kuphela ngeenkonzo zesondo kunye nasekhaya, kodwa kukho nabasetyhini abanjalo abathi indoda idinga ibhinqa kuphela yombhede. Kodwa kubalulekile kakhulu ukuba umntu uyindoda eyintloko, kodwa akuyena wonke umntu ofuna le nto, njengoko kuninzi lwabafazi.
Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuba ndiyidle umntu? Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba indoda ifuna ukuyilungisa kwaye imthande. Emva koko, indoda ingakwazi ukuthandana nayo. Kuhle kakhulu. Ukwenza oku, kwanele ukuvakalisa oku kunye noxanduva lonke. Eli qhinga lalisetyenziswa ngabasetyhini abaninzi, abaye baphumelela kakhulu.