Inzuzo ecacileyo yowesifazane phambi komntu


Ukubambisana kunye nokutsalana kwamadoda ngokwesini sele sele kukhulu. Ingxabano engunaphakade, onobulumko, okanye oqhuba ngcono, ufikelela ekupheleni. Ixesha lokuphawula "i" ngokuxelela oko kubonakale kuncedo kumfazi.

Iqela labaphandi elikhokelwa ngu-Godfrey Pirlson ovela kwi-Johns Hopkins Medical Institute uye wafunda ixesha elide impawu yowesifazane kunye nomzimba wesilisa. Abaphengululi bakholelwa ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo ngamadoda olawulo lwawo onke amasebe obomi bentlalo kuya kubakhokelela ekugqibeleni impucuko. Ngako oko akumangalisi ukuba abafazi bahamba ngokukhawuleza kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo bayaqonda iingcali zesilisa - ukusuka kumqhubi wetekisi ukuya kumongameli. Yaye le nkqubo yendalo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Emva koko, kwakukho ixesha kwiimbali xa abafazi babulawula ubomi kuluntu-owaziwayo ngokuzala.

Kwinkqubo yokuphuhliswa kwemvelo, yaba yingozi kakhulu kwengqondo nangokwenyama - "isini esomeleleyo". Abafazi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, banokuhlala ixesha elide lokuphila. Ngokukodwa kumazwe ahluphekileyo, aquka iRashiya. Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, oku kuyilungeleko elicacileyo yowesifazane phambi komntu. Kwakhona, abasetyhini abanako ukugula, baninzi kakhulu kwimvelo kwaye bavulekile. Ngoko uluvo lokuba abafazi bacinga ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye abazi lutho nantoni nje kuphela. Abasetyhini abaphantsi koxinzelelo kwixinzelelo kunesiqingatha esinamandla sabantu. Ekubeni akukho mkhwa wokuphefumula ngenxa yantoni na ukukhupha indlovu.

Inzuzo ecacileyo yowesifazane kukuba isini esilungileyo sinikezwa italente ukuze ikwazi ukuyiqonda ingcamango yakhe ngokucacileyo. Abaphandi bafumanisa into elandelayo. Kuye kubonakala ukuba ebaluleke kakhulu kwingingqi yomntu yengqondo yengqondo kwi-cortex yesikhashana neyephambili inokuphuhliswa ngakumbi kwabasetyhini. Ngako oko, abafazi abalungileyo abangekho kuphela abadibeneyo abanxibelelwano, kodwa kunye namaqabane afanelekileyo kwishishini. Inkokeli yesetyhini inokusekwa ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nolwazi lokuqala kunye nomntu ophantsi. Abasetyhini baphatha ngokunyanisekileyo nokuvelisa. Ukongezelela, iinkokeli zentombi zihlala zintlalontle kwaye zivulekile kunabanye abafana. Abasetyhini baqondwa bhetele ngenxa yokucaca kwesimo sabo kunoma yimuphi umbandela. EJamani, umzekelo, ama-40% amafemu kunye namashishini aphakathi aphakathi kwabafazi.

Akukho mntu ulinde isongelo evela kumfazi. Ngoko ke, namhlanje bafuna abagcini Banikezela oko kuthiwa "ukukhuselwa okufihliweyo". Ngaphambi kwamadoda, banamathuba amaninzi. Ngokomzekelo, abagxila ingqalelo. Ziyabonwa ngabantu abangaziwayo njengobhala bombhali okanye iindwendwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abagcini bezilwanyana balinda abafazi kunye nabantwana. Abamashishini abacebileyo bavame ukuqesha abagcini bezilwanyana njengomhlobo womfazi. Amava abonisa ukuba ibhinqa, kunokuba lendoda, liqonda umsebenzi wobugcisa ngokuchanekileyo. Akaziphosa phantsi kweebhola, kodwa uya kuzama ukukhusela isiganeko ngendlela engenagazi.

Inzuzo engenakuphikiswa yowesifazane phambi komntu kufuneka ikhankanywe enye into. Ukongezelela kwiintsuku eziqhelekileyo ezintlanu, intsingiselo "yesithandathu yesimo" ibonakaliswa kwabasetyhini. Ayinakubizwa ngokuba yi-intuition (idla ngokuba ngamadoda). Yiyo loo nto xa intliziyo yomama ivumelwano, ukuba kwenzeka into embi kumntwana wakhe ukude. Abasetyhini banokuziva bexakeke kwangaphambili. Le ntembelo inokuba namandla kakhulu, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuyichaza. Ibhinqa liya kukhangela ngokukhawuleza ubuxoki emehlweni omnxibelelwano. Unokuqonda ngokubonakalisa ubuso kunye nesimo sokuthi umntu ufihla into ethile. Abasetyhini bahle bezemvelo. Bayakwazi ukuxela ngokubheka ukuba ubani kufuneka agcinwe kude.

Abasetyhini banemvakalelo yentsapho kubantwana kunye nabantwana abangaphezu kwamadoda. Ngako oko, bayakuvuma ukuba bavumele umsebenzi ophantsi ohlawulelwayo kunokuba bahlale esiqheqweni baze balinde ukunikezelwa okulungileyo. Ukongezelela, ininzi yabo iphendule ngokufanelekileyo kwimeko. Kwaye emva kwexesha baqala ukufumana ngaphezulu. Abasetyhini bazivumelanisa ngokukhawuleza kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi, bafunde kakuhle kwaye bathathe ingcambu kwiqela.

Ebudlelwaneni obusondeleyo, loo nto ibhinqa elingabonakaliyo. Ngesinye isikhathi unako ukufumana ama-orgasms amahlanu. Ubungakanani kunye nobuqhetseba kuyo nayiphina imilinganiselo ayihambelani nenjabulo yowesilisa. Ngendlela, i-champagne encinane yandisa kuphela amandla omfazi wokuthanda. Kodwa kunye nabasimizi emva kokusela rhoqo kukho ukuphazamiseka.

Ubundlobongela obuthathaka buphumelele ebomini bakho. Emva koko, abasetyhini abahluphekanga kukuba iqabane lawo alinayo imilenze emide okanye idolo elincinci. Ubuhle bomyeni okanye umthandi kuthathwa ngumfazi "ngokungathi". Into ephambili kukuba kufuneka kubekho umntu olungileyo. Ngoko ke, ekukhuleni kwabasetyhini abafuni ukuphunyuka kwabaselula nabangenamava. Ngaphandle kwexesha elifutshane.

Yiyo ibhinqa ethatha uxanduva malunga neli lizwe eliza kubakho kwixesha elizayo. Ngenxa yokuba ukukhuliswa komntwana ngama-80% kukufanelekile. Ngexesha apho abantu bakha iinqaba ezivela kwisanti kwaye bakhulume ngexesha elizayo lelizwe labo, abasetyhini bazama ukulungiselela ubomi obuzimeleyo kwizizukulwana ezizayo. Ubuninzi bamaziko emfundo yabasetyhini bekhokelela ekuhlaleni kwabantu abatsha. Ukususela kumbono womntu, oku akukho kakuhle. Kodwa kunye neyesetyhini-enkulu enkulu. Akukhona nje ukuba kumazwe amaninzi ugonyamelo kuluntu luye lwahla. Ngoko amadoda aqala ukuqonda abafazi ngokubhetele. Iingcali zithi inkulungwane eyiwaka lamawaka, amadoda aya kutshabalala ngokupheleleyo. Njengoko i-Y ye-chromosome yindoda ihlaziya. Kwaye kuya kuza kubanzi besifazane kunye noxolo. Kodwa ngaba abafazi abathandekayo abayi kutyhutyha ngaphandle kobuqhophololo kunye nezilula?