I-metamorphosis enomdla ifunyenwe: xa indoda yakho yayingumfana nje, unqwenela ukumthanda, ukuba ngentliziyo yonke imithetho yengqondo ikhunjulwe ngentliziyo. Wayephulaphule ngokumnene, wamkela, wayenomdla kwimicimbi yakhe, wayenxibelele kwaye wayecinga nje ngaye. Wayengowona mhle, othandwa kakhulu, obalaseleyo, onobubele, owona mhle kunene, owona mkhulu ... Kwaye le ndoda yawela ezindlebeni zakhe kangangokuba ekugqibeleni wafika kwisigqibo sokuba kufuneka atshate. Ngokukhawuleza. Kuwe.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba awele umnqamlezo weofisi yeRejista, ngokukhawuleza ukuthabatha isidumbu sakho, egqoke i-lace kunye ne-taffeta, ngokukhawuleza wabonakala amabango. Akunjalo ukuba babengekho khona ngaphambili. Okwangoku, uvakalelwa njenge-tiger tamer ekugqibeleni wafumana isibhobho kunye ne-hose kwizandla zesatifiketi somtshato kunye nesitampu kwipasipoti, wanquma ukuba ixesha lokuba wenze.
Ukuxhotyiswa ngeengcebiso zamaphephancwadi amabhinqa ekuqeqesheni isilwanyana esilungeleyo "umyeni" kunye nokubhala iingcamango zaso malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kakuhle indoda esatshatileyo, uzama ukuzama ukuguqula into engatshintshiyo kwaye uyiphuthelwe amehlo, indlebe kunye nemiphefumlo yesithunzi, owawuyifumene nayo ngaphambili.
Kodwa awudingi nto. Ungakhathazeki, mxulela kaninzi, zama ukujonga kakuhle, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ungalibali ukunyusa iimpawu zakhe ezilungileyo. Oko kukuthi, ukudumisa umyeni wakhe. Emva koko, ekuboneni kokuqala kubonakala ukuba lo mnqamli ohlala kwiofisi akakwazi ukunyamezela "inceba yenyama" kwaye ulungele ukwenza izenzo zobuqhawe yonke imihla nje ngaleyo ndlela. Kodwa eqinisweni ukunyaniseka kwakho kufana neentyantyambo zentsikelelo, ezingenakho ukuvuselela ngendlela yokudumisa, njengokuba kungenawo ukuthambisa okulungileyo, kungekudala ziya kubuna kwaye ziyeke ukuzenza izenzo zodwa zobuqhawe, kodwa zenziwa ngokubanzi.
Makuyeke u-bunting omncinci kwaye ungadingi, kwaye akusoloko ekudumisa. Ngoko qalisa yokuqala. Kwaye i-ice cream, echaphazelekayo kunye nobudlelwane bakho obuhlala kunye nobudlelwane obugqithiseleyo, kuya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.
Awunanto yokumdumisa? Kwenzeka ntoni? Andiyi kukholwa! Funda uluhlu lweempawu ezinokwenzeka zokudumisa, qhubela phambili kwintsikelelo yakho kwaye ubale ukuba mangaphi abo ongayisebenzisa kumyeni wakho.
KUNYE OKWENZA, OWN, UKHONA ...
Ngoko, noluhlu lweempawu ezinokuthi lufanele kwaye lufanele lidunyiswe:
• Uhlakaniphile.
Yintoni eyahlukileyo ukuba akuyi-Einstein, kodwa ukuba uyayiqonda njani ipolitiki!
• Ulungile.
Yintoni? Bald and fat? Kodwa yintoni amehlo akhe!
• Uqoqosho.
Ewe, kuthekani ukuba ixesha lokugqibela wahlamba izitya, ngelixa eselula. Kodwa emva kokunyaniseka okukhulu, wayesekhupha inkunkuma!
• Ucocekile.
Ungalokothi ufake iisoksi ezifanayo kabini. Nangona kunjalo kufuneka uhlambe.
• Uyakhathaza.
Kuthetha ntoni, kuthetha ntoni? Yintoni oyenzayo !!! Kuyingozi kwaye kuqoqosho, ukunyamekela ukhuseleko lwentsapho yebhajethi. O, uyathanda ukusebenzisa imali? Kulungile ke:
• Unomusa.
Kwaye ungathanda ukuya kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwesi sixeko ngetamatato kwi-ruble ngenxa yoqoqosho?
• Uyanyamekela.
Ukuba ucaphukile ukuba kunokuba akunike umhla wokuzalwa, wanikela imali kuye, ke ungacasuli. Kuya kuba nzima nokuba wayekhohliwe ngaye.
• Ungumthandi omkhulu.
Le nyaniso iyakuboniswa kwakhona kukuba emva kokulala, yena, ukhathele ngumsebenzi onzima ukukunceda, ngokukhawuleza ulala.
• Unentlalontle.
Nangona echitha ixesha elininzi kubahlobo, kukho ithemba lokuba phakathi kwabo, ekugqibeleni, ezifanelekileyo ziya kubonakala.
• Unengqiqo.
Abanye bathi yi-bore, kodwa uzama nje ukungena entliziyweni yezinto!
• Uyingcingo.
Kuphela nje ukuba unomgca omnyama. Kodwa uyazi ukuba uya kuphumelela!
• Unetalente.
Abahlali bemihla bangayiqondi le nto, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo bayayixabisa inzala!
• Unengqondo engatshatanga.
Inyaniso iyazama yonke imihla ibe yintsha, ngokubhekiselele kwicandelo, iinjongo. Kodwa ezi zintlupheko.
• Uyihlo obalaseleyo.
Abantwana bamthanda kakhulu! (Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba baqabile ukuba bayibone?)
• Udibaniselwano.
Esikhundleni sokubiza umnina-mkhwenkwe uyisidenge, wamshiya, waqhayisa umnyango.
• Unyanisekile.
Ngokwenene nangenyaniso uthe waya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca ukuze unciphise umzimba. Kodwa wayenokuhlala ethule waza waqala ukuthanda.
• Akayi kushiya (akaphuzi, akayithandi, akayidlale i-sweepstakes, akayi kubakhokela amantombazana) ...
Ngaba ucinga ukuba akenzi, kuba akayikhuseli imizwa yakho, kodwa impilo yakho? Emva koko lesi sihlandlo esitsha sokudumisa:
• Uyayithanda kakhulu impilo yakhe.
Ngako oko, uzama ukungazidibanisi iinzame zakhe aze adle ngokuhlwa kwakhe embhedeni. Kwaye-ke kwintsapho. Kwaye ekugqibeleni:
• Ndiyaziqhenya ngaye!
Ngaba akunjalo? Emva koko akucacanga ukuba kutheni uhlala naye.
KUNYE OKUYA KUFUNA UMSEBENZI WAKHO
Ukudumisa kukuqala kobugcisa bonke. Ngako oko, lifuna ixesha elifanelekileyo, indawo, intleko kunye neengqiqo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwa ngokukhethekileyo ukuba indumiso efanelekileyo kunokudumisa uluntu. Kodwa le mpendulo enamandla inokubonakala njengobhaliso emphefumlweni wakho othembekileyo, kunye nesetyhefu, onokukwazi ukutyholisa ngokupheleleyo ubuhlobo bakho.
Apha ungathatha njengesikhokelo kwisenzo malunga nalesi sikhundla: udumo kuluntu luyimfuneko kubandakanywa kwinkqubo yexabiso laba bantu. Ukuba unesihlwele esihlangene kwiindwendwe zabahlobo bakhe abathandekayo bomyeni abazicingela njengabadlali be-playboys, kuya kuba ngumntu osisidenge ukuze adumise uqoqosho lwakhe. Mhlawumbi abahlobo baya kuqonda umnqweno wakho baze bawuthwale kwi-akhawunti yakho yebhinqa ukuqonda kwehlabathi. Kodwa umthandi wakho uya kuziva ngathi u-idiot opheleleyo kwaye uzive ebonisa ukuzithoba kwe "abadala bomalume". Kodwa imihlathi yalaba bahlobo abafanayo iya kuneneka xa ukhankanya ukuba ukhathele ukubetha umyeni wakho kwiintlobo ezininzi zamabhinqa.
Musa ukugxila kwizinto ezingabalulekanga kumntu wakho. Ukuba uyayithiya indlu, ukuncoma "uhlambe izitya zakho ngokufanelekileyo" kuya kubonwa njengento ehlekisayo kunye nesicatshulwa sokuba akazi nto malunga nokuhlamba izitya. Kule meko, indumiso yeesitya ingazwakala kuphela kumxholo othi "nonke nenza okulungileyo kwaye izitya zibubungqina obungenangqiqo."
Kwaye enye into. Musa ukuyidlula! Ukuba indoda yakho inendima emnyama, kufuneka idumise, ukuqonda, kunye nenkxaso njengomoya. Ukuba kusekude emva koko, ukuba udumise umyeni wakho ngaphandle kwemilinganiselo - umngcipheko wokuba uya kuzicingela ukuba ungumnikazi wazo zonke izinto "ezintle". Kwaye oko kunokubonakala ngathi kuye kweso sihlakaniphe, esinobubele, esithandanayo, esithandayo, enomdla, indoda emangalisayo kufuneka ibe ngumfazi ohluke ngokupheleleyo. Akunjalo wena. Vumela ukunyaniseka kwakho kuvelele ingqalelo yakho, kodwa konke okufanayo kwintloko yendoda maxa wambi kufuneka uphuphe ukungathandabuzeki ukuba uphambukisa kwindawo ethile nento ongatshoyo.
Ngelizwi, yiba ngumntu odale kwaye udla ngokufumana indawo yegama elinobubele. Kwaye ke, ndinqwenela ulonwabo ebomini bakho!