Ngokomzekelo, unesiqhelo, ukhubekile. Indlela yokuqala yokuphendula kukuba iphendule ngokuphendula. Gcina. Bala engqondweni ukuya kwishumi. Yandisa ngokutsha kwaye ungagcini amanxeba akho, uthathe umoya okhulu kwaye uphumelele. Ngaba kwakulula? Igama lokuqala alikwazanga ukugcinwa - vala isibini, yesithathu, ungaqhubeki ukuphikisana, abayi ku khokela kwinto enhle. Akunabantwana okanye umyeni uya kukuxabisa ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba baya kubona ubuso bakho buhlanekezwa bububi. Ngokuphambene noko, umxholo omkhulu uya kwenziwa ngokuthintela, ukuthula okuhloniphekileyo.
Ukhubekile kumntu ovela ekhaya. Musa ukucaphuka ngentloko. Shintsha iingcamango kwisifundo esibalulekileyo, uze ulandele onke amandla. Abaninzi bayazi ukuba emva kwento encinci ye-podirushki nayiphi na intukuthelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Bekunesimo esibi - mncumo, uhlawule umculo omnandi, gxuma nje. Naluphi na ukunyakaza, nayiphi na intlupheko yemisipha iphazamisa iingcamango ezilukhuni, njengokungathi zihamba ngentloko.
Ukulala embhedeni nokucima ukukhanya, izihlandlo ezininzi ziphinda uziphindiselele: "Ndilungile, ndinentsapho enhle." I-sprase-spell ingavela nenye into, ukuba nje ityala wena ngethemba. Yenza okufanayo ngokuvuka.
Kakade ke, le mizimba elula iluncedo kwaye isebenzayo xa intsapho ingabonakaliswa ngokuphazamiseka. Kwiintsapho ezibalaseleyo, abantu bahlala besweleka kwiimpawu ezingaphezu kwezinto ezintle - kwaye kutheni? Abangenacala njengokuba bebonakala, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kubangela ukuxabana emaphethelweni. Ukuze ugweme oku, kufuneka ukwazi into eyenzekayo kwi-psyche yethu, xa siphikisana okanye sithukuthele. Kutheni umbuzo onzima: "Ngaba uthenge ubisi?" - ngokukhawuleza ufuna ukukhukula ngomsindo: "Ndiyeke ebusini bakho!"? Kucacile ukuba akukho ubisi okanye umntu ocelayo ngaye unento enokuyenza ngayo. Akunakusola into yokuba ungeyonto evenkile, kwaye uhamba ngeenyawo ebhasi! Ukuziqonda ngokwakho kukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala malunga nokukwazi ukuzilawula, ukuzithiba, kwaye ngoko ke kukuqonda.
Ukukwazi ukwazi ngokwakho umgangatho oxabisekileyo xa uthetha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuqonda omnye. Kodwa kulula ukucinga ukuba kwakuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba abantu behlala bephulaphule ngokwabo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo bazama ukungena kwiimfihlelo zengqondo ye-interlocutor. Sonke siya kuba sesikhundleni somntu omdala, owacelwa ukuba wayephi na ubhedu bobusuku. Ngethuba lokuqala ebomini bakhe, ecinga malunga nokufihla intshebe ngaphantsi kwengubo okanye ukuyibeka phezulu, umntu omdala ohluphekileyo akazange alale ubusuku bonke. Akunakwenzeka, kwaye akuyimfuneko, uthetha ngomzuzu, ucinga ngeminye imithetho. Yingakho abantu baye bahlakulela umgangatho othile wokuziphatha, iinkqubo zokuziphatha, esingazisebenzisiyo ekusebenzisaneni nabantu abangaziwayo. Ukubona umhlobo, sitsho i-hello, ukuhlukana-sitshilo. Xa sicele ekamelweni lokudlela ukuba sinike i-saltcellar, songeza ngokukhawuleza: "Nceda!" Buyela emva, mbulela ngokuqinisekileyo: "Ndiyabulela!" Ngamagama, nabantu bezinye iintlanga sonke siyazi ukuziphatha, kubonisa ukuzinyameka okukhulu.
Kwaye ekhaya? Ngokuqhelekileyo, uwela emngceleni, ushiye ukungahloniphi ngengubo yecala! Kwaye "endaweni yokuhlwa! Ndivuyisa gqitha ukuba ndikubone! "Ukucaphukisa" Akuyikuhlamba kwakhona! " Ewe, baya kuhlamba izitya kwaye benze izinto ezininzi ezintle, ukuba ningabhongeli kubo, kodwa nibanikezele kwaye nithi: "Yiba yinkxaso!" Ndihlala ndicinga ukuba, ngokungazi kakuhle ukuba indoda nomfazi abangaziwayo zihloniphekile kunokuba zithandana. Njengokuba abahlali omnye nomnye ...
Unokubuza ngokukrakra: kuthekani ngomntu, indoda? Ngaba akabophekanga ukuba asebenzise amandla okuzilawula kwaye ancede umfazi wakhe? .. Unyanzelekile, kunjalo. Kodwa kumbuzo onjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukungqubuzana kwintsapho kuqalisiwe. Kwaye baphela apho, apho umfazi eqala ukuqonda ukuba yena, lona mfazi, uqobo lwalo lujoliswe ekubeni ngumgcini wendlu. Musa ukukhuphisana nomntu ngokunyaniseka nangenkani, ungalinganiswa nayo ngamandla - usenamandla. Izixhobo zethu zibubele.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni akubalulekanga kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kwintetho. Yiba nomusa komnye nomnye, kuba lo mntu ubonakala kuwe ungcono kunazo zonke - ingatshintsha kakhulu? Yiba neengxaki kubantwana - ngothando nangothando baya kufezekisa iimpumelelo ozilindele kuzo.