Ngaba uhlala ufuna ukuhlala phantsi, ubalekele kwisihlwele esijikelezileyo? Ngaba ucinezelekileyo kwintsapho yakho kwaye ufuna ukubalekela kwindawo ethile kwindawo evulekile, apho ungayi kuvala uvalwe kwinqanaba elimisiweyo? Iminqweno enjalo ayithethi nakuyo yonke into ophuhlisa ngayo i-claustrophobia. Nje umntu uhlasela indawo yakho, kwaye uvakalelwa.
Isithuba somntu siqu, esifutshane, yindawo ezayo enekrele. Nangona umnyango uvulekile, njengokuba kunjalo nomtshato ophumelelayo , apho umlingane engenalo mfihlelo. Umgama othile ukhuthazwa ngabafundi bezengqondo kunye nomtshato kuyafuneka, kwaye mhlawumbi kubaluleke ngaphezu kokujongana nalabo abangenxalenye yentsapho yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha ukujonga lo mda kunokuphelisa iingxaki ezininzi. Kubalulekile ukuqala ngento yokuba ukuthetha okude kunye nokufutshane kakhulu kunzima. Kwabanye abantu abaxolisekanga.
Kuthetha ntoni le ngcamango? Kunokwenzeka ukuba, ukuhlalisana ngokufanelekileyo kwabantu ababini, xa wonke umntu ezama ukushiya into ethile yobomi bomlingane ngokuziphatha kwakhe.
"Ukutshintshana kwelinye icala" akufani noko kuthetha ukuthini ngokuthe tye. Ngoko ke ukukhawulela, okunomlinganiselo othile ovumelekileyo. Yivume ngokunyanisekileyo - awunayo nayiphi na ingcamango, iinkumbulo, iiminqweno kunye neempawu zobuntu ongekuthandayo ukubonakalisa nabani na.
Ngamanye amaxesha kukho isimo sengqondo, xa ukukhanya okumhlophe kungamnandi kwaye ndifuna nje ukuba ndedwa. Umlingani oMoya kwiimeko ezinjalo akayi kubambelela ekutshatsheni kunye nokunyaniseka. Mhlawumbi isiqingatha sakho sithatha ixesha lokucinga malunga nento ebalulekileyo ehambelana nolwalamano lwakho, unqume, okanye ukhulule kwaye uhlaziye iingcamango zakho?
Ukususela ngamaxesha, abantu bafanele bahambe bodwa. Akunamagumbi okulala ahlukeneyo omtshato abonwa njengento eqhelekileyo kwihlabathi lonke. Akunjalo kuphela amagumbi okulala , kodwa kunye neekhabhinethi, i-boudoir njalonjalo. Oku "kubonakaliswe" kwimiba yezindlu. Ngoku umnqweno wethu wangaphakathi "wokufihla ekhoneni lakho" wenza ikhitshi indawo enjalo yabasetyhini, kunye nenqolobane, igumbi elingaphandle okanye igaraji - ngamadoda.
Kulo lonke ixesha, xa ilanga likhanya ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ubomi bubumnandi, abaninzi abantu bayavuma ukwabelana nommelwane inxalenye yendawo yabo. Ukuya kwi-cinema ndawonye, xubusha into ethile, sebenze ndawonye imihla ngemihla. Yiyo ndlela ininzi yabantu abaninzi abahlala emtshatweni ovuyayo.
Abantu bafanele babe kunye ngokuthanda. Ngokuphathelele umbuzo wokuphumla - kunye kunye okanye ngaphandle, mhlawumbi, ngamanye amaxesha kuyafaneleka ukuphumla ngokwahlukileyo, ukuba, ngokomzekelo, ukuba umyeni uphelele ukuloba, kwaye umfazi ubekezelela iintente kunye nemiyane. Akukho nto embi kulokhu ukuba ukuphumla okuhlukileyo akubhekiseli nantoni na eyayiyonakalisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwabatshatileyo. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ixesha elide akudingekile ukuba ushiye.