Okokuqala: Ukuxolela. Ukuxolela uze uzame ukulibala. Mfumana isizathu sokuthi: wena ngokwakho wamcasula waza wamzisa. Wayengafuni ukwenza oku, kuba ngoku ukhangele amehlo akho aphendukile kwaye ucela ukuxolelwa. Yaye uyamthanda. Awukwazi ukucinga ubomi ngaphandle kwalo.
Uthembisa, ufunga, ukuba eli lixesha lokugqibela. Wenze isigqibo - ukukholelwa ngamazwi akhe nesithembiso sakhe.
Amantombazana, amabali abantu abatsha abaphakamisa izandla phezu kowesifazane, ngelishwa, sele sele esenele ebomini bethu. Kwaye, ukufumana amava kwabanye abantu, unokwenza isigqibo esisodwa: ukuba umntu wakho wakhulisa isandla sakhe kuwe, kwaye wamsithethelela ngokukhawuleza, ngoko uya kuqiniseka ukuba ukuhlaselwa kuya kwenzeka kwakhona. Oku akusiyo ihlaya. Indoda ilungiselelwe ukuba, ngokwenza oku okanye loo msebenzi, ulinde. Ukulinda, uyamxolela okanye hayi. Ukuba uthe wamxolela ngaphandle kokukhononda, ukhulula izandla zakhe. Yaye unoluvo lokuba konke kuvunyelwe kuye. Emva kwakho konke, uyamthanda kwaye akasoze avumele ukuhlukana kwakho.
Njengoko uyazi, umntu unzima kakhulu, nangona ngokuqinisekileyo, ungatsho ngokuqinisekileyo kungekhona, utshintshe kwaye ufundise kwakhona. Kwaye nangakumbi umntu omdala. Ngoko ke, akufanele ucinge ngentloko yakho ukuba uya kutshintsha nawe, uya kuyithanda ngokwenene kwaye ungaphinda uphakamise isandla sakho kwakhona.
Vula amehlo akho! Yaye yamkela inyaniso, nangona inkohlakalo, ukuba wayibulala kanye, uya kubetha kwesibini. Kwaye, xa usahlukanise, mhlawumbi, iimeko ezifanayo zilindele kunye nentombi yakhe entsha.
Indlela yesibini yokuphuma kwaye impendulo echanekileyo kumbuzo: "Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntu elwa nawe".
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Ziziphi iimpawu afanele ukuba umntu wamaphupha akho analo ? Ndiqinisekile, unokubhala ukubhala kwesi sihloko. Kodwa, kubaluleke kakhulu - kufuneka uqiniseke kumntu; kufuneka abe ngumkhuseli. Umele uzive uhamba naye, njengasemva kwodonga lwamatye.
Ngaba umntu owenza ukuhlaselwa angakunika oko ufanelweyo? Indoda yinyani kufuneka ihambelane nomgaqo ukususela ebuntwaneni: "Amantombazana akakwazi ukubetha." Le ngongoma ngamnye umzali uvuselela unyana wakhe. Kodwa, ngelishwa, akubona bonke abafana abakhulayo.
Amantombazana, musa ukuzibandakanya kwi-masochism, musa ukukhubaza ubomi bakho. Ngaba ngokwenene ufuna ukuchitha ubomi bakho kunye nomntu obethayo. Cinga ngelixa elizayo, ngaba abantwana bakho badinga ubaba onobuqili?
Khumbula ukuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe! Kwaye uhlala ekhaya kuphela! Kwaye, indoda ebetha intombi yakhe, ngokusemzimbeni ayikwazi ukujamelana nomsebenzi wakhe othe ngqo-ukuze ube nolonwabo.
Masibhale. Imeko yakho: indoda yakho iphakamisa isandla.
Umbuzo kuwe: wenzeni ukuba umfana ekushaya?
Impendulo yakho: "hamba! Khangela naphi na amehlo akho ebonakala, ukuba ubaleke kuye! "
Ewe, ukuphepha. Namhlanje bekuyi-slap ebusweni, ngomso uya kukubulala, kuba kwintloko yomnye ongeke ukwazi ukunyuka kwaye angazi ngeenjongo zakhe. Khawucinge nje ukuba utshata, kwaye yintoni na? Emva koko, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umntu ucinga umfazi wakhe-impahla yakhe. Kwaye kunye nepropati yakhe, unokukwenza nantoni na ayifunayo.
Xa ugqiba ukuphula le lamano, ungazami ukuzisola umntu. Yena, xa ekubetha, wazisola ngokupheleleyo kwaye akazange aqonde ukuba wayekulimaza: umzimba kunye nengqondo.
Indoda yinyani ayikho enye ethatha iingalo, kodwa enye ayinakuyisebenzisa. Kwimeko yethu, iingalo zomntu ziyizandla zakhe.
Ukuba ule meko, cingisisa ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo. Ikamva lakho liya kuxhomekeka kwisigqibo sakho.