Iimbambano zoluntu kunye nezindlela zokuzisombulula

Sonke ebuntwaneni siphikisana nabahlobo ngenxa yamathoyizi, iilekese njalo njalo. Emva koko baba ngabantu abadala kwaye baqala ukwabelana ngemvakalelo yabo, iimali, ipropati, amandla enyukliya kunye nendawo phantsi kwelanga. Bonke abantu bangama-egoist ngokwemvelo kwaye banqabile nantoni na umntu onokuhlazeka ngayo. Ngoko ke, xa konke ukungavumelani kuthatha uhlobo lokungquzulana, iimvakalelo zethu zithatha ingqondo ngesibindi iingqondo zethu kunye nengqondo zethu, ngaloo ndlela zikhokelela ekufeni. Yiyo indlela ukuphikisana kwezentlalo kuvela ngayo, apho kufuneka ukulungelelaniswa. Siphakamisa ukuba sijwayelane ngokucacileyo kwaye sifunde ukuba yeyiphi intlankqalazo yentlalo kunye nezindlela zokuzixazulula ngazo ngokwazo, ezingayishiyi imiphumo emibi kubathathi-nxaxheba kwimpikiswano.

Iingcamango ngokubanzi zentlalo yoluntu (intlalo)

Ngaphambi kokuchukumisa kwingxaki yeengxabano zentlalo kunye nezindlela zokuzisombulula, kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacileyo nokuqonda ingcamango enjalo njengengxabano yentlalo. Ngenxa yoko, iimpikiswano zoluntu, njengomthetho, iimpikiswano ezivela ngenxa yokungavumelani, ukuzama ukuthatha indawo inkokheli okanye ukungafani kweengcamango, izimvo ezivela kumaqela athile asekuhlaleni (iqela elisebenzayo, iqela lezemfundo kwiziko lemfundo nokunye). Ngale ndlela, uxhulumano loluntu phakathi kwabantu lubonakala ngokucacileyo.

Iindlela kunye nezigqibo malunga nendlela yokuphuma kwintlanano

Njengomthetho, iimpikiswano ngokwabo kunye nezisombululo kwisisombululo sabo zimela umgca ongundoqo apho umdlali wesichaso ngokwawo usekelwe kulo mlo.

Ngokweengcali, iingxabano zoluntu ziquka iindlela ezinhlanu eziphambili, oku: ukuphikisana, ukufumana ingcamango, ukuphepha ingxaki, ukulungelelanisa, intsebenziswano. Makhe sifumane ngakumbi ngakumbi malunga nezi zikhundla, ezithatha indlela yokuphuma kunye nokuxazulula ingxabano yentlalo.

Ngoko, ukuphikisana. Isekelwe ekumiseleni isicatshulwa sakhe isinqumo esamkelekileyo kakhulu kuye. Ukuncintisana okunjalo kunokuthi kulungelelaniswe ngezihlandlo eziliqela. Okokuqala, xa esi sigqibo sinesakhiwo esiqinileyo, okwesibini, sizisa isiphumo esinenzuzo kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwimpikiswano okanye umbutho ngokubanzi, kungekhona umntu othile okanye i-microgroup; okwesithathu, kubalulekile kwaye ungathathi ixesha elide ukuphunyezwa ebomini. Le ndlela isebenza ngempumelelo kwiimeko eziphambili nangaphezulu okanye xa kukho ukungabikho kwexesha. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba inzondo ingaba nemiphumo emibi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba yonke into ayisebenziyo ngokwecwangciso, unokulindela ukugwetywa kubantu abakujikelezile.

Ukufumanisa i- compromise . Esi sicwangciso sichaza iindlela zokuphelisa umquzulwano ngoncedo lwezikhokelo ezikhethekileyo. Umntu othatha inxaxheba kwimpikiswano yoluntu uyayenqaba inxalenye yemfuno ebekwe ngaphambili kwaye ibonisa ukuzimisela kwayo ngokucacileyo ukwamukelwa onke amabango avela kwelinye iqela. Ukuxhatshazwa kuthathwa ngempumelelo ukuba ngaba zombini iingxabano ziyaqonda ukuba banamalungelo alinganayo namathuba, banomdla okhethekileyo, banelisekile ngesigqibo esigxina kwaye banqatshelwe isisongelo sokulahlekelwa yinto yonke.

Ukuphepha ingxaki okanye ukusombulula yindlela enye yokushiya ukungavumelani komphakathi ngaphandle kokulahleka okukhulu. Le ndlela ihluke ngokuphawulekayo ukusuka kwisimo esifanayo kwisicwangciso-mbambano. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iindawo zokungcebeleka ezichasene nale ndlela emva kokuba zonke iinzame zakhe zokutshintsha nayiphi na into ayiphumelelanga, emva kokuba ziphunyezwe ngeendlela ezisebenzayo. Apha, mhlawumbi, asinakuthetha ngokufumana isisombululo, kodwa malunga nokupheliswa kwentlwano yentlalo ngokwayo. Okanye isenzo esinjalo sinokuyiphumelela eyakhayo kwimpikiswano engapheliyo okanye ukungathandi ukuqhubela phambili.

Ukulungiswa okanye ukuvunyelwa. Ezi ndlela zithatha ukunyanzeliswa okanye ukuzithandela ukwenqaba ukuthatha inxaxheba kumzabalazo (umquzulwano). Ngokuqhelekileyo, abathathi-mbambano abachaphazelekayo baya kumphumo onjalo xa beqonda ukuba akulungile, umnqweno wokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle, ubunzulu beengxaki, okanye ukunyanzeliswa kwemiphumo emibi, ukungabikho kwamathuba okufumana esinye isiphumo, kunye noxinzelelo lomntu wesithathu.

Ukusebenzisana . Kucingwa njengenye yeendlela eziphambili zokusombulula ingxabano yentlalo. Ukubambisana kubandakanya ukukhanga kwabachasene nendlela yokwakha yokuxazulula ingxaki, ngokuxubusha phakathi kwamaqela amabini aphikisanayo. Kule meko, elinye iqela alithathwa njengobandezeli, kodwa njengelinye iqabane. Kuhle kakhulu kwimiba enjalo, ukuba zombini amacandelo aziva ulungelelaniso olufanelekileyo, angayigxininisi ubukhulu bamandla kwaye kubalulekile ukubhekisela kwisisombululo esisodwa.

Ukukhethwa kwezi ndlela eziza kunceda ukuxazulula iingxabano zoluntu, kuxhomekeke ngqo kwiimeko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, banokubonisa inkcazo yenkampani, izinga lomonakalo obangelwa yimpikiswano, ukufumaneka kwezixhobo, nemiphumo emihle, ukubaluleka kwengxaki kunye nobude beengxabano.

Eyona ndlela inokwenzeka ukuba kusetyenziswe ukulungelelanisa, njengoko ukuvunyelwa kwamacala omabini kumvumela ukufezekiswa njenge-asymmetric (elinye icala lenza ukugqithiswa okuncinane, enye ingaphezulu) okanye imimandla (amaqela enza amanani alinganayo) kwemvume.

Kuhlala kulungele ukukhumbula ukuba ukuhlanganiswa kwazo zonke izicwangciso, okokuqala, kukujoliswe ekupheliseni konke ukungqubuzana okuxhomekeke kwimpikiswano yoluntu.

Emva kwegama

Njengoko wonke umntu uyazi, ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu esivakalayo sokuvela kwintlukwano yentlalo siyiyo, okanye kunoko, abantu abathile abaqala kwiqela "bapheke iphariji" ngenxa yokungaqondani, ukungaqondani, ukungavumelani kunye nokungafani kwimeko. Kwaye kunokuba uzame ukufikelela kwinqanaba lekhaya kwaye ufumene indlela yokuphuma kwimeko yangoku, abantu abaninzi bathatyathwa kwingxabano ukuze baqinisekise ukufaneleka kwabo, nangaphandle kokungena kwiimeko. Kodwa, enyanisweni, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuphulaphula ngenyameko iingxoxo zamaqela onke kwaye ungabi ngenye yeenkokheli.

Njengoko ilizwi lisithi: "Bafana, masihlale kunye!".