Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba ufumanise indlela yokuba ngumphefumlo kwanoma yiphi inkampani, kufuneka ukhiphe ngaphandle kwakho kubomi bakho konke ukugqithisa kunye nemida ekunxibelelaneni. Yeka kwinkampani yakho ukuba ube nokuzithemba, uziqhayisa kwaye unqabile ukuphatha abantu. Ngamanye amagama, cinezela phantsi kwaye uvumele ukuhamba kwakho ngaphakathi. Ukuze ube ngumntu obalulekileyo phakathi kwabahlobo, akufuneki ukuba wonke umntu azi ukuba ungumntu ongcono kunabo bonke, unxibelelwano olukhethekileyo kunye noqhagamshelwano nawe ulingana "ngesisindo segolide." Udinga ukutshintsha ngokupheleleyo isitayela sakho soqhagamshelwano. Ukuba wena, ukususela ngomhla wokuqala wokubonakala kwakho kwinkampani, zama ukuba ngumhlobo ongcono, umcebisi okanye obizwa ngokuthi "umhlanguli kunoma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka" kubo bonke abantu ngabanye. Khumbula, le ndlela yokuziphatha kuyo nayiphi na imeko iya kubangela ukungathembeki kubahlobo bakho baze baqale ukubacaphukisa. Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuphuma kule meko iya kuba xa uyamkela ngokupheleleyo. Le nto iya kuba yikhadi lakho eliphambili kwindlela yokufumana indawo ehloniphekileyo, eya kukunceda "ube ngumphefumlo" kule nkampani. Into ephambili, soloko uqaphele kwaye, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, jonga ngokusondeleyo kubahlobo bakho, ufunde. Oku, okuqinisekileyo, kuya kukunceda uqonde oko bahlala khona, izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezinto ezithandayo. Ndiyabulela ukuba uya kuba nako ukusondela ngakumbi kubo.
Enyanisweni, ukuze ube nengqiqo kwenkampani yakho njengomntu, kufuneka ukwazi ukuzithobela ngokusemgangathweni kakhulu kwaye ufikeleleke. Kodwa khumbula ukuba akudingeki ukuba ugxininise wonke umntu ngolwazi lwakho kunye namabali "malunga nawe oyithandayo". Indlela efanelekileyo yokuzihlonela kukuba ubonise ukuba ungubani, kungekhona ngamazwi, kodwa ngezenzo. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuze ube ngumphefumlo wenkampani, ku soloko kudingekile ukuba ube nolonwabo olukhulu. Ngaloo ndlela, unokukwazi ukuhamba ngexesha kunye nokuhleka ngempumelelo. Khumbula ukuba abantu abanjalo bahlala bexatyiswa kakhulu kwaye, ngokusemthethweni, bathatyathwa kwininzi. Abantu abanobhongo nabangenalo abathandiyo. awaziqondi nonke, njengokuba ungathanda.
Umgaqo wokuqala, endleleni yokuqonda enye yeendawo zokuqala phakathi kwabahlobo kukuba awukwazi ukuhluleka kwaye ube ngumntu onyanisekileyo. Ukuze kungenzeki, khumbula ukuba unembopheleleko ethile kubahlobo bakho. Kwaye nangona kwenzeka umkhosi wamandla, kufuneka uziphatha ngokufanelekileyo nangengqiqo. Ngokomzekelo, xa uya kuhlala kunye nenkampani, sonke sinikezele umsebenzi wakho komnye nomnye (obani, ukuthatha ukuthatha okanye ukwenza). Unayo into ephambili - ukuthenga isonka okanye enye into, ngaphandle kokuba iholide yakho kwimvelo ayikwazi ukuba yinto efanelekileyo. Kwaye namhlanje, ngesizathu esihle, awukwazi ukuhamba nabahlobo. Kwimeko enjalo, akufanele ukhulume ngalo ngomzuzu wokugqibela okanye, ngokubi nakakhulu, cwaka. Yazisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba awukwazi ukugqiba isabelo, ngaloo ndlela ubonisa ukuba ungumntu onoxanduva, onyanisekileyo nononophelo. Ngendlela, njengoko amava obomi abonisa, ukuba, ubuncinci kanye nehluleka inkampani yakho, okanye ngandlela-thile ungavumelani nabangani bakho, kukho ithuba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuba zonke iinguqu ezinokuthi zilandelayo ziza kubakho kwidilesi yakho. Kukho sele ucinga ngokuba ngumphefumlo wenkampani, akukho ndawo.
Esinye isibonakaliso esibalulekileyo esiya kukunceda ukufezekisa inhlonipho yakho ukwenqaba ukugweba oogxa bakho obala. Akuyimfuneko ukuba uhlale ubhekisela kubahlobo zabo iimpazamo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Kule meko, okokuqala, kunzima ukuthatha isimo sengqondo ngokubhekiselele kumntu osele ahlukumeza wonke umntu ngokunyaniseka nokunyamekela ukugxininisa ukuba yonke into eyenzeka ngendlela engafanelekanga. Kwaye okwesibini, kubaluleke kakhulu, abahlobo bakho akunakwenzeka, emva kwakho konke ukuthetha kwakho, ukuphosola nayiphina impazamo yakho kwizenzo okanye ngamazwi.
Uyakwazi ukuchonga nokuqonda iimpazamo zakhe. Ewe, kulo mzekelo, akufuneki ukuba uzisoloko uzigxeka kwaye uzigwebe. Kwaye emva kokuba ungaphumelelanga ngenyathelo lakho, cela ukuxolelwa kubahlobo ngenxa yeengcamango zabo. Khumbula ukuba umntu owaziyo ukuzola ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuchanekileyo impazamo yakhe, kwaye, konke oku, ukuhlalutya ngempumelelo nangempumelelo, ngokuzifumanisa izizathu eziphambili, uhlala udala impembelelo yakhe.
Kwakhona, ukuze ube ngumphefumlo wenkampani, akufanele uloyike kwaye ufanele ukuqonda ukugxeka kwidilesi yakho. Okokuqala, funda ukuhlukanisa iingcamango ezifanelekileyo ezivela kwiindawo ezimbi. Amabhunga abahlobo abakufunayo kuphela okulungileyo, soloko befuna ukuphulaphula ngokukhawuleza kwaye bathathe inkonzo. Ezi ngcebiso kunye neengcebiso zingaphaya kokusetyenziswa kwakho. Kodwa i-podkoly engendawo kubantu abakubona kakubi, ayifanelekanga kwicala lakho nayiphi na ingqalelo okanye ifune ukuvakalelwa ngumsindo.
Ungaze uzame ukuphelela. Khumbula ukuba kunzima kwabanye ukuba basondele kumntu ohlala kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke into ezama ukuphelela nokugqibelela. Khumbula ukuba abantu abalungileyo abakho kwaye ngoko uzama kule maski akusiyo yonke ithenda.
Omnye umgaqo obalulekileyo ukuze ube ngumntu obalulekileyo kwinkampani kukukwazi kwakho ukucinga ngabanye, kungekhona nje wena. Khumbula ukuba bonke abahlobo abasondelene nawe badinga ukunakwa, ukuqonda kunye nenkxaso. Qaphela ukuba umntu ulindele ukuba umnike uncedo kunye noncedo ngoncedo olubalulekileyo. Funda ukuphulaphula ngokucophelela kwaye uqonde abahlobo bakho. Ukwazi ukudala umoya onjalo umntu angakuxelela ngento exhalabisa ngayo. Izakhono zokuphulaphula ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kukunceda ukuba usondele ngakumbi kwinkampani. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba ukunyamezela kwakho nemvakalelo emihle kuya kuhlala iheha abahlobo kuwe, kwaye ngenxa yolu xwebhu uya kuhlala uhlala kwinqanaba le nkampani yakho.