Indlela yokuziva unentembelo ebomini

Le nqaku iqulethe iindlela ezintle zokwenza ukuzithemba.

Abantu bathanda xa bafumana. Kodwa kaninzi ngenxa yokungabi nenkalipho nokuzithemba, abantu bayaphupha amathuba, bayesaba ukuthetha nantoni na. Kukho uvakalelo lokungazineliseki nawe, ukungoneleliseki ngobomi bakho. Le meko kunzima ukulungisa, kodwa unako. Indlela yokuziva unethemba lokuphila, funda kwaye uqale ukwenza oko ngoku!

Qala ngokuBonakala

Ewe, ukuzithemba kuqala entloko. Kodwa kungcono ukuyibuyisela ngaphandle. Sondela kwisibuko, sinokubonwa ntoni? Amagxa atyunyiwe, intloko iphakanyisiwe, isisu sitsalwe kuyo, kwaye imilenze ayiguqa ngamadolo. Hayi? Emva koko kufuneka uzinye kwii-akhawunti ezintathu. Omnye - amahlombe atyelela phambili ukuze umva uphawule. Ezimbini - ziphakamise, njengokungathi ugubha. Eyesithathu - thabatha amahlombe akho ngokukhawuleza kwaye unciphise. Kwaye kwisibuko omnye umntu ubonakaliswa. Intloko iphakanyisiwe, isifuba siphumele phambili, isisu asixhasi, imilenze ikhona. Ngokukhawuleza uzive ukhululekile. Ewe, kuya kufuneka ujonge ukunyameka kwakho kwaye ungavumeli ukuba "u-hump." Lo akuwona umsebenzi olula, kodwa unokuzihlawulela.

Emva kwe-posture kulandela umvuzo. Ukuze uzive uthembele, kufuneka ulunge kwisitalato, ulungise amahlombe akho, uphakamise intloko yakho. Ngentloko yakho, akufanele uhambe nonke. Oku akugcini nje ukunika umntu onobuhlungu, kodwa ubuhlungu bubukeka. Kwintanyeni kunemibimbi, apho kunzima ukulahla khona, kwaye i-chin isifo, ngenxa yeso sibini nesithathu esingabonakala. Emva kokuba uthathe isithuba esifanelekileyo, jonga isinyathelo sakho ukuze "ungahambi", musa "ukukrazula" kwaye ungachukumisi ngakumbi izandla xa uhamba. Ukuba unxiba izicathulo ngeesithende, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungahambi emilenzeni yakho. Ewe, kwenzeka, uya kudinwa kakhulu, kwaye kwiithende eziphezulu kunzima ukuhamba yonke imini. Emva koko kulungele ukhetho ngokukhetha izicathulo ngexabiso eliphantsi, kuba intombazana ehamba njengodada ihlekisayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo libuhlungu.

Ebomi akukho ziqhwaba zokuzithemba, kufuneka ukhangele. Nokuba uhlala nje. Ukuhlala ngqo, ekhululekile, engathembeki kwitheyibhile - kubonakala ngathi kulula. Kodwa ininzi yethu ayiyisebenzisi ukuhlala njengaye. Ngoko ke, kufuneka usebenze ekhaya, ubukele i-TV okanye uthethe kwifowuni. Kancinci umkhwa wokuhlala kakuhle kunye nokuhle uya kuphuhliswa, kodwa okokuqala ukuzithiba kuyafuneka.

Uziva unentembelo ebomini bakho ukuba ukhangeleka kakuhle. Umfazi olungele kakuhle uhlala ehle. Ungaze uvumele izambatho ezingcolileyo, izivumba ezingathandekiyo, okanye izikhonkwane ezingahlambulukanga. Xa unombono wekhulu lonke, ngoko uziva unentembelo, kwaye abantu abakufutshane nawe baqaphele oku.

Thatha kwihlabathi elingaphakathi

Xa siye sakha ukuzithemba kwangaphandle, siphendukela kwi-yangaphakathi. Ewe, unokwenza okuchaseneyo, kodwa indlela yokuziphatha ingapheli ixesha elide. Kwaye xa sele isiqingatha semfazwe silungile, ngoko kulula ukwenza.

Izwi liyilona ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, kufuneka ziveze ukuzola nokuzithemba. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiivenkile okanye kwiivenkile unokudibana nabantu abanjengokuba besaba kwaye bexolisa, bathethe nabalindi. Ngendlela efanayo, ngoko siqhagamshelana nabalingane, abathengi, abamelwane. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha ngokuzithemba kwaye uzive ebomini. Unokwenza kwakhona kwiivenkile okanye kwiivenkile. Ukucela umthengisi kwisitoreji, okanye wenze umyalelo kwivenkile yokudlela, jonga ilizwi lakho. Akufanele akhuthumele aze athule, itoni ifanele iqiniseke. Ekugqibeleni, ungumthengi kunye nomnini wale meko, akukho mntu uyamoyikayo kwaye akananto yokuxolisa. Kwakhona, ngokuphuhlisa umkhwa, ngexesha elifanelekileyo uza kuba nokuthetha nabantu bonke ngokulinganayo.

Ukuze uzive uthembele ebomini, kubalulekile ukuba ube nesangqa esikhulu sazana. Kwaye ukuba babonakale, kufuneka ufunde izakhono zonxibelelwano. Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze kukuba ufunde indlela yokugcina incoko iya khona. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwinkampani engaqhelekanga, okanye endizungezwe ngabalingane okanye nabafundi esikolweni, sinokuziphatha ngendlela evaliweyo kwaye sihlale siluthile ixesha lonke. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanjalo bangabonakali ngaphezu kwexesha, bayeke ukuphawula. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uhlale uzama ukugcina intetho iya. Sivele sinokuzithemba, ukubonakala kakuhle, sinokuthetha ngelizwi eliqhelekileyo. Ngoko musa ukuhlaziswa abanye abantu. Kungenzeka ukuba, banamahloni angaphantsi kweyakho, bafunde ukusifihla. Udinga ukungena kwiingxoxo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuthetha into engalungile. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, amava okunxibelelana kungekhona kuphela kunye nezihlobo eza kwandisa ukuzithemba, kwaye uncede ekuphuculeni ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabanye abantu. Yaye nayiphi na ingxelo ingasoloko iguqulelwa kwintlanzi.

Kwaye, ngokubalulekileyo, musa ukulibala ukuzidumisa. Wonke umntu uyazi indlela yokuqeqesha ngokuzenzekelayo, xa umntu ezama ukuzitshintsha ukuba atshintshe ngoncedo lwamagama athando kunye nokuvunywa. Ukudumisa kubantu abangaziwayo akusoloko kufunyanwa xa ufuna. Abantu bahlala bexakeke kunye nabo, abanalo ixesha lokunika omnye umntu kwisihlwele. Kodwa unomntu ojongisisa kakuhle impumelelo yakho kunye nokuphumelela, wena ngokwakho. Ndiyabulela ukusebenza kuwe ngokwakho, unokufikelela eninzi. Zithokoze kuqala, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bonke baya kubona inguqu ebhetele kwaye baqale ukumthanda umfazi othakazelisayo nozinene-wena!