Yintoni enokuyenza xa umyeni wam enekosikazi

Ukuhlala ehlukile kumyeni wakhe iminyaka emininzi kunzima. Kukho, ke, inqanaba elincinane lamadoda angakhange atyathwe ngubugwenxa. Amanye alawulwa yimithetho emibini. Iyokuqala-ngaphezulu kufinyelele kumntu ebomini, ngokukhawuleza uza kuhamba "ngakwesobunxele". Okwesibini - ukuba wakhula kwintsapho apho uyise "ehamba khona", ukuthembeka komyeni kungenakubalwa. Kodwa ke, yintoni enokuyenza xa umyeni enenkosikazi? Oku kuya kuxoxwa ngezantsi.

Inani elincinci lamadoda kuqala lixabisa ukufudumala kwexesha elide elinokuthenjwa kunye nekhaya elidlulileyo ngaphezu kwesifiso esivuthayo kodwa esifutshane. Umsebenzi wakho awuyi kuguqula oku kwangaphambili ibe ngamanxuwa. Kuphela apho, apho umhlaba utshiswa khona, ndifuna ukugijima ngaphandle kokujonga emva.

Iingcali zengqondo zithi: indoda ifuna inkosikazi kulowo atshatileyo ngexesha elinye. Akuninzi "uhlobo" lwangaphandle njengomxholo wangaphakathi, iipropati zomlingisi oneminyaka edlulileyo, utshintshe ukuba zilungele.

NOKUBENZA

Qinisekisa ukuba yintoni ngaphandle kwezesondo odibeneyo kwaye ulungele ukuyihlawulela ngenxa yoxolo lokuziphatha. Ukuba awucingeki ukuphula ubudlelwane, awucingi ukuba kunokwenzeka - ngenxa yalokhu akukho siseko esingokwenyama, amandla angqondo (usayithanda) okanye ukuzithemba (ukuba uya kufumana omnye umyeni), ukuba abantwana bahlobo kunye noyise baze bamthande, kufuneka ulwe nomtshato. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, uyeka ukuxoxa ngokungcatsha kwakhe kwaye wenze isicwangciso esiqinisekisiweyo.

Kuthekani ukuba umyeni wam wazifumana inkosikazi

IXESHA LOKUQALA

Iimveli zecala liphela kumadoda ngokuqhelekileyo ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-8 (ngokuqhelekileyo, kungenjalo kunye nomfazi omnye). Ngaba ufuna ukuphumelela kwimfazwe engachaswanga? Kufuneka uncede unyaka kunye nesiqingatha okanye ezimbini. Into ephambili akuyikuvumela indawo yakho yokufanelekileyo ithathwe ngenye. Emva kwexesha, yonke into idla ngokubhetele. Iingongoma eziphambili zeli xesha, okumele uzikhuthaze zona: ungowesifazane omhle kwaye unako ukukwenza, awuyi kubeka ityala lokungcatsha komyeni wakho, ufanelwe uthando kunye nobudlelwane bokwenene. Kodwa musa ukubeka ingozi ekutshintsheni-esi sizathu sokuhamba!

UKUKHULULELA UMSEBENZI

Qaphela inyaniso elula: ukubonakala komnye umfazi kunye nawe akukho ndlela ixhunyiwe. Akuzange ivela kwinto yokuba "uyatshatyalaliswa", "akayilungise" okanye "uyisiphukuphuku". Abachasene bavela kubafazi abahle kakhulu nabahle.

Kuthekani ukuba umyeni wam wayenomfazi wenkosikazi? Kwenzeka xa abahlobo bengabonakali (kwaye ngokukodwa) banciphisa abayeni babo "ngakwesobunxele." Ukuba kukho ithuba lokubakhupha ngaphandle kwesaqalelwano soqhagamshelwano-yenza oko. Ukuba akunjalo - bukela izenzo zabo ezongezelelweyo.

Sobry "kwicala" - ungashiya umfutshane umhlobo, kodwa ngaphandle kwezinto - kwaye uqale usebenze. Akukho kumkhupha ngaphandle komnyango kunye nabangcikivo! Oku kuyisiphukuphuku kwaye akukho nto ikhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into entle.

UKUZIPHATHA

Amadoda athile atshintshe isondo ngokuthuzela, kwaye oku kufuneka kusetyenziswe. Kubalulekile ukuqinisa indlu: ukupheka okomnandi, ukuzisa ubuhle kunye nokuhleleka, ukuzinyamekela, ukuqala ukuhlangana nabangani. Musa ukwehla ekujongeni umyeni ngefowuni kwaye ukhangele i-imeyile yakhe. Zama ukuzikhusela kwiimvakalelo ezimbi. Ukuba ubuhlobo kunye nenkosikazi yomyeni wakhe bekunamathele ngokukhawuleza, ekhaya, mhlawumbi, kuya kuba yinto ebomvu. Uya kugxeka yonke into: ukubonakala kwakho, ubuntu, umsebenzi. Ukuqokelela intando yakho ibe yintonga kwaye ungahlambalazi, kodwa phulaphulaphula kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Wugubungele intloko. Zonke "zakho iintsilelo" zibhekisela kwiimpawu zakho ezilungileyo. Eli thuba alona isono kwaye uyamkela. Akayi kukulahlekelwa nguwe, kodwa umyeni wakhe uya kumangaliswa ukufumana amatsha, amacala amnandi kuwe.

PHELA, XA

Unokuxelela malunga nomchasi. Utshilo - siphulaphula ngesikhundla 'somama onakekelayo - kwaye ukhumbule kakuhle. Into eyona nto ayikuthi iqhube. Kubalulekile ukuqonda: Yintoni enayo engenaye? Oku kunokwenzeka, kuvela: asikho impawu 'yentombazana' kunye 'nenkosikazi.' "Intombazana" ithatha indoda njengoko ihlala nayo - ihlala iyamkela kwaye ayisoze ityala. "Unkosikazi" - unomdla kwaye akanakulinganiswa. Akaze abe nekhanda! Okona kubaluleke kakhulu - kuzo zonke izihlandlo akaphiki umyeni wakhe ngesondo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kube njalo.

UKUBHALA KWEJIKELELE

Umyeni onomdla oqhelekileyo naye, unqabile uhamba ngonaphakade. Qala ukumbandakanya kumtya wezinto zeentsapho. Izihlobo ezibandakanyekayo kunye nabantu abonwabileyo nabayimfuneko kwisangqa sakho soqhagamshelwano. Beka umyeni wakho kwi-epicenter yazo zonke iinkqubo, mazise ukuba uyafuneka kwaye uyathandwa. Uhlangothi olungalunganga ", xa ufumene into engalunganga, iya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuqoqa ama-scandals kunye nokwesaba. Umsebenzi wakho ukuwufumana kuqala. Umele umxolele umyeni wakho, mhlawumbi awuyi kusebenza! Ukucamngca kunye nomoya wokuzimelela kuya kunceda. Zama!

ISISHINTSHELO SOKUBA NENGE ...

1. Inkosikazi isigxina kwaye ihlala ixesha elide.

2. Awukwazi kuba nabantwana, kwaye ukhuphiswano luyakwazi ukuzala.

H. Awuzange ube ngabahlobo bokwenene - abathandi nje, abavakalelwa yimvakalelo yabo.

4. Uphezu kwalo ngezinga, ukhuseleko lwempahla, umdala, unamandla, unzima.

5. Unesimo esinjalo sokuba "unkosikazi" ukuba abe nenkosikazi, kwaye indoda inayo inkosikazi kumgaqo othi "kuyimfuneko".