Indlela yokuziphatha emva kokungcatsha komyeni wakhe

Wonke amaphupha amabhinqa enentsapho eqinile, enothando umyeni wakhe kunye nabantwana bakhe abathandekayo. Omnye unalolu phupha, umntu useyiphupha. Kwaye ngoku umfazi ozalisekisa iphupha lakhe, uyonwabela uvuyo, uhlambe ngothando nangothando. Iminyaka izayo, abantwana bazalwa, kwaye akukho nto ibonakala ingabangela ulonwabo. Kodwa, njengoko besithi, ubusuku buza kutshintsha kwimihla, into yatshintshile ekuphatheni komyeni wayo. Waqala ukulala emsebenzini, uye kwindlu yangasese enefowuni, okanye ucime ifowuni xa efika ekhaya. Waba ngumntwana omncinci kumntwana, utyhafile, walala embhedeni wabuyela kwindonga, okanye wabukela i-TV ixesha elide. Kwaye ngoku uyingxaki eyingozi, umyeni wakhe wayenomnye umfazi-umlingani.
Indlela yokuziphatha emva kokungcatsha komyeni wakhe? Abaninzi abasetyhini babuza lo mbuzo. Ukuqokelela iipotukethi uze uyibeke ngaphandle komnyango? Ukuzenza nje ukuba awuboni nantoni na? Zifumane umthandi ukuba uziphindezele kumyeni ongathembekanga? Zingaphi ngokukhawuleza ukubuza imibuzo, kuphela kunzima ukufumana iimpendulo kubo.

Unokuqwalasela ukhetho lokuqokelela i-suitcase kwaye uyithumele kumdlali wakho. Yaye loo nto ayiyiyo ingcinga embi, nangona ngoku ihlupheke. Ebusuku, ukuphulaphula oku kuhlaziyekayo, ukuqokelela amasokisi angcolileyo kumagumbi. Uhleli eceleni kwakhe xa egula. Ucinga. ukuba uya kuhlala ehle, enobubele, obumnene. ukuba akafani nomsebenzi wakhe, ulunge ngakumbi, ekubeni wagqiba ukuza kuye ngezinto. kuphela akaqondi ukuba ufike kuphela ngenxa yokuba akanakho ndawo. Ukugqitha kweveki kamva uya kuqalisa ukukhumbula i-borscht yakho, ii-pie. Ukufudumala nokuthuthuzela ekhaya, apho abantwana bakhe balinde khona.

Enye inketho ayikukuphawula ukukrexeza. Ukuze wenze sengathi kufanele ukuba njalo, uzinqande nge-valerian imihla ngemihla kwaye ucinge ngelinye ilanga kuya kuphelisa, kwaye bonke abafana bahamba. Yaye iminyaka ihamba, kwaye ngokukhawuleza iyahamba, emva kokungcatsha komyeni wayo, uya kuzihlambalaza nje ngokuziphatha okunjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo unamathela kumtya ongabonakali ophakathi kwakho nabantwana. Ungaphila ngenxa yabantwana, uziqinisekisile ukuba abantwana badinga uyise. Ngaba baya kubonga xa bekhula? Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu makathembele ukuba indoda iya kugqithisa kwaye ibuyele kwintsapho, kwaye ayiyi kwenza into enjalo.

Kodwa ngenxa yoko, kunyanzelekile ukwenza imizamo, zama ukwenza oko ukuba wayengenaso ixesha lokuya kwindlovukazi yakhe. Ngothando, unobtrusively ubuze uncedo kwindlu, okanye ukuya kwizihlobo ngeveki okanye ngokuhlwa. Yenza emva kokungcatsha komyeni wakhe, ufune njengendlovukazi. Shintsha umfanekiso wakho, jonga oko uhamba khona ekhaya. Ngengubo yokugqoka, i-slippers kwaye ingenziwanga? Uze ucinge (ngokuqinisekileyo oku akubiyo) njengoko udibana nenkosikazi yakhe. Ukulungiswa kakuhle, entle egqoke isambatho yokugqoka i-silk kwaye umculela kuye indlela eyahlukileyo ngayo, yindoda enhle elele embhedeni. Ngaba uye wamtshela loo mazwi athobisayo ixesha elide? Myeke embhedeni wendlovu, kwaye ebomini umntu oqhelekileyo ekuqeqeshweni kunye nezikhwebu zakhe ezolulelwe ngonaphakade kwi-TV. Cinga ngako, indoda ayithandi ukutya kuphela, kodwa ukujonga nokuphulaphula.

Kwaye okulandelayo, kwiinketho ezicetywayo, emva kokungcatsha komyeni wakhe kufumana umthandi ukuba abuyisele kumyeni wakhe. Cinga ngalo ngokukhawuleza, ukuba unomama ohloniphekileyo, umfazi, ngoko unganakwenzeka ukwenza ngaphandle kwemiphumo yesistim sakho senzwa. Ubuqhetseba abukho njengemililo njengoko kubonakala ekuqalekeni, kufuna ukulungiswa kokuziphatha. Awukwazi ukutshintsha indoda kunye nomntu wokuqala obanjwe, oku kuziphatha kakubi. Kwaye akuyi kuba lula kuwe, kholwa kwam. Impindezelo ayiyonto enhle njengoko ibonakala ekuqaleni.

Indlela yokuziphatha emva kokungcatshiswa komyeni wakhe, kufike kuwe kwaye akukho namnye onokugqiba. Akukho ntombi iya kukucebisa ngesigqibo esifanelekileyo, phulaphula intliziyo yakho, jonga ngokwakho kwisibuko uze uphendule ngokwayo!