Kuthekani ukuba indoda yam ishiye enye

Intsapho iyatshatyalaliswa, yonke into iyawa. Indlela eqhelekileyo yobomi, eboshwe kwizinto ezincinci ezinjalo intliziyo. Umyeni wam washiya, kwaye akazange ahambe nje, kodwa omnye umfazi. Yintoni enokuyenza, njani? Musa ukuphelelwa yithemba, kungekhona ukwenza amanyathelo okukhawuleza anokukwazi ukwenza ingozi ngexesha elizayo.

Okokuqala, zama ukunciphisa. Oku kunzima kakhulu. Kodwa kuyimfuneko, ukuze siphile singapheli kwixinzelelo kwixesha elide. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuzibeka ngokwakho. Hamba uhambo kungekude, kodwa makube yindawo ekude kwimemori yakho. Hlangana nabantu abatsha. Udla oko uthembisile ixesha elide, kodwa kwiinkxalabo malunga nomyeni wakhe lonke ixesha lihlehliselwe ixesha elizayo. Yenza impilo, yoga. Funda ubugcisa be-origami, kodwa kuncinane kangakanani ukuba unomdla kakhulu kulo msebenzi.

Akuluncedo ngeli thuba ukulungiselela ngaphezulu kokubonisana kunye neentombi, apho i-ajenda eya kuba ngumbuzo wendlela awayekwesaba ngayo umkhonto, kwaye yintoni enye enye inkosikazi yenyoka. Mhlawumbi umyalelo wangexesha elilodwa lale mibutho kwaye unokuzuza, kodwa ukuba yinto enokwenza isihlandlo esinjalo ixesha lokuziphatha kunokulimaza zombini imeko kunye nawe. Kukho ithuba lokubambelela kwingxaki kunye namava akho. Ngoko ke sisuka kule nyaniso ngokwenene. Kwaye kuphela xa ulaka lomphefumlo lugqithisile umntu unokuqwalasela loo mbandela ngokupheleleyo.

Yilungele ukuzijonga wena, ubomi bakho, umyeni wakho kunye nomfazi wakhe omtsha evela ngaphandle. Ukuzibonakalisa emininzi imibuzo kwaye uzenzele into efanayo. Zama ukuphendula ngokunyanisekileyo, ungesabi ukuba akukho mntu uya kukugweba. Ungazibona njengento nayiphi na into, kodwa kunzima ukuzigweba ngokwakho ukuze i-psyche ihlelwe. Ngokusekelwe kwiimpendulo unokwenza izigqibo.

Yintoni eyenza uxinezeleke ngakumbi? Ukuba indoda ihambe, okanye ukuba indoda inomnye umfazi. Okanye kubaluleke kakhulu kumfazi osele umyeni. Ngaba kufuneka u buyele ebomini bakho lowo ukhetha kuwe kwenye? Ngoko nokuba ukhululekile ebomini bakho. Uyakhumbula ukuba uke waphupha ukuguqula yonke into kwaye uqale kwakhona? Ukuba ezo ngcamango zahanjelwa ... Kuhle kakhulu sisihlandlo sokubhiyozela. Ukuba akunjalo, naliphi na isiganeko kufuneka sithathwe njengesizathu sokusebenza kuwe, kwizigqibo kunye nokulungisa iimpazamo. Nawaphi amava ekugqibeleni abe yintlawulo. Ingaba kusenza sibe namandla, sinobubele, sinyamezele okanye siqine ngakumbi, kwaye sisenokungabi namandla xa ufuna.

Kukho ingozi yokuwa ngobulungisa. Musa ukuthatha uxanduva malunga nezigqibo zomyeni wakhe. Oku ekugqibeleni awukhe wagqiba ekubeni uhambe. Esi sigqibo sakhe, kwaye ewe, ukuba ufuna ilungelo lakhe. Akuyimfuneko ukufumana ubudlelwane kunye nomchasi wakho, oku akusiyo inzuzo yakho. Akukho nto uyayikunika loo ntetho. Omnye umfazi akasoze akuqonda, uhlukile, kwaye indoda yedwa. Abanqobileyo banomdla. Le yinto efana neyobufazi.

Musa ukunika umdlali umdla, bhiyozela ukunqoba kwabo. Kwindoda, iingxoxo ezinjalo zibangela ukucaphuka okukhulu kuba ababonanga nantoni na into eyenzekayo. Yaye ubulungisa buya kuhlala buyi-initiator. ukuba umtshato wakho nomyeni wakho ngaphambi kokuvela komnye umfazi, ngoluvo lwakho lwalulungekile, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwenzeka ukuba intliziyo engenasiphako yintliziyo ayikwazanga ukumelana nokutshabalalisa kwe-razluchnitsy. Kufuneka ukwazi ngaphezu kwekhulu elininzi malunga nomyeni wakho. Ngokuphathelene nemikhwa yakhe, ukhetho. Kwaye ukuba umntu unomncinci ngokungathandabuzekiyo, oko kuthetha ukuba kusasa kakhulu ukuhlahlisa iileyile kwaye uphonsa iiflegi ezimhlophe.

Musa ukuqhuba kwaye uyancedisa ekukhethweni okunzima. Indoda ihlala apho iyakuthandwa kwaye iyakuthandwa. Akunzima ukumxelela ukuba indlu yakho ihlale ivulekile kuye kwaye intliziyo iyafana. Kulula kakhulu ukubuyela apho ukulindeleke khona, apho usuxolelwe khona yonke into. Ukuziqhenya kwamadoda akuvumeli umntu ukuba abuyele enetyala. Uxolelwe da.Proshchayte wabo othandekayo nothando.