Ngexesha elifanayo, indlu ikwazi ukulungiswa kwezinga eliphezulu, izixhobo zanamhlanje, iityshini ezithengisayo. Kwaye akucaci ukuba njani, ngexesha elininzi lokukhululeka, uyise wentsapho ulawula ukufumana konke oku. Enyanisweni, oomama abaninzi bakuphulaphule ingoma enhle kakhulu imihla ngemihla: Sawubona, othandekayo! Namhlanje ndiphelile. Umsebenzi u ... Hayi, ngokungathí sina! "Hayi, kwakhona," uyabubula. Kuhlambalaza ukuhlamba umntwana omnye. Ihlazo lokufudumala kwi-microwave dinner, eyayixhalabele ukukhonza ngokutsha. Yintoni enokuyenza ukuba umyeni usebenza ngaso sonke ixesha, oko kuthetha ntoni?
Ndiyakuvuyela ukukhonza
Ukuxakeke ngakumbi kumntu wakho umyeni wakho, ngakumbi kuncike kwizinto ezikhoyo kwiimarike zanamhlanje. Yaye inyaniso kukuba ukuba inkampani ibe nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo kwishishini layo, ukuze lingayi kuphuka kwaye liqhubeke libonelela ngemisebenzi, kufuneka ligcine ubuncinane beemfuno zabasebenzi abenza umsebenzi omkhulu. Oku kuthetha ukuba phantse wonke umsebenzi kufuneka asebenzele yena ngokwakhe kunye naloo mntu. "Nangona kunjalo, ndifanele -ilizwi alifanelekanga." Wonke umntu unokhetho. "Kukho enye into enje. kwisitrato ngaphandle kokuphila, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kulungisa umyeni wakho nawe. "Ukuphazamiseka komsebenzi: umqeshwa ongeyomfuneko uye waba yinto eqhelekileyo." Ophakamileyo umntu ukhuphuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, mhlawumbi uya kufuneka ahlale emva emsebenzini. Elika alimwi uNapoleon wathi kuye ukuba "nje lijoni yokuqala bukhosi." Yintoni endingayithetha ngayo ngomphathi othobekileyo wokuthengisa? Ikamva lekampani lixhomekeke kwimisebenzi yakhe, kwaye yena ngokwakhe, ngoko akufanele aphumule kwiimpahla zakhe, kodwa kubalulekile ukusebenzela ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku.
Yintoni endiyicebisa ngayo oomama abancinane abayeni babo abaqhuba umsebenzi?
• Musa ukuhlukumeza umlingane wakho ngeenhlamba ezingafanelanga. Inokwenzeka ukuba, yena ngokwakhe uya kuvuyela ukunika umsebenzi kunye nexesha elincinane. Kodwa ngenye indlela akunakwenzeka. Yamkele oku njengenyaniso.
• Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ukutshatyalaliswa kokunganeliseki komfazi kunokubakhokelela ekutshintsheni ukuphucula. Ewe, umyeni wakho akayi kuvuka aze ashiye ibhodi yabalawuli emva kweSMS yakho enomsindo ngesidlo sangokuhlwa. Kodwa apho kuxhomekeka kuye, uya kuzama ukuhlala ixesha elide.
• Khumbula ukuba "ulonwabo xa uhamba novuyo ukusebenza kusekuseni, kwaye ngokuhlwa uya kubuya ekhaya ngokuvuya." Nesiqingatha sesibini solu lonwabo luxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kuwe. Hlangana nomyeni wakho ngeendaba malunga nokufezekiswa kwabantwana, isidlo esihlwabusayo kunye nokubanga okunomdla.
• Thatha ixesha lokuthetha. Qaphela imicimbi yegosa yomyeni wakhe, kwaye umgcinele ngolwazi ngemicimbi yasekhaya.
Inkosi eyiyo yonke into
Icala elincinane - xa uyise wentsapho yakhe ishishini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uyinkosi yakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, le ntloko yeeyure ezingama-24 kunye neshedyuli yomsebenzi ongenakulinganiswa. Ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ufika kusasa ukuba athathe unyana wakhe okanye intombi yakhe enkulisa, kodwa emva kweeveki ezimbalwa uya kulahla emsebenzini ngisho nangeveki. Umlingani umona: indoda - ishishini. Futhi uhambo olwandle, kunye nemoto entsha, kunye nezingane zakudala ezihlawulwayo - zonke ezi ziphumo zangempela zomsebenzi kaTata onzima. Kodwa awunakuboni uyihlo. Awukhumbuli ixesha lokugqibela oye watyelela intsapho yakho. Zonke izimemo zihlehliswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngenxa yengqesho yomyeni wakho. Ewe kukho iindwendwe, xa unqabile kakhulu! Yaye inkwenkwe ibona ubaba kuphela nge-splash yefowuni yakho yeselula ... Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe ngandlela-thile le meko ibe ngcono?
• Mhlawumbi uyavuma ukuba uphile ngemali encinci, ukuba umyeni wam kuphela uza kutyelela ekhaya ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, ishishini alinakuhlala liqhutywa ngaphandle kwemida elinganiselwe, ngaphandle kokuphuhlisa okanye ukwandisa. Abakhuphiswano beza kwaye baya kuhlutha isabelo sakho semarike. Kule meko, isisombululo esona sisisombululo sokwenza intsapho yeqabane lomtshato. Ngoko uya kuba neengongoma ezingaphezulu zoqhagamshelwano. Yiba ngumncedisi kunye nomhlobo wemfazwe kumyeni wakho.
• Ngexesha elifanayo, thetha nomyeni wakho ukuba ufuna ngokwenene indlela ekhoyo, ngoku asebenzayo ngoku. Mhlawumbi, into enokukhutshwa ngokukhuselekileyo. Qinisekisa umyeni wakho ukuba ulungele ukwenza ngaphandle komgcini wendlu kwaye ungenalo isambatho esinobuchopho obutsha, ukulibaziseka ukwakhiwa kwendlu yasehlobo okanye ukuthengwa kwemoto entsha (ukuba kunjalo ngokwenene). Umlingane makaqiniseke ukuba wena kunye nabantwana bakho bamthandayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba inani lamatyala kunye namakhadi ekweretheni kwisikhwama sakhe.
Phantse umdlalo
Kwaye kuthiwani ngomyeni wakhe olahlekileyo emsebenzini ngaphandle kwintlekele kwintsapho? Okokuqala, cinga ukuba yini eyamkhuthaza? Mhlawumbi lo u msebenzi. Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi banomsebenzi obalulekileyo kunye nabancedo ngamanye amaxesha bafumana incinci. Ziqhayise ngaye. Ukongezelela, izazinzulu ezivela kwiYunivesithi yasePennsylvania zandula zichasa inkolelo yokuba abahamba phambili banamathandani ababi. Amandla abo aphelile! Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha imeko yezinto eziphathekayo kwintsapho, kuyakufuneka imizamo yakho.
• Khangela indoda ekhethekileyo.
• Jonga umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo. Ukuba akunjalo ngoku, ngoko kwixesha elizayo.
• Ukwenza isikhalazo kumyeni wakhe ngemali yakhe ephantsi, jonga ngokwakho. Namhlanje kukho abafazi abaninzi abaphumelelayo, kodwa ngaba ubaphatha?