Ewe, ukuba uzuze ifiloso yakho kwiijethi. Kuhle xa ukuzithemba kwethu kuqiniswa ngabazali, ootitshala kunye nabahlobo. Kuthekani ukuba umntu akanalo inhlanhla? Ukuba ibhinqa lihlala ligxekwa ukususela ebuntwaneni bakhe, lide lihlaziswe? Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba kulungiswe ngonaphakade ukuba kungabonakali, kuvaliwe kwaye kunzima? Akunjalo! Funda ukuba ungabi yimpunga egciniweyo! Kwaye kubalulekile.
Gqoka!
Ingaba siyayithanda okanye ayikho, abantu basigweba ngokubonakala. Ngoko awukwazi ukuphepha ukuza kwivenkile entsha yearrobe. Umfazi ogqoke ngokwemfashini, obeka abanye ingqalelo, uzimela ngokuzenzekelayo. Enyanisweni, bahlangana kwiingubo, bavavanya, kwaye ngoko ukutshintsha le ngongoma kuza kuzisa into entsha ebomini bakho.
Kakade, nayiphi impahla oyifunayo ukuze ukwazi ukugqoka. Kwaye ukuba awuqhelekanga ukugqoka okanye izithende eziphakamileyo, uya kufuneka uzenze. Kodwa intle isetyenziswa ngokukhawuleza. Into ephambili - ukunakekelwa kwembonakalo kuyomeleza ukuzithemba, kusisigxina kwingcinga yokuba siyathandeka. Kwaye ke uya kuncwina ukugxeka. Akunakukukhuphula into yakho, kodwa ngokufumana indlela yakho, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kubuntu bakho.
Jonga ukuhamba kwakho!
Oogogo bethu bekunene, besinceda besuka ebuntwaneni bathi: "Lungisani! ". Abantu abanokwazi ukubamba iintloko zabo phezulu nakwiyiphi na imeko kwaye bajonge phambili akukwazi ukuba baqhelekile. Bahlala befumana ebomini into abayifunayo baze baphumelele kuyo yonke into. Ukuphuma esitrato, lungisa amaphepha akho kwaye uphakamise intloko yakho. Hamba ngokuzolileyo, ngaphandle kwee-jerks, musa ukukhawuleza. Musa ukumangaliswa xa abantu beqala ukunikela ingqalelo kuwe, kwaye abantu baya kukuncoma. Mvalela nje. Oku, kunokunokongeza ukuzithemba.
Qala ukudlala imidlalo. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kunika amandla amaninzi, ukuphucula ukubonakala. Inika umvakalelo ukuba wenza okuthile kuwe. Khumbula, ke, ukuba awukwazi ukukrazula izinto eziphambili zomzimba! Hayi, ukuzivocavoca akuyi kunceda, ingakumbi ukuba abanakukuvuyisa. Khetha okulungileyo kuwe. Ukuba uthanda ukubhukuda, yenza inqaku kwigumbi. Ukuba ukhetha i-aerobics - kukho ezininzi iiklabhu zempilo.
Amaninzi emini, thatha ixesha lokuphefumula. Hlala ngaphandle kwexesha, sebenzisa isifuba sokuphefumula. Umphefumlo ngamnye mazibe ngongqongqo njengoko kungenakwenzeka kuphela ngokuphakamisa isifuba, kodwa nakwiindleko zesisu. Unokwenza lo mzekelo xa ulala, umile kwaye nangona uhamba. Ukuphefumula okuchukumisayo okucuthayo, ukuphilisa nokunika amandla. Ukwenza uzive ulula kwaye ukhululekile. Emva koko uqala ukuhamba ngendlela eyahlukileyo - ngokufanelekileyo nangokwezesondo.
Cinga ngokufanelekileyo
Yima phambi kwesibuko uze ukhangela ukucinga kwakho ngobubele. Khangela into enokukukholisa ngayo. Izinwele ezimnandi, ukumomotheka, ukubukeka ngobulumko. Ewe! Ukwandisa ukuzithemba, amandla okucinga okulungileyo kubalulekile. Njalo uqaphele iingcambu ezilungileyo - umlingiswa wakho, ingqondo yakho, ukukwazi kwakho ukubona okuhle. Uhlukile! Kufanelekile ukuzibonakalisa yonke imihla.
Ungagxininisi kuphela kuwe, nangona kunjalo, qaphela iingenelo zabanye abantu uze ubaxelele ngabo. Hamba phambili kwaye uzama ukubona kubantu ukuba yini efanelekileyo kubo. Kwaye kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba ubone amahlangothi amnandi kuwe, ungabi mhlophe kwaye ungabonakali, ungakhohliwe ngumntu wonke.
Lahla ukwesaba
Esikhundleni sokuphazamiseka apho unokufumana khona ukuzithemba, qala usebenze njengomntu owaziyo intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukuzithemba." Qhathanisa ukwesaba kwakho, umda. Le yindlela efanelekileyo yokuphucula ngokukhawuleza ukuzithemba. Awudingi ukuxhuma ngeparachute ngokukhawuleza, thandana ngokwakho.
Qala ngezinto ezincinci. Ngokomzekelo, zama ukuzitywina kubadluli-sitalato. Emva koko unako ukuqhubela phambili kumsebenzi onzima. Ngaba ukwesaba ukuhlangabezana nabantu abatsha? Musa ukukhusela iinkampani ezinomsindo. Uya kubona ukuba kuphela ekuqaleni kukho ukuthintela, emva koko emva kokubulisa okulandelayo, ukwesaba kuya kuba mncinane. Kwaye kwakunzima kakhulu, kuya kuba lula, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kulula kakhulu.
Yamkela udumo
Kuyamangalisa. Kodwa asiyazi ukuba sisabela njani ngokwaneleyo ukuncoma. Xa sixelelwa ukuba sibukeka kakuhle kangakanani, siyaziva sihlazekile. Abo bangaphazamisi ukongeza intsimbi kunye nokuzithemba, ukuphendula ngokuqhelekileyo kuphazamiseka. Ngokukhawuleza uqale amagama anamahloni anjenge: "Woza ... Le ngqayi endala ... Le ngxowa iminyaka eyikhulu ..." Ngoko musa! Ubulala umfazi othembekileyo kuwe.
Ekuphenduleni kwenkomfa, kungcono nje ukumomotheka. Cwaka. Vumela abanye babone ukuba impendulo yabo ayiyinto entsha kuwe. Ngokukodwa xa indumiso ivela kumntu.