Abazali abaninzi banqwenela ukuziqhayisa ngeempumelelo zabo zeentombi zabo okanye abadala, kuba oku kuyimfuneko ukucinga ngokuphuhliswa kwamakhono kubantwana kunoma yiphina indawo. Kufuneka wenze oku ngaphambi kokuya kwibanga lokuqala.
Iiklasi kwi-kindergarten
Uninzi unina nobawo banethemba lokuba baya kuqhuba uqeqesho olusebenzayo kwi-kindergarten. Umntwana oya kwi-kindergarten, uya kuhlala ekulungele isikolo. Ootitshala baya kumfundisa ukuba ahlanganyele kwiqela, kwaye naye ngokwakhe. Bahlakulela umntwana wakho ngenjongo, kodwa ukuze anikezele ngesiseko esihle, oku akunako. Le nto kukuba kwi-kindergarten kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-3 banikezwa isiqingatha seyure, ukusuka kwi-4 kuya kwe-5 malunga neyure, ukusuka kwi-5 kuya kwe-6 malunga neeyure ezingama-2. Eminye ixesha, abantwana badlala, badla, bahambahamba, baphumule.
Abazali banceda
Abanye abazali bacinga ukuba xa bengenayo imfundo yokufundisa, abanako ukunceda abantwana babo nangayiphi indlela. Bayekelelwa ngokwabo, bethemba ootitshala nabafundisi besikolo. Umsebenzi wokwenza uncedo kubazali kubalulekile, ngenxa yoko kufuneka wenze izinto eziliqela:
- uzama ukufundisa umntwana ukuba athande iincwadi, zama ukufunda okuningi kuye;
- ukuhlala ixesha lakhe elincinci ngezinto ezincedo ukuze angenalo ixesha lokungenzi lutho. Makhe akhuphe, anqume, ayenze umphathi kunye nomdwebi;
- Kufuneka ukuba uxoxe naye ngezihloko ezahlukahlukeneyo kumdla, xubusha imiba ekunokwandiseni isangqa seminqweno yomntwana wakho;
- Fundisa umntwana ukuba abe yingqungquthela ukuze akwazi ukugxila kwiimeko ezithile;
- Njalo mkhuthaze ngeendlela zonke, nimdumise ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle.
Ukuqulunqwa kwamakhono omntwana
Kukho iimeko xa usesifunda esikolweni, kubonakale ukuba ukhetho lolo msebenzi lusemntwaneni, kodwa oku kwenzeka kwiimeko xa abazali beqaphele amandla akhe kunoma yimuphi umgangatho kwaye baye baphonsa yonke imizamo ekwakheni. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana ubambelela kakuhle iilwimi zangaphandle, ngoko mvumele abe ngumguquleli; iphumelele kwimicimbi eyahlukeneyo yezemidlalo - elinde impumelelo yakhe kwimidlalo, ithatha umvuzo kwi-Olympiads yesifundo-ingaba usosayensi.
Kodwa kukho nabazali abanjalo, abangenayo ingcamango yokuchaza nokuphuhlisa ubuchule, baholele abantwana babo kwizikolo ezahlukahlukeneyo, izangqa, ootitshala abazimeleyo. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana uqokelela ulwazi oluthe xaxa entloko yakhe ukuba akakwazi ukuyigaya, ngokwenyama akanakukwazi ukujamelana nemisebenzi eyabelwe yona, kwaye, njengomthetho, awuphumelelanga impumelelo. Abazali bayalimazeka, bachitha umzamo omkhulu, imali, iziphumo zomntwana wabo. Ngalolu hlobo, kufuneka silwele ukucacisa ukuba uza kubonisa iziphumo ezilungileyo kwaye uphumelele.
Ulungelo ludlala indima ebalulekileyo. Umntwana okhulele kwintsapho apho omnye wabazali ungumgijimi kunokwenzeka ukuba abe ngumdlali wezemidlalo. Kwintsapho yabaculi, kukho ithuba eliphezulu lokuba unayo indlebe ephakamileyo kakhulu kumculo kwaye uza kulandelwa ezinyathelweni zabazali bakho.
Isidingo sokutyelela izibonda, isikolo somculo kunye namacandelo
Udinga ukutyelela ama-mugs kunye namacandelo, kukho izinto ezininzi zokufundisa umntwana wakho. Okokuqala, ukukwazi ukusebenza kwiqela. Ukuthaya indlu kwenye ayikho into enomdla, akukho mntu ukujonga, ukudumisa okanye ukugxeka. Ndiyakwazi ukujikeleza abahlobo kunye nendumiso kunye nokuthetha.
Iikgub zokutyelela, isikolo somculo, icandelo, abantwana baya kufunda ukusebenza nomonde nomonde. Ngelixa abanye abafana beza kuxhoma, abakho baya kuba qeqesho okanye benze umculo, becula, njl.
Ukongezelela, umntwana uya kufunda ukuthelekisa iimpumelelo zabo kunye nabanye abantu, bavavanye kakuhle. Utata nomama bachukumisa yonke into eyenziwa ngabantwana babo: ubugcisa, imidwebo. Umqeqeshi kunye nootitshala bayakwazi ukuyixabisa ngokwenene, bayabona ukuba yimpumelelo yakhe. Iimpumelelo ziya kufakazela umnqweno wokunqoba, umnqweno wokuqina, ukhaliphe, okhaliphile.
Umsebenzi wabazali ngexesha lokubona umnqweno womntwana kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi, kuba abaninzi babo banemida emide.