Ngaba uye wakha wacinga ngokubhala phantsi iingcamango zakho, amava akho nemvakalelo evela ebomini bakho kwidayari yencwadi? Unomdla? Ingaba kukufanelekile ukugcina idayari yomphefumlo kunye nokuba yintoni, ndiya kukuxelela ngokubanzi.
Yintoni na?
Kwabanye abantu, ukugcina idayari yindlela yokwazi ngokwabo, ukuziphucula nokuphuhliswa, kwabanye - ukuchitha ixesha kunye nokubonakaliswa okungadingekile kweemeko ezidlulileyo.
Ukuba ukhangeleka kwinqanaba lokujonga i-psychology, idayari yindlela yokuzibonakalisa, okokuqala, phambi kwakho, kunye nethuba elizayo elizayo ukuba "uphile" ubomi bakho ngokutsha ngokufunda idayari. Ukukhokela okanye ukungagcini idayari kubangelwa ngumntu ngamnye, kwaye oku akuxhunyiwe naluphi uhlobo lwesifo sengqondo, njengoko abanye bacinga. Into ephambili yinto ebalulekileyo yenkcazelo kwidayari. Kuphela isicatshulwa sedayari sinokuthetha ngesifo sengqondo okanye ukungabikho kwayo.
Enyanisweni, abaphathi beengqondo ngokwabo bacebisa ukuba "bathululele ephepheni into ebuhlungu." Idayari iyona sixhobo esiqinisekisiweyo.
Inxalenye ethile yembali
Kungekude kudlulileyo kwakunokuba imfashini yokugcina idayari kwintombazana eyintombazana, nangona imvelaphi yedayari ithatha imvelaphi yayo ngaphambili. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, eli lixesha lokwenene nokuthandana kwintlalo yaseYurophu. Ininzi idayari ibhaliwe ngexesha le-XIX-XX leminyaka. e Yurophu.
Idayari kwimbali, uncwadi kunye nenkcubeko inenani elixabisekileyo, kuba libonisa i-biography, iingcamango kunye nempilo yabantu abadumileyo. Ukusuka kweli ngcamango, ukugcina idayari kuyinto ebalulekileyo. Mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo, umntu uya kuba nomdla ekufundeni nasekufumaneni inzuzo.
Senza isigqibo
Ukugqiba ukuba ngaba okanye ungayigcinanga idayari yinto ethile. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuba ufanelekile ukugcina idayari, kungcono ukulandela umgaqo: "Linganisa amaxesha alishumi, uyinqumle kanye". Iingxabano ekuthandeni "ngenxa" kwaye "ngokumelene":
Iingxoxo ezilishumi zokuba ugcine idayari
- Ukuba nedayari yomuntu siqu, uya kuhlala 'nomntu onokuthetha ngexesha elinzima,' ngamanye amagama, uthele umphefumlo wakho.
- Idayari yinto elungileyo yokwazi ngokwabo kunye nokwazisa.
- Ukuthabatha ukungena rhoqo kwidayari-diary, sithola "incwadana yobomi" emangalisayo, eqinisekileyo, iya kuba lunomdla wokufunda kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukungazi into enokuyenza ebusika ebusika ebusika, kukuhle ukujonga ngedayari yakho. Ndicinga ukuba kukho izinto ezintsha ezitsha apho, kuba awukwazi ukugcina yonke into entloko yakho ...
- Ukubhala phantsi imbali yobomi bakho, uhlakulela izakhono zakho zokubhala. Yaye ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi ukubhala kwakho italente kuza kufumaneka kwixesha elikude, kwaye uya kubhala incwadi ethengiswa kakhulu.
- Ukugcina idayari ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye emva kokuzalwa komntwana, kunika iimvakalelo ezintle kwaye kunceda ukuba ungalibali into ebiza kakhulu.
- Ufuna ukunika isipho esibaluleke kakhulu kubazukulwana bakho - bhala idayari. Ndicinga ukuba baqinisekile ukuba banomdla kwimbali yobomi bakho.
- Kwenzeka ukuba ezinye izihlandlo ebomini ofuna ukuphinde uzive. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku akunakwenzeka, kodwa idayari inokunceda ukukhumbula "imbali yonyaka edlulileyo" ngaphezulu kombala.
- Bathi ukuba kufezekiswe into, kufuneka ukwazi injongo. Kungcono ukuchaza umgomo wakho kwiphepha, uze uyihlakulele. Idayari inceda ukuvavanya oko uye waphumelela, kwaye oko kufuneka ukuba uzame ukuqhubeka.
- Izifundo zeDayari, eqinisweni, zifuna amava kunye nolwazi. Kutheni ungayiqondi "i-craft" entsha?
Iingxoxo ezintathu malunga nedayari
- Idayari inokuhlala ibe yinto yakho yokunciphisa. Ukuba unento yokufihla, cinga malunga nokuba "ubhala" oku.
- Ukugcina idayari "kuthatha" inxalenye yexesha lakho, ngoko kufuneka ucwangcise ixesha lakho ukuze lanele "umsebenzi" okhethekileyo.
- Akubona wonke umntu onokuyiqonda inzuzo yomsebenzi wakho, ngoko ke xa uthetha ngomntu ukuba ugcina idayari, kufuneka ukwazi ukulwa kwakhona ekukhuseleni kwakho.
Njengoko ubona, kuninzi iingxabano ezidibeneyo ukugcina idayari. Ingxabano ephambili ngokuchasana nedayari yomntu siqu ingozi yokuba umntu uyazi ngawe oko akudingeki ukuba wazi. Ngoko ke, ukuba ulwazi olunjalo lukhona, kungcono okanye kungekhona ukugcina idayari, okanye ukubhalwa malunga nokufihlakeleyo, okanye ukufihla ngobuchule i-notebook kwindawo ephephile.
Idayari yam ibomi
"Idayari yam yobomi bam, amaxesha awayi kuphinda aphindwe. Ndibhala phantsi yonke into endiyifumanayo, into endiyicinga ngayo, mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, malunga nokugqithisileyo kunye neenxeba. Ukuba umntu ufunda, ngoko mvumele amthathe njengokuba ndidlulile okanye ndibe nomona ngento engenayo. Ndiyayixabisa ubomi bam, ngoko ke andifuni ukuba idlule ngaphandle kokulandelelana, "uMarina wabhala njenge-epigraph kwidayari yakhe.
Iingxelo zeDayari, ngamanye amagama, zingabizwa ngokuthi zinika ubomi, kwaye amazwi kaMarina aqinisekisileyo. Ngoku ke kunye nama-albhamu akhethekileyo kwiintsana kunye neencwadana zeentombi ezithengiswayo, ezithetha ngokufunekayo ngokukhawuleza kuluntu, ingakumbi isigxina esingaswelekanga, ukubhala ngobomi bakhe.
Idayari yintsimi yam
Uninzi lweedayari ezihamba phambili azifuni ukufunda. Kuphantse kufana nokufunda iincwadi zobuntu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingozi yokuba imfihlo iya kufundwa, idibanaline ebalulekileyo, ebaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba kukho imfuneko. Ukudala indawo yokufihla isinqumo esifanelekileyo!
Isityhilelo sobomi
Ngoko, emva koko konke, kulungile, okanye akufanelekanga, kugcine idayari yomphefumlo? Mamela intliziyo yakho. Ukuba kukho imfuno, kufuneka iyaneliswa. Mhlawumbi imfuno ngokwayo iya kulahla kwiiveki ezimbalwa, kwaye mhlawumbi idayari iya kuba "isityhilelo sobomi bakho" kwaye uyivumele ukuba iphile kwimimori enemibala ngokuphindaphindiweyo ..