Uthando luvakalelo oluhle, lunikeza abantu amaphiko kwaye luphefumlelwe uthando lwabo ukuzisa abantu kuphela ukukhanya nokufudumala. Abathandekayo bazisa imfihlelo kunye nolonwabo kwihlabathi, i-fluids yabo inamandla kangangokuthi ibonakala ikhanyisa umhlaba wonke ngokukhanya kwayo. Ukuthanda ngokwenene, kungekhona wonke umntu onikwe, sisipho sikaThixo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uthando luncedisana, okanye uthando kumgangatho wenyama.
"Uthando olungunaphakade luhlala luthando," - ngoko unokuthi inxalenye encinci yabemi behlabathi. Kwabaninzi, ubukho bothando olungunaphakade luyinye inkolelo. Inkcazo malunga nenkosana eya kuthi isenzele into enhle neyintanda, ukunika iintyatyambo, ukugqoka ezandleni zakhe. Enyanisweni, sinokuthi sibe nobugwenxa kuthi, okanye ukubonakalisa ukuthanda uthando ngesimo somnye ukubanga esiteni xa uya emsebenzini. Kwaye kuthekani ngolo hlobo luthando olungunaphakade noluthando, malunga naziphi iibongozi, ababhali beprose. Siyaboniswa kumabonwakude athabathekayo ngothando olungunaphakade. Kutheni sihlala kwihlabathi langempela le nto ayifumanekanga.
Sifanele sibuke le ngxaki kumacala onke, akufuneki ukuba sizithobe ngokuzenzekelayo kule ngxaki. Iwayini ayisoloko ilala emagxeni omntu, kodwa thina bafazi nabo bahle. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungumntu, kodwa umfazi intamo. Nguyena umfazi onobulumko bakhe onokubuyiselwa ubuhlobo obudala nothando kunye nesithando.
Mangaliswa ngumhlobo wakho kwaye umangaliswe. Lo ngumyalelo wokuqala wothando olungunaphakade. Musa ukuphatha ngenyameko le nto, ukuba ayikho iholide imihla ngemihla. Kuyakwazi, ukuba ubeka inzame kuyo. Ukudala uthando olungunaphakade ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu, kungenanto efana nayo. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi bonakaliswa - ubomi bemihla ngemihla, umkhwa kunye nokungabi nako kwexesha elingunaphakade. Kodwa kukho indlela yokujongana nobudlelwane obungapheliyo, ikhandlela eliyinhloko entloko yendawo yokulala, i-massage yobusuku, ilinen ecikizekileyo, izityambo ezinamakha. Kwaye okuninzi kunokuthi kuvelise into enobungakanani kulwalamano.
Mamela indoda yakho kwaye uyiva. Ukuphulaphula nokuphulaphula izinto ezimbini ezihluke ngokupheleleyo. Akumele ulalele kuphela intanda yakho, kodwa uve oko akutshoyo kuwe. Hlaziya yonke into ayithethileyo. Singabesifazana, kaninzi asivumi ukuba umntu athethe, ammise ngamazwi athi: "Ndiyayazi oko ufuna ukukuxelela" okanye "Ndiyazi ukuba uthetha ntoni ngoku". Musa ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba akuyimfuneko, kwaye awukwazi ukuqhuba i-monologue phambi kwakhe. Ukubuza imibuzo kunye nokuziphendula ngokwakhe. Awukwazi. Yintoni eya kuthi kuwe kumzuzu olandelayo, awufundanga ingqondo yakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuba sinike indoda endiyintanda intlobo, siqala ukucinga ngokukhawuleza indlela asabela ngayo kunye nezimpendulo zemibuzo. Le ngenye indlela engafanelekanga ngayo, asikwazi ukuba kusengaphambili ukuba umntu uya kuthini ukusabela kuyo yonke le nto. Kwaye nangona loo nto ingayifinyeleli i-apogee yayo, asazi into ecinga ngayo loo mntu.
Uloyiko olusesikweni kwiibongo zethu lithetha ngokungaqiniseki kwethu nawe. Ukuba umntu uyakuthanda kwaye uyakuxabisa, uya kuhlala eqonda yonke into. Yaye uya kuqonda imizamo yakho ngesithunzi. Kwaye, ukuba yonke into ayilindelekanga, ungakhathazeki ngexesha elizayo kuya kuba ngcono. Sifanele oko kwaye abantu bafunde kwiimpazamo zethu.
Nika! Yiloo nto, nikela ingqalelo yakho yintando, izipho. Kodwa izipho kuphela azikho kwezoqoqosho, kodwa isipho esinomcangcilo wakho nothando.
Nguwe kuphela onokukunceda ukusinda koluthando kweli hlabathi likhulu lezilingo kunye neengxaki. Ngokuqhelekileyo uthetha nomntu malunga nentlungu, makhe akuve kwaye uzame ukukunceda. Bonke - unamandla, omnye ngomnye - izidalwa ezibuthathaka.
Nososayensi baqala ukukhangela umgaqo wothando olungunaphakade. Emva kokuphanda izibini ezitshatileyo kunye nezibini ezahlala ndawonye ngekota yesine, zafumanisa ukuba izibini ezitshatileyo eziye zahlala ndawonye iminyaka emininzi, zineempendulo ezifanayo kwiingqondo ezifana nezibini zothando. Oku kuphikisana ngokupheleleyo nombono wendabuko wothando, ngokwemiqathango yeekhemikhali eyenza iimeko ezinzulu ziwa kwiinyanga ezili-15 emva kokuqala kokubambisana kunye nokuphela kwimizuzu eyi-10.