Ukuthetha ngemikhwa emibi, ngokuqhelekileyo sithetha ukutshaya, ukuxiliswa kotywala kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Kodwa oku akunjalo ngokuchanekileyo. Konke oku ngasentla - akuyiyo imikhwa, kunye nokuxhomekeka kwentsholongwane (njengokuba, ngokwenene, ukugembula, ukutya i-intanethi, ukutya ukutya, njl.) Kodwa thina, ngenxa yombono woluntu, zibheke njengemikhwa emibi ngakumbi.
Enyanisweni, uluhlu lwemikhwa emibi alukwazi ukwenza - luya kuhlala luphela. Omnye umntu wayesebenzisa ipeni ezandleni zakhe, umntu uthabatha ekhaleni, kwaye umntu utyumla umlomo wakhe kude kube yigazi. Eyona nto iqhelekileyo (ngaphandle kwentsholongwane, njengoko ikhankanywe ngasentla) imikhwa emibi - olu lulwimi olucolileyo, ukhetha isikhumba, i-shopologolizm, ukuthabatha ekhaleni, ukutshiza, ukucofa amanxeba.
Umlutha
Izilingo zisondele kuthi, kodwa asiyazi kakuhle ngabo - ezi ziqhotyoshelweyo zihlala zifihliwe ngokucokisekileyo. Lo mkhwa uveliswa ngokungaqondakali kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Ekuqaleni, iziyobisi zikhethwa njengendlela yokuphucula ubunzima (ubuncwane, ukwesaba, uxinzelelo, intlungu), kodwa kungekudala ziba yimfuneko engenakuphikiswa.
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, iikhemikhali zihluma kuzo zonke iisensi zeengqondo, ezibangela ukukhula kokunganakwa, ukuphazamiseka kokunakekelwa kwengqwalasela kunye nokuxhamla kwengqondo. Umlutha ubulala umntu kuqala njengomntu, kwaye ngokoqobo. Umntu uphendukela kwisidalwa esibonakalayo esifubeni esingenasidlo kwaye sibonakala sibuhlungu, siye salahlekelwa yimpawu zesini esithile.
Utywala
Utywala obunxilisayo buzisa ingqondo ngokulibala ngokupheleleyo. Umntu uyayeka ukucinga ngokucacileyo, umsebenzi wengqondo yakhe utshintsha isiqalo: okokuqala, njengokuthi, "umphefumlo uvula," ke iingcinga ezingenangqondo kunye neminqweno enesibindi ziza, kwaye xa usebenzisa i-dose efanelekileyo, ubuchopho buya kuguquka. Ngokumangalisayo kukuba, ngenxa yesi sizathu sokuba abantu basebenzise ukusetyenziswa kotywala rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho esinye isizathu: umnqweno wokuba nexesha elihle, ujabule, abanye batywala "bangabi nantoni na yokuyenza" okanye bexinzeleleke, kwaye abatsha banesizathu esona sizathu sokusela - qhubeka kunye nabahlobo "abaphambili". Emva koko yonke into iyenzeka njengokuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi: kukho umlutha oqhubekayo, kwaye ukuxhomekeke kwintsholongwane.
Ukubhema ugwayi
Akunjalo wonke umntu obhekene nokutshaya ukutshaya uyayithanda le nkqubo. I-Paradox: kukho abantu abayithandanga yintambo yecuba, kodwa abanako ukwenza ngaphandle kwayo. Le ngxaki yengqondo (engeyiyo emzimbeni - iboniswe) kuxhomekeke ekubhemeni.
Kukho izizathu ezine eziphambili ezinokuyichukumisa umntu ukuba anqande umbhebhe: uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, ukunyaniseka kwintlalo "yesithethe," ukutshaya umntu "kwenkampani", ekubeni "akukho nto yokwenza" okanye ukufumana ukuzithemba. Lo mkhwa unokwenza inkqubela kubantu abahlukeneyo kwiirhafu ezahlukeneyo. Ngexesha elidlulileyo, ligeleza kwisifo sobunzima obuhlukahlukileyo, kwaye iqondo lixhomekeke ngqo kwinani lalawa mafutha ngosuku.
Surfing Internet
Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi banokubhiyozela iimpawu ezibizwa ngokuthi "intanethi-mania" - umkhuba omubi okanye ukugula okuye kwavela ngenxa yokusasazeka kwe-Intanethi. Kunzima ukuhlula ngokucacileyo phakathi kokuzonwabisa kunye nokunxibelelana okulula kumnatha kunye nokungahambi kakuhle, inomdla ongalawulwayo kwi-Intanethi kwaye nje kwikhompyutha.
Ngokwezibalo, abantu abangama-90% "abaxhomekeke kwi-Intanethi" ixesha elide ngababathathi-nxaxheba beeforamu ezahlukeneyo kunye neendawo ezininzi zokuthandana. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, lo mkhuba onobungozi ungabhubhisa, xa umntu ngenxa ye-Intanethi ebashiya ubomi bakhe boqobo kwaye ngokukhawuleza akapheli ukuba kukho, ukuhlala emhlabeni. Umkhuba omubi uba sisifo xa umntu engakwazi ukulala ebusuku kwaye asebenze ngokuqhelekileyo, uchitha yonke imali kwi-Intanethi, ngelixa ekhumbula ngokupheleleyo intsapho kunye nabathandekayo.
UkuGembula
Yibandakanywa ngokusemthethweni kwiSigaba soHlabathi samaSifo kwaye inegama lesibini - "ludomania". Nabani na onokuyichaphazela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba imeko yentlalo kunye nendawo kwindawo. Izixhobo zokugembula zanamhlanje zenzelwe abantu abanomvuzo ophantsi okanye ophakathi. AmaLudom ahlukaniswe zibe zimbini iindidi: ababaleki (abantu abayeke ukunyaniseka kunye nokukhangela injabulo) kunye nabantu abancakazo abakwazi ukuzilawula, kodwa bakholelwa ukuba umntu olahlekileyo kufuneka ukuba aphinde aphinde aphinde abuyele.