Enyanisweni, yonke le mibuzo sele ifundiswa ngabaphathi beengqondo behlabathi. Kukho nkcazo yeentetho ezithandwa yintombazana, kwaye ngokufanayo. Ewe, azinakusetyenziswa ngokupheleleyo kumntu wonke, kodwa ayenayo impawu eziqhelekileyo kubahlali beliphi na ilizwe.
Iyokuqala, iincwadana ezinobubele zentsikelelo, nto leyo intombazana eyayiyoyibona, ilala ngombono wendoda. Amehlo ahlala ebonakalisa urhulumente kunye neminqweno yomntu - kufuneka nje ukwazi ukuwafunda njengencwadi evulekileyo.
Masithi ungena eteksi yendlela ehleliweyo. Emva koko uyayeka ukumisa. Wena ungomnye wale mantombazana onokuthanda ngokukhawuleza umfana, kodwa awukwazi ukuba unomdla kule ncinane. Ukuba ufuna ukuqinisekisa le nto - umlindele. Ukuba uyathanda intombazana, uya kuzama ukukujonga rhoqo. Ekuqaleni imibala iya kuba neentloni kwaye ingacacanga, kuba iyinto engcolileyo - ukuba ijonge intombazana, ingazi. Kodwa, ukuba uvelwano lukhulu, iimbono ziya kuba zinzima ngakumbi kwaye zizinze. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uzakuzama ukukubandakanya kwiintetho zengxoxo kunye namehlo akhe, zama ukuqonda ngokuphendula kwakho - unesihe kuwe? Ngoko ke, ukuba uqaphela ukuba umfana uhlala ekhangela umdla-unokwenza isinyathelo sokumhlangabeza ngokukhuselekileyo.
Ukongeza kwiimbono, kukho nezinye iingcebiso onokuzijonga ukuba intombazana ithanda umfana. Ngokomzekelo, akaqondi ngokuzama ukuba sisondele kunokwenzeka kwinto ayithandayo. Okokuthi, ukuba sihlalutya le meko ngeteksi eqhubekayo yokuhamba, umfana uya kuzama ukusondela ngokusondeleyo kuwe. Ukuba kukho indawo yamahhala ecaleni kwakho, unokuhlala kunye naye, nangona ukuba unamahloni, kungcono ukhethe indawo ephikisanayo: ngoko ke indawo yokubheka ibhetele, kwaye amathuba okuhlala angabonakali.
Kwakhona, amadoda afana noqhagamshelwano, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba uyazama ukukuchaphazela. Ngokomzekelo, thatha isikhophelo eduze kwesandla sakho, kwaye, njengokuba kunjalo, uthinte ngephutha iminwe yakho. Ngendlela, ukuba uyabakhupha ngokukhawuleza ekuthinteni - uyazinikela kunye novelwano lwakho nentloko.
Unokuqonda ukuba umntu uzwelana nawe, ngokwempawu zakhe. Abafana, njengamantombazana, nangona kunjalo, xa bebona abo bayithandayo, qalisa ukuphinda uhlolisise: yonke into ifanelekile emfanekisweni wabo? Indoda inokukrazula i-trouser yakhe, yenze ijaji yakhe, yigubungele intloko, izame ukubeka iinwele ezingalawulekiyo. Ukuba ubheka phantsi aze abone ukuba izicathulo zakhe zenziwe ngodaka kwaye zigqutywe ngothuli, uya kuzama ukuba ungaboni iinyawo zakhe nezicathulo.
Kakade ke, kungekho rhoqo kwiimeko ezinjalo unokuva intetho yendoda, kodwa ukuba kwenzeka ukuba uvale ukuba, ngomzekelo, uthetha kwifowuni, nokuba ilizwi lakhe lingabonisa ukuba umntu ovela kuye uthanda. Unokukuqonda ngoku lula oku, ukuba ngethuba le ngxoxo usalinde ngamehlo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, awuzange ulive ilizwi lale mntu ebomini bobomi, kodwa awuyi kukhangela ingxoxo kwiitoni eziphezulu. Kodwa kuya kuba njalo, ngokukodwa xa uthetha intetho kumntu. Emva koko ilizwi lakhe lijika libe yindoda ekhwazayo, eyinqabileyo, ephakamileyo, enamandla. Yazi: ngoko, vumela kwaye ungazi, le ndoda izama ukubeka ingqalelo kumntu wayo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, nakule mibhalo yokukhawuleza, iinjongo ezithandekayo ziza kuhamba, ngokukodwa kulawo maxesha xa ekhangele kuwe.
Ukuba loo mntu unesibindi, unokukwazi nokuba nomoya wencoko yefowuni akuvumele ukuba wazi ukuba unomdla. Umzekelo, ukuba uthetha kumhlobo, ngoko unokuthi: "Ewe, ngoku ndihamba nentombazana enjalo! Andizange ndimbone amehlo enhle kangaka, uyathandeka! ". Ngexesha elifanayo, i-daredevil iya kukuqondisa ngokujonga ngokuthe tye. Mhlawumbi, oku kuziphatha kuya kukwenza ube buhlungu ngethuba elithile, kodwa ke uya kuziva ukwaneliseka ngesiqhamo esithile. Kwaye encokola nonina, umntu onjalo unokuya kwisinyathelo esibindileyo, athi: "Mama, namhlanje ndiza ekhaya kunye nomfazi wam ozayo." Emva koko, uya kuqalisa ngokukhawuleza kunye nawe.
Nangona kunjalo kunzima ukubizwa ngeemeko ezinjalo. Oku kukuthi, unokuthi, uphakamise kwisenzo. Akunjalo bonke abantombazana bathanda oku ngokuthe tye. Kuya kuba yinto enothando xa umfana ekwazi wena ngomnxeba, umzekelo. Apha uhlala, uhlambulule kwiingcamango zakho, uze uguqe kwifowuni ngomyalezo wesicatshulwa: "Ulungile!". Intliziyo iya kubetha ngokukhawuleza, kwaye izihlathi ziya kugutyungwa ngokugqithisileyo. Kwaye emva kwakho konke, ukususela ngoku awukwazi ukuphepha ukudibanisa nalo mfana - emva koko, ubuncinane kufuneka ubuyisele ifowuni kuye - kwaye le nyathelo elincinane kumnye.
Enye into enothando oyithandayo loo mfana ngumfanekiso weglasi ... Nantsi yena ophefumulayo ophefumle ingqayi yeglasi waza wakhupha inombolo yakhe yefowuni ngesicelo esifutshane: "Shayela!" ... kwaye ungathini ukuba ungadlulanga kule fowuni, ukuba ungaphuthelwa njani umntu o mnandi?
Ewe, ungaziqhelana nje kwimoto - kodwa kwezinye iimeko "ukudweba" kufanelekile kwaye ukhawuleze uqhekeke kwiphepha lencwadi okanye enye into. Nabani na onomdla ekuqhelaneni naye, uya kuhlala efumana indlela ekhethekileyo yokutsala ingqalelo kuye kwaye uzuze uvelwano ngoloo awayithandayo. Kwaye uThixo usinike ubuncinane kanye kanye ebomini bakho ukudibana nomntu ongathandabuzekiyo onothando!