Ukukhulisa umntwana yinto ephosakeleyo, ukuba, ngokwenene, unobungqina obukhulu kwaye uxanduva le nkalo efanayo. Unxibelelwano ludlala indima ebalulekileyo ekwakheni nasekuphuhliseni ubuntu. Abazali basoloko benomdla kwisangqa soqhagamshelwano apho umntwana wabo ehlala khona. Siza kuqonda indlela ukudibanisa kufuneka kube yintoni ukukhula okuhambelana nomntwana.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ndiva uluvo olunjalo lomzali ukuba umntwana kufuneka ahambe kwi-kindergarten ukuze ahlalisane ngokuchanekileyo kwaye aqonde kakuhle kwinqanaba leontanga. Nangona, ngaphaya kwesinye saqaphela ukuba abantu abangazange batyelele i-kindergartens ebuntwaneni babo bakhula kwaye bafikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ebomini babo njengoontanga likaSadikov. Inokwenzeka ukuba, le meko iyahluke ... Mhlawumbi le yimiba yefa, iimpawu abazali abazinike zona kunye nokunye okuninzi. Okokuthi, kungekuphela nje i-kindergarten inika impembelelo yoqhagamshelwano kungekhona ukuphuhliswa komntu, kodwa ezinye izinto ezininzi. Makhe sithethe ngazo zonke iinkcukacha ngokubanzi.
Mama, ncokola nam
Umntu wokuqala ovela kuyo umthombo othe ngqo wokunxibelelana nomntu unina. Ukuba umama ulinda kwaye uyamthanda umntwana ongakazalwa, ngoko uqala uqhagamshelwano nobomi bomntwana. Kuboniswa ukuba umntwana ozayo uvakalelwa ngumbono womama wangaphakathi, nomthwalo weemantic afuna ukumdlulisela ngcokola yakhe yokomoya.
Isigaba esilandelayo soqhagamshelwano emva kokuzalwa. Umama apha kwakhona ngumthombo othe ngqo wokunxibelelana. Musa ukunyamekela ukunxibelelana kunye ne-crumb ukusuka kumzuzu yokuqala emva kokuzalwa. Ndikholelwe, intsana iyayidinga. Uyakuthanda kwaye uvakalelwa.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukuqala ngokukhulelwa nokuqhubeka emva kokuzalwa komntwana, unina wenza njengomthombo oyintloko woqhagamshelwano, kwaye ngoko-ulwazi lwehlabathi, ubomi, ulwazi. Akumangalisi ukuba bathetha ukuba ootitshala abangcono kakhulu kubazali bakhe ngabazali bakhe.
Upapa unendima ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni umntwana kunye nokubunjwa kobuntu bakhe. Ngoko ke, kunye nomama kubaluleke kakhulu ukunxibelelana nomntwana, ukuqala ngexesha lokuqala lokuphila kwakhe.
Ndiyibona ihlabathi, kwaye kukho abantu kulo
Ukukhula, inkwenkwe ibona kwaye iyaqonda ukuba kusekho oomama kunye nootata, oogogo kunye noomkhulu, ugqirha kwengubo emhlophe, amakhwenkwe namantombazana. Ufumana imvakalelo kubo, ufunda ukuqonda "wakhe" kwaye ahlukanise "abantu abangaziwayo bebodwa", kwaye kamva ufunda ukuthetha kunye nokufumana ulwazi kubantu abatshathisa nabo.
Olu hlobo olutsha, kwaye emva koko lugqityi, isangqa soqhagamshelwano luyimfuneko kakhulu kumntwana, kwaye ngokubhekiselele, unamandla kwaye unamandla. Emva koko, ubomi bethu bonke buqhagamshelana ngqo nabanye abantu. Nasiphi na apho, emsebenzini, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, kwintengiso okanye kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kuyo yonke indawo sifumana abantu abanxibelelana nabo esiye safundiswa ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ukulula umntwana uya kulawula ukuthetha ukususela ebuntwaneni buntwaneni, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuye ukwenza abantu abaqhelana nabo kunye nokuseka oonxibelelwano nabantu abatsha kwikamva. Esi "sipho" singenasiphelo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sithengwa ngemfundo, ukuzimela kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi.
Ngaba ufuna i-nursergart, ngaba ufuna isikolo?
Ndibuza lo mbuzo kumfundisi onobubele ngolwazi oluninzi, ndafumana impendulo: "Ndiyakholelwa ukuba kwi-kindergarten umntwana kufuneka aqhutywe, njengoko eyala. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unako ukufumana iziphumo ezibini: umntwana omnye uququzelele, ufumana uxhulumano nophuhliso, enye "ikhefu" ayiyonto engcono. "Bazali, ukuba nicinga ukuba i-kindergarten" iya kuphula "umntu kumntwana wakho, Ngaba ufuna i-kindergarten? Enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuthetha amaziko abantwana asekuhlaleni angaba ngamaziko okuphuhliswa anamhlanje. Banikeza umnxibelelwano kunye nophuhliso kwifomu esebenzayo engasebenzi.
Ngokuphathelele isikolo, ngoko ke, unokuqesha umfundisi wangasese, unike umntwana ngotitshala obalaseleyo ekhaya, kodwa ngaba uyayidinga? Ngempumelelo efanayo unokufumana isikolo esingcono. Isikolo asisona nje umthombo wolwazi, kodwa sinomthombo wokunxibelelana, nangona kunjalo akusoloko kulungile, kodwa kwindawo apho usadinga ukufumana amava okuphila. Ubuncinane, ininzi lethu lisifunda esikolweni kwaye sakhula sihlakaniphile, sintlalontle, sabantu abaneleyo.
Ukuze ube ngabahlobo, kwaye ke musa ukwenza abahlobo
Abazali bazama ukulawula isangqa soqhagamshelwano lomntwana wabo, beqinisekile ukuba banelungelo lokukhetha abahlobo bakhe kuphela. Ukuba uzama ukuphazamisa umntwana wakho ekukhetheni abahlobo, ngoko kufuneka ube ngu-100% oqinisekileyo ukuba ulungile ngokwenene. Ukulawula ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuvalwa kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwinqanaba lakho kunokunyusa ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho nomntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuba ngumtyholi, umzali oqinileyo, kodwa kungekhona umhlobo womntwana. Ngokwemvelo, akukho mbuzo wokuthembela kuloo meko.
Umntwana wakho kufuneka abe nabahlobo, kuba awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho anqamle ukuthetha. Ukungabikho kokuthintana noontanga kubangela iingxaki, ukuxinezeleka, ukuxhomekeka, ngokukodwa ngexesha lexesha elivisayo lobomi.
Kwakhona, akudingeki ukuba ugwebe abahlobo bomntwanakho malunga nobutyebi bentsapho yakhe, kuba iimpawu ezingcono zezobuntu azithe zenziwa ngumgangatho wemfundo kunye nemeko yezemali. Ngokukodwa ebuntwaneni, ukhetho lwabahlobo kwiindlela ezi ngasentla alwamkelekanga. Ngaphandle koko, kumntwana ukususela ebuntwaneni buntwaneni kuphakanyiswa ubulumko kunye nomdla.
Ihlabathi lisondele - ukuthetha kunye nendalo
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ithande ihlabathi elikujikelezile. Abantwana ngabaphambili abaphandi, ngokungakaze babone ingca, bajikeleza ibhabhathane, i-dandelion okanye ingqungquthela. Tshela umntwana wakho konke owaziyo wena. Mnike umhlaba wemibala yemvelo, iziqholo kunye nezandi. Ngaloo ndlela, uzihlawula wena kunye nomntwana onemivakalelo emihle, uvuyo kunye nothando.
Iimpembelelo zonxibelelwano malunga nokuphuhliswa kobuntu kunzima ukugqithisa. Njengoko kunokubonwa kulo mbandela, ukunxibelelana akuqhagamshelwanga kuphela nabanye. Okokuqala, umntwana ufunda ngawe ihlabathi elikujikelezile kwaye oko uya kumnika uya kuhlwayela ingqolowa yekamva lakhe elizayo. Xoxa kunye nabantwana bakho kwaye uhlwayelwe kuphela ukutya okusanhlamvu, kuba kungekudala uzakufumana izibonelelo ...