Imidlalo yeminwe yokuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi

Thina, njengabazali abazi, yenza konke kunye nento yonke ukwenza umntwana wethu akhulume evuyayo, enempilo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, aphile. Ukususela ebuntwaneni buntwaneni sithenga iintlobo zemidlalo yamathoyizi, sifuna "ukumba" kwincwadi efunwa ngabazali kwaye siphuhlise, siphucule kwaye saphinda sihlakulele umntwana wabo. Bazali! Yeka! Khetha amanani amanqaku aphambili ekukhuliseni nasekuphuhlisweni. Ungazami ukukhulisa umntwana, njengokuba ngoku ifestile ukuthetha, ukukhulisa umntwana onempilo, onenjongo kwaye onoyolo. Kodwa kumdlalo ufumana ukuqonda kunye nophuhliso, kodwa akukho nto enye.

Ngoko, ungesabi ukuphinda, ukhethe iindlela eziphambili zemfundo nophuhliso lwakho lwentsana. Umzuzu obalulekileyo wokuphuculwa kwengqondo kukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezincinci zezithuthi zomntwana, ukuqala ngokuzalwa. Ekuqaleni, oku kuyisisindo esisisiseko sezandla, ngoko ke imidlalo yomntwana onamathoyizi, imidlalo kunye nabantu abadala kunye nophuhliso oluzimeleyo ngokudlala, imodeli, ukudweba kunye nezifundo ezichanekileyo (ukulungiswa, ukubhala, ukudweba, ukulandelelanisa, njl.). Inendima ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni umdlalo womntwana wokudlala iminwe ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Iimidlalo ezinjalo zenza inxaxheba ekuphuhliseni intetho yomntwana, kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokudala. Umgaqo womdlalo weminwe ungolu hlobo lulandelayo: ngethuba lomdlalo, ukupheliswa kwemizwa yeminwe yomntwana kuphuhliswa, kwaye ukuphela kwezibilini zezandla kuphazamise ngqo amaziko e-cerebral yengane, okubangela ukuphuhliswa kwengane kuphuculwe ngokuphawulekayo. Kwaye into ebalulekileyo kule nkqubo kukuba umntwana unomdla, uyonwabile kwaye uncedo.

Ziyintoni imidlalo yeminwe? Ngokomntu, ndiza kubahlula ngamaqela amabini aphezulu:

Ewe, ukuba uyichaza yonke imfundiso kunye nemidlalo yeminwe, uya kufumana incwadi enomxholo omkhulu, ndiya kuzama ukunika ulwazi olusisiseko kunye noluncedo ukuqala "ukwenza abazali".

Iimidlalo "zeminwe" ezinqamlekileyo - ukuxilisa

"I-Prelude" kwimidlalo ye-palchikovymi iya kuba ngumzimba wokuzihlaziya oqhelekileyo wezandla, okucetyiswayo kumntwana, ukuqala ukususela ekuzalweni. Inkqubo yokubilisa i-massage ingaboniswa kuphela ngumaster owaziwayo, kodwa kunjalo, iindlela eziphambili kunye nezona zihamba phambili zokwenza i-massage enokuziqonda.

Ukusilalisa kufutshane. Yenzelwa kuphela imizuzu emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu ngamaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Njengolawulo, luquka ezi zilandelayo zigaba ezilandelelanayo:

Ladushki, ladushki. Bahlala phi? Kuyininina

Mhlawumbi, ngamnye wethu ukhumbuza ebuntwaneni bakhe ezinye iimvumi ezithandekayo-i-poteshki, njengokuba unina okanye ugogo ugxotha umunwe entendeni yesandla sakho, esithi: "Iqhwitha elinamashumi amane ..." Yiyo nje ukusikwa kweentende kunye neminwe kucetyiswa ukuqhuba, ukuxelela iintlobo zeengqungquthela ze-nursery.

Ndiza kunika imizekelo embalwa yeendinyana. Ngaphandle koko, isikhokelo sakho kunye nomncedisi-intanethi okanye iincwadi-izibonelelo zabazali (zininzi ezinjalo).

Ukuxutywa kweminwe

Lo mnyoko ngumkhulu,

Lo mnyoko ugogo,

Lo mnweba nguyise,

Lo mnyoko ngumama,

Lo mnwe kum!

Yonke intsapho yam!

Okanye:

Enye, ezimbini, ezintathu, ezine, ezinhlanu,

Makhe sihambe,

Lomunwe uyakha indlu,

Lomunwe uhlamba mgangatho,

Le nto isela isobho,

Umnwe wenyuka kwi-oki,

Umnwe ukutya uhleli phantsi,

Wadla yonke into kuwo wonke umntu.

Ukongeza kwindlela yokucoca umzimba, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zisetyenzisiweyo, kuboniswe kwiimvumi. Ngokomzekelo,

Ladushki, ladushki,

Baphi? - Ugogo.

Yintoni abayidlayo? -Cash.

Ba yisela ntoni? -Nceda.

Katashka u mnandi,

Umdaka obomvu,

Unogogo onomusa-intliziyo!

Batywala,

Sahamba ekhaya,

Intloko yahlala phantsi.

Ngokomgaqo, unokufumana ukuhlukahluka kweendinyana, ngexesha ngalinye uxelela inkunzi "ibali" elitsha. Ingane ayinakukhathazeka ngesinye isigqi kwaye ngelo xesha iya kuba mnandi ukwenza umsebenzi omtsha.

Yenza "inja"!

Ngokomntu, ndiyakhumbula ukususela kwam ebuntwaneni ukuba umntakwethu omdala ubonisa njani inja ngoncedo lwezandla, kwakumnandi kakhulu ukugcina isithunzi salo nja eludongeni. Lo wawumdlalo nje ngomnwe.

Iimidlalo ezinjalo zeminwe zingaba ibali elibandakanya izinto okanye izinto eziphilayo. Xa ubonisa umntwana kumntu okanye into ethile, qi niqiniseke ukuba uchazela umntwana wakho konke ukuhamba kwakho, fonela iminwe yakho. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana efunda ukwenza ukuzivocavoca kwakhe, unokudlala umdlalo opheleleyo, usasaze iindima phakathi komntwana kunye nawe. Umzekelo, unokudlala intlanganiso yebhanki kunye ne-hedgehog ehlathini, ukuzingela ingcuka ye-bunny, njl njl.

Ndiza kunika imizekelo yendlela yokwenza imifanekiso yezilwanyana ezithile ngoncedo lweminwe.

Inketho elula kakhulu yindoda encinane . Isalathisi somunwe nomlenze ophakathi ujikeleza itafile - nantsi indoda encinane kuwe.

Ukuba udibanisa phakathi kunye neminwe ngeminwe enkulu, kunye nomnwe womnwe kunye nomunwe ophakanyiswe phezulu, ufumana ikati .

Ukuze ufumane inja , kufuneka udibanise inkcazo, phakathi kunye neminwe, uwasuse umunwe, uphakamise isithupha sakho.

Kulula kakhulu ukufumana i-bunny. Ukwenza oku, lungisa nje iqhosha lakho kunye neminwe ephakathi, uze ucindezele enye iminwe emithathu.

Ufuna ukuthola i- hedgehog - izandla zifake kwi-lock, iminwe yesinye yezandla kunye nesithupha sesinye isandla.

Ukufumana ibhabhathaneli , kufuneka uwelele iingalo zakho kwiimbumba, uze ucinezele iintendelezo emva komnye. Iintendelezo kunye neminwe eqondileyo yenza ukunyakaza okulula kumagqabi - ibhathaneli igubha.

Ukwazi indlela iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezibonakaliswa ngayo ngoncedo lwezandla kunye nezandla, ungadlala yonke indawo yemidlalo yezithunzi. Ngaba akumnandi yaye kuncedo?

Emva kokuba uqhube kunye nomntwana wakho kwihlabathi elonwabileyo lemidlalo yeminwe ekuphuhliseni izakhono zezithuthi ezilungileyo, uya kuba nomsebenzi onomdla, onomdla kunye onomdla onomdla ongeke ube negalelo. Kodwa ukuqonda le nqubo kuya kuthatha ixesha elide, kodwa umphumo awuyi kuthatha ixesha elide.