Nabani na umntu unomdla wokwesaba, ukwesaba into ethile. Ngokukodwa kumntwana, kuba ujikelezwe lizwe elingalindelekanga nelikhulu. Ukuze angenakuthola ebomini bakhe bomntu omdala, umsebenzi wabazali, utitshala kunye nengcali yeengqondo kukunceda umntwana ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nengxaki yokwesaba ngexesha (enye yeemvakalelo eziyingozi kakhulu). Ukulwa noloyiko kunokuhlala ixesha elide. Ukuhlangabezana nale nto, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusebenzisana nezoyika zabantwana.
Imisebenzi yokusebenza kunye nokwesaba kwabantwana
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukunceda umntwana ukuba anqobe ukwesaba kwakhe, amfundise iindlela zokuzilawula kunye nokuphumla, ususe imifanekiso enobungozi kwaye uguqulwe kwisigaba esingenakuvuyela nokukhuseleka, ufundise abantwana ukuba balandele kakuhle iimvakalelo zabo, iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zabanye, benze umntwana abe nethemba yabo mikhosi.
Izindlela zokusebenza kunye nokwesaba kwabantwana
- Unokusebenzisa unyango lwe-fairytale. Ngomsebenzi sithatha nayiphi na into ebhaliweyo (ubuciko, i-didactic, yokwelapha, ukucamngca okanye ukulungiswa komthetho) kunye nebhokisi elithile le-sandbox yengqondo. Iqhawe eliphambili leengxelo lingaba noloyiko (umzekelo, uNkosana Uloyiko okanye Ubuthongo obubi, njl.), Kwaye unokwenza ukwesaba isibini okanye isicatshulwa esichukumisayo, njl. Ngaloo ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba iingcamango zonyango zifakwe kwi-story story. Xa usebenza kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeendlovukazi, akufanele uvimbele izityhilelo zakho zokudala. Ibali kufuneka lwakhiwe ukuze ukuphuhliswa kweemeko apho ungabonisana nomntwana. Emva koko, ungamema umntwana ukuba abhale iimpawu zefayile. Bhala ibhali yamaphepha ephepheni, kuya kunceda xa kukho ukubonakalisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukwesaba kumntwana.
- Ukloterapiya - enye indlela yokulwa neengxaki zeentsana. Kwi-psychology yokudala, usebenza ne doll, unokuhlukanisa umntwana kunye noyiko: umzekelo, akukho umntwana oyikayo, kodwa ibhere eliyintandokazi okanye inja. Kule meko, inkwenkwe iphendulela ukuba ibe nesibindi, umkhuseli okhuseleyo weentonti zakhe.
- Ukudweba kunokunceda ukunqoba ukwesaba. Akunandaba, nokuba umntwana wakho akanalo talente yobugcisa. Uya kucela ukuba udwebe oko kukuphazamisayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umele umbuze ngale nto ngendlela ecacileyo, epholileyo, nje ucele, ungayilanga. Ndicinga ukuba phantse nawuphi na umzali uya kukwazi ukujamelana nomsebenzi onjalo.
- Ukongeza kwidrafti, unokwenza umzekelo womntwana weplastiki. Izenzo zabazali kule ngxaki zifana nalabo abakwidrafti.
- Ngendlela ephumelelayo, indlela yokunqoba ukwesaba komntwana, kukho incoko eqhelekileyo kunye nentsana enesihloko esisikhathazayo. Kodwa musa ukuqala ukuthetha nabantwana abaselula kakhulu. Akuyi kusebenza ngempumelelo kwaye awuyi kufumana ulwazi olufunayo. Ukuze incoko ivelise, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana athembele ngokupheleleyo kumdala. Kule meko kuphela unokubizela umntwana wakho kwingxoxo engathethekiyo kwaye unqobe ukwesaba abantwana. Le ngxoxo kufuneka isondele kakhulu. Kucetyiswa ukuba uye phambili ucinga uluhlu lwemibuzo ngokusekelwe kwimoyiko yomntwana. Incoko kufuneka ibe nobungane, ngoko akuvumelekanga ukuba ufunde le mibuzo kwiphepha lephepha, ngaphandle koko ayiyi kuba yintetho. Namela ingqalelo ukuba yonke imibuzo yakho ibuzwa ngokulula, kufumaneka kwaye iyaqondakala kwinqanaba lomntwana wakho lophuhliso. Nangona kunjalo, umntu akakwazi ukugxila kwisinye sezizathu, ngenxa yokuba kunokufaka isandla ekuveleni koyiko olutsha.
Xa usebenza kunye nokwesaba kwabantwana, iimpawu zeminyaka zomntwana kufuneka ziqwalaselwe, kuba isifo seentsholongwane zobuntwaneni kwiintlobo zeminyaka ezahlukileyo zihluke ngokupheleleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, abantwana banokwesaba okokuba ingqondo kuphela yengqondo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kulungele ukubonisana nengcali.
Ngelishwa, ukwesaba kwabantwana kuvela kwiimeko ezininzi, kungekhona ngophoso lomntu, kodwa ngabazali ngokwabo (ukukhathazeka ngokomoya, iingxaki zeentsapho okanye ngokunyanisekileyo, ukunakekelwa ngokugqithiseleyo, ukunakekelwa ngokugqithiseleyo). Ngoko ke, ngumsebenzi ngamnye umzali ukuxwayisa nokukhusela abantwana besaba nje ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye oku kuyimfuneko ukwazi oko umntwana akwesaba kakhulu kwaye kutheni. Emva kwakho konke, ukudibanisa ngokomzwelo ngumthombo wengqondo yengqondo kunye neentlungu zomntwana.