IV trimester yokukhulelwa
Iinyanga zokuqala ezintathu zokuzalwa komntwana zibizwa ngokuba yi-trimester yesine yokukhulelwa. Isana esivela kwisibeleko esiqinileyo nesichukumisayo siwela kwihlabathi elikhulu. Kwaye ufuna ixesha lokuba afunde. Kukho inkolelo yokuba i-colic kwiintsana ibonakalisa ukulungelelaniswa kwengqondo kwiimeko ezintsha. Kuyatshitshisa into encinci ukuba ihlale yodwa kwaye ingabonakali ukushisa komthonyama! Akasazi indlela yokuveza iimvakalelo zakhe ngaphandle kokukhala ngokungahambiyo ... Ngoko ke, i-trimester yesine ithatha uxhumano oluqhubekayo lwanyana kunye nomzimba kamama. Kwaye ibinzana elithi: "Musa ukufundisa umntwana ezandleni" kulo mxholo uyandivakala. Unokuyithintela njani umntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe ubomi bakhe bonke? Wayesetyenziselwa amanyathelo omama, ukunyakaza kwakhe, ukuvumba kwakhe ... kunye nokugubungela okuqhelekileyo. Uterus ngumntwana wokuqala wokuzalwa. Kungenxa yoko akafuni ukulala ngaphandle kokuba umama esondele. Umfazi omncinci oncelisayo unokulala ngaphandle kokukhulula ingono emlonyeni wakhe. Ewe, umfana onokufakelwa kufuneka agubungele into encinci, ukuze azive ekhuselekile. Ukuphumelela, njengokuba ugqoke umntwana ezandleni zakhe, kuthetha ukungazithobeli iimpawu zakhe kunye nokunyanzelisa, kodwa ukwanelisa enye yezidingo ezisisiseko zomntwana omncinci kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala zobomi bakhe. Ukongezelela, ekunxibelelaneni komama nomntwana kufuneka kube nexesha xa bevalelwa efanayo. Emva koko isistim sokuzalwa sisomelezwa. Ngexesha lokuncelisa, umama kunye nosana banxulumene nomzwelo omnye. Oku akukwenzekayo ukuba umntwana usele umxube kwibhotile. Kwaye ke ukugula okubangela ukuba umama nomntwana babe kwindawo efanayo yokulala. ... Ngendlela, abantwana abaninzi ekunceliseni ibele banamaxesha apho balala kuphela ngexesha lokugubha. Uhlobo! Kodwa umbuzo wukuthi, ingaba i-crumb ayiyi kusetshenziselwa ukuhambisa isifo, ihlala. Ewe, lo mkhuba ubonisa ukuba abantwana ngokwabo bayayekela isithethe sabo esiyithandayo njengoko inkqubo yabo yokutya ikhula. Inkoliso kaninzi malunga nonyaka. Ewe, phambi kokuqala kwexesha elinjalo, ukugula kwesibongo kukunceda le nkqubo yokukhathazeka ikhule kwaye ikhule ibe namandla.
• Umzimba wethu uphila ngokwemiqathango yesigqi. Ngexesha eliqhelekileyo, intliziyo ishaya, utshintshe isigaba esinye sokulala. Yaye isifo sokunyusa esiza kumnceda umntwana alungise isigqi, avumelanise i-biorhythms yengqondo ngomsebenzi wezitho zangaphakathi. Umntwana okhuselekileyo unokuvuka emva kwemizuzu engama-20, kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba akazange afinyelele kwisigaba sobuthongo obukhulu. Isifo sokunyakaza sithintela imingxube yeemicrothini engqondweni, ukuncedisa ukuba i-crumb ilale ngokucacileyo.
• Ukulinganisa ukuthungula izitimela zendawo kunye nokuvelisa i-vestibular device. Kwinqanaba elithile, lize lilungiselele umntwana ukuba ahambe ngokuzimela.
• Kwizandla zomntu omdala, umntwana uziva ekhuselekile kwihlabathi elingenalo kuye. Kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlangabezana nesidingo sokukhusela, umntwana unzima.
Ugogo ...
Imfundiso yeSoviet ifundwa: kubalulekile ukunyusa abantwana kwishedyuli, ukuthatha ngezandla zabo ngokungaqhelekanga, ukuba bafundise ukuba balele ebuthongweni, ukuba bangadangali ... Injongo yale miyalelo yayikhululwa ngexesha lexesha. Ikhefu lokubeletha lahlala iinyanga ezi-4, kwaye ke umama wayefuneka ukuba asebenze ... Ngoko ke abantwana bafundiswa "ukuzimela." Ngethamsanqa, amaxesha ashintshile ... kodwa iziganeko zesidala esikhulileyo ziye zahlala. Musa ukuphikisana nogogo, qondani ukuba iingcamango ezisemgangathweni ngobomi zinzima ukutshintsha. Kulungile ukuba uchaze ukuba kutheni umntwana ebetha kwaye kutheni kubaluleke kangaka. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abanamakhondo abahlengikazi abacetyiswa ukuba baphume. Sisiphi isizathu salokhu? Oogqirha bajonga ukhuseleko lweintsana. Kukho iimeko xa abantwana bekhala ngenxa yeentlungu, kwaye bebethelwa kwaye bathuthumele ... Ngoko ke, bonke abazali kufuneka bazi ukuba phantsi kweyiphi imeko i-carapace ayikwazi ukugubha. Le akuyona indlela yokubeka umntwana ukuba alele, ngeendlela zonke. Kufuneka ukuba uqonde ukuba iintsana zizakhala "ngaphandle kweengozi". Yaye ukuba i-crumb ayiyi kuthula phantsi emva kwemizuzu embalwa emva kokuba umama embethe, ke akafuni ukulala okanye ukuguquka. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokumondla okanye utshintshe i-diaper yakhe ... Nawuphi na umama uyazi indlela yokufumana iimfuno zomntwana wakhe ngeemfuno ze-intuitively, uyazi ukuba ukususela ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umntwana unomntu onomnqweno kunye neempawu ezikhethekileyo. Kwaye ukumiselwa kolawulo lwakhe kuye, ukukhuliswa kwindlela "umntwana kufuneka akhululeke" ngandlela-thile ulwaphulo-mthetho kumntu. Ngoko wuthathe njengomgaqo: awudingi ukufaka injini, kodwa ukukhawuleza, oko kukuthi, ukumnceda ukuba ahlalise, kwaye angayithuli. Ngaphandle koko, ukugula kwesibhambathiso kuya kuzisa ingozi.
Kuphela ngoxolo!
Omncinci akafuneki ukuba agxininiswe, kodwa uzive nje ukuba unesisu somama. Kwaye iinyanga ezili-9, umama wayengashukunyanga ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba i-carapace yayenza ingqiqo yolwandle. Awukwazi ukugubungela umntwana ngokunyanisekileyo, ucinga ukuba ukulala uxhomekeke kumandla kunye nobukhulu. Ewe, umntwana usenokulala ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa eli phupha lifana nokulahleka kwengqondo. Musa ukuthwala umntwana esesitulo sabakhubazekile ezindleleni ezinobuncwane okanye kwiingcambu. Ukugula okunjalo akusisinceda i-vestibular apparatus ukuba iphuhlise, kodwa ilawule. Hlalani iillabies okanye iingoma zomculo, xa ucula umntwana. Ungathembeli kuphela ukugula kwesibhambiso njengommeli ocolileyo. Ukongezelela kwintlungu yokuchukumisa, ufuna ukuva ilizwi lakho lesisa kunye nesithandekayo. Ngoko unxibelelana naye, ncedise ukuba athuthukise intetho nokucinga. Ukongezelela, iindinyana zezilwanyana ezinomxholo ziqulethe umyalezo abafundi bafunda ngokungazi kakuhle: "Uyakuthanda kwaye ulungile, ubomi buhle ..." Yingakho esi siko ngaphambi kokuba silale sihlale singenakulungeleka umntwana.