Ngokuqinisekileyo uye wadibana nabommeli bakho abasetyhini abangenakubizwa ngokuba ngabasetyhini, igama lokuqala eliza engqondweni "ngaba". Ngobani aba ba bakazi kunye nokuba bangaba njani wabo?
Ngubani esibizwa ngokuthi "ootata"? Oomama kuphela banokukhalaza ngesanti eshushu, banda kakhulu ulwandle, bacasulwa ngabanye abantu babantu, kwaye bodwa bakhala nje, nangona kunjalo, kumyeni wabo, nakwabanye abantu abangazifumaniyo, banokudla kuphela isigxina seyure elwandle Ii-hamburgers ezi-3, nangona bona ngokwabo zizithengela ngokwabo isayizi ye-swimwear XXXL ...
Xa sibona abantu abanjalo, ngokukhawuleza thina ngokwethu sichaza ukuba akunakuze size sibe njengabo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi bathi ngexesha lethu abazange baceba ukwenza njalo ...
Ngako-ke, uneminyaka emingaphi i-auntswa ayithatha?
Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho nabantwana eklasini kunye ne-odnogruppnitsy, eneminyaka eyi-16 neye-19 ingabizwa ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuthi bakazi.
Emva koko, abantu abaqhelekileyo beselula ukuya kwiikontshi, ukudlala, iifilimu, ngemihla, kunye nalabo abasengqondweni yabo baya kuphela kwivenkile yeqela le-carbohydrates kunye namafutha baze babuyele kwi-vobschizhitie okanye ekhaya. Bahlala bekrakra abantu abahlala nabo ngenxa yokungcola nokungakwazi okanye ukungafuni ukulungiselela isityebi esinesityebi.
Laba bakazi bazange baqhezule iiklasi, kodwa ukulinganisa ngaphezulu kwabathathu abazange bamkele. Nangona kunjalo, iphupha labo elikhulu kunye nelona liphezulu kukuba "Ndifuna ukutshata" (Kakade, akukho mntu ukhathazekile ngokubiza loo nto intombazana intshatileyo, kwaye ngokwawo ayithathi nantoni). Ukuthetha kunye nabasetyhini banomdla, kuba bonke abakwaziyo ukuxelela indlela yokuhamba ngenzuzo kwivenkile, yintoni, phi na kwixabiso elithengiswayo, ngaphezu koko, bathanda kakhulu ukufundisa ubomi, kuba ootata bahlala beqinisekile ukuba bachanekile!
Kodwa ukuba uyayibheka ngeembonakalo ezahlukeneyo, umnina wakho akanako ukuveliswa, kuba iminyaka yobudala ayisoloko iguqulela kwelinye iqela, umzekelo, uJuliet Binoche, uSophia Loren, uMadonna ubheka ...
Iyintoni ubomi bookazikazi asekelwe?
Ndingathini ukuba ndingamancikizi? Kuyimnandi kwaye kulula ukuyichaphazela ubomi, uphupha, ungesabi entsha, ufezekise iminqweno yakho, ufezekise iinjongo.
Ukaninkosi entloko yam iyaqhubeka. Nantsi imigaqo ethile i-classic aunties ihlala ngayo:
- "Ukuba ungaba neentloni phambi kwabantu." Kakade, unina wakhe unecala ukuba ukholelwa ukuba uluvo lwakhe luchanekileyo kwihlabathi, kwaye uzama ukulibeka kulowo wonke umntu, kodwa kwindawo ethile emphefumlweni wakhe, uyacaphuka kakhulu, ukuba umntu uyamgweba, ibonisa iimpazamo zayo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Ngako oko, umntu onjalo ulungele ukwenza oko abafuniyo kwaye abayithandi, kodwa bayakwenza, kuba: "baya kuthini abantu?".
- "Umyalelo kufuneka ube kuyo yonke indawo - le nto ingundoqo." Kuyo yonke indawo kwaye kukho konke umyalelo kufuneka ulawulwe. Ingakumbi kubalulekile ukuthobela ingqalelo kuqoqosho. Emva koko, abaninzi abantu bacinga ukuba oku kulungile. Kufuneka ukuba uchithe lonke ihlobo e-dacha, okanye mhlawumbi i-Colorado beetle izotya. Ndiya kuhamba, kodwa abantu baya kwenza ntoni? "Ukuba sithe waya olwandle, ukunika ukhula kuya kuba" ingxaki "!
- Into ephambili kukuba njengabantu. " Akazi ba nomona kakhulu, kwaye ngaphandle kwe rassabororostvenniki it, abahlobo, abamelwane, iintshaba ... Yazi akukho phantse iinjongo kunye neminqweno, kuba iphila ubomi babanye abantu. Ngako oko, bacinga ukuba kuyimfuneko yokuphila, kuba abanye abantu, njengommelwane weZinka, ohlala ngaphaya kwendlela okanye ummelwane uKatka, ohlala ngaphakathi kocingo. Emva koko, ootata bayika kakhulu ukwenza into ngendlela yabo, bayesaba ukuphuma kwisihlwele. Ekuqaleni, baya esikolweni, emva kwesikolo esikolweni okanye kwiikholeji, emva kokutshata, bazalela umntwana ngomnyaka okanye ezimbini kwaye emva kwesibini. Kwaye, kunjalo, sebenze. Kodwa oku kuphela ukuba awukwazi ukutshata okanye umyeni onobunqabe uyala ukugcina. Yiyo yonke into u-anti ayifunayo kwiininazana, into eyiseleyo kuphela ukuhlala kumhlalaphantsi, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ujika kumakhulukazi. Oku kunenjongo yehlabathi, eqinisweni, u-anti angasebenzisa "into ephambili kukuba njengabantu", xa ekhetha iphepheni eludongeni okanye eyenza indoda yakhe ifake i-tile kwisilwanyana kunye nokunye.
Akazi bakho babukeka njani?
I-exteriors of akazikazi ihluke kakhulu, kodwa iyakwazi ukwahlula ibe ngama-subspecies amabini: iyanqoba kwaye icebile .
Umalume, "owonayo", e neneni, unokufumana inzuzo efanayo kunye nesityebi. Ubona nje isimo sengqondo esahlukileyo kwimali. Uthi: "Ifama kufuneka igcinwe, apho enye inokuyichitha kuma-rags kunye nezimonyo, kwaye andiyidingi yonke into, andineminyaka engama-20 ubudala, andiyi kukhwaza nabani na ...".
Ziziphi iindoda ezihlwempuzekileyo ezihambayo:
- Esikhundleni seengubo zoboya bembatha ibhatyi, kwaye ukususela ngo-Oktobha ukuya ku-Epreli!
- Bathanda iintsimbi zeentente-ezifutshane ezinokuthi zingagxininisa isibalo seentombazana ezincinci, kunye nabasetyhini abasemagunyeni, nangona kunjalo. Xa bebeka ijeyiti phantsi kwi-closet ukwenzela ukugcinwa kwehlobo, baphuma ama-breeches kunye neT-shirt yobukhulu bendlovu.
- bakhetha i-t-shirts, ngakumbi, bhetele.
- izicathulo, izicathulo, izicathulo kunye nezinye izicathulo zasehlotyeni ezithatha indawo.
Oku kuthetha ukuba unina wakhe uhamba ngento ayenayo, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, aphantsi. Isita kunye nokubonakala ngokubanzi kubo, abakucingi ngako. Ngaphezu koko, oomama bayaqiniseka ukuba abayidingi. Mhlawumbi, kwakunjalo ngokuthethekileyo, abafazi abanobukrakra abaqulunqa amagama athi "ilinen entle" kunye "non-marble".
Ngamafutshane, ungaba ngumakhulukazi ngenxa yokuba awunayo into ephathekayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba awukhathalele ngokwakho kunye nokubonakala kwakho.
Abo bakazikazi "abacebileyo" abanalo i-capital dollar kwiibhanki zaseSwitzerland, bafuna iingubo ze-muzhinorkovaya. Kwaye kwakhona ukusuka ngo-Oktobha ukuya ku-Ephreli baya kulo. "Ocebileyo "kazikazi bayaziqhenya ngokuba banemali, ngoko bazama ukuyibonisa ngokubonakala kwabo.
Kwi-wardrobe yabo ngokuqinisekileyo unokufumana:
- ukuba kungenjalo i-mink, ke ingubo yekarakul kwi-ankle. Ngaphezu koko, apho awukwazi ukubona kuphela iingubo zoboya, kodwa kunye nekhanda elifanayo, kodwa baqhubeka begibela kwiibhasi kunye nebhasiloli, kwaye bathatha indawo eninzi kwizothutho zabo.
- igolide - iindandatho, iintambo, iinqununu ezinkulu ... Ngaphezu koko, zonke iingubo zigugule ngisho nasemini, kwintengiso, nangona ngetrayile kunye ne-t-shirt.
- iingubo ezinemibala eyahlukileyo. I-Ony igqitywe kwimihla yeveki.
Ngamanye amazwi, ootata "abatyebi" bahlala begqoke njalo "ukuze wonke umntu abone ukuba bayayithengela yona". Akazi abazithengi izinto ezizithengayo, kufuneka zikhanye!
Isitayela kunye neengcamango aziqwalaselwanga ...
Ngako oko oomama bavame ukuthenga umtshakazi, kunye "neempahla zabathengi", wonke umntu uyathwala, kuba "abaninzi bayazi ukuba yintoni intlawulo yale nto, kwaye ngoko ke, baya kuqonda kwaye ndibone ukuba ndinike imali eninzi!"
Ukuze ungabi njalo, udinga ubuncinane ukuthenga izinto onokuzithenga kuyo yonke imodyuli yesithathu yemarike yembatho!
Ngaba oomama bathintana njani nomsebenzi?
Abaninzi bayaphutha xa becinga ukuba xa bengasebenzi, baya kuba ngukazikazi. Enyanisweni, ngokuqinisekileyo ama-50% ka-auntshini asebenzayo.
Akazi bavele babhekisela ngqo kumsebenzi, abanomdla kuyo. Ngaphezu koko, ababanomdla kwezinye iimeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini.
Akazi abakwazi ukwakha umsebenzi othakazelisayo, kuba abanaso ixesha lokutshitshiswa, ukuxabana kunye neengxabano. Bazama ukubetha ubuncinane kwisithuba esithile kwiziko elisebenza ngurhulumente. Awukwazi ukusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo aze afumane impumelelo yangempela!
Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze ungabi ngumama?
Ziziphi iintombi ezingasongelwa ukuba ngumama?
- Abafazi abazinyamekelayo, landela isitayela kunye nefashoni.
- Uvuyo kunye nethemba.
- Ngomdla. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathanda ntoni, intsapho, umdlalo okanye umsebenzi. Khumbula ukuba ngaphezulu unomdla ebomini, ngakumbi ude udele nomfanekiso wakho.
- Ukulungele ukuvuma iimpazamo zabo kwaye ufunde.
- Ukuthanda nothando. Emva koko, uthando lusoloko lusinika ithuba lokuziva, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuba ube ngumqini kwaye unzima.
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