Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uthando lokuqala luza. Kwenzeka into emphefumlweni oyingqayizivele, engenakuchazwa ngamagama. Intliziyo iyonwabile kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kukho into enomdla.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba kutheni amadoda efuna ukuba yintando yokuqala yintombazana? Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba bafuna ukuhlala ekhunjuleni intombazana ngonaphakade. Emva koko, uthando lokuqala aluze lulibale. Le yinto eqaqambileyo, evulekile kakhulu enika ithuba lokuqala lothando kunye namaqabunga emphefumlweni wethu iimbono ezintle kwixesha lokuphila.
Ngokuqhelekileyo uthando lokuqala luphela ekuhlukaneni. Eyona ndlela, intombazana kunye nentombazana bahlala behlobo. Kodwa sonke esesitheni sineemvakalelo ezingenakulibaleka zokuthandana kuqala, amava okuqala ngokwesini. Indoda yokuqala ebomini yowesifazane ngumntu obaluleke kakhulu ovula umnyango kwizinto ezingaziwa. Ngoncedo lendoda, intombazana iba ngumfazi, ifunda ukuva iimvakalelo ezintsha, iimvakalelo. Ngaphambi kwakhe, ngoku ivula enye ihlabathi ngemibala eqaqambileyo yomzimba, ihlabathi elingaziwayo, ilizwe lothando nothando, ilizwe leemvakalelo. Intombazana iyaba yinto eninzi. Ngomntu wokuqala ufunda ukuziva u-orgasm, uvakalelwa njengomfazi wangempela.
Emva koko kuya kuba namanye amadoda, kodwa umntu wokuqala uya kuhlala ngonaphakade kunye nomntu osondeleyo, owona mhle, umntu obiza kakhulu. Emva koko, wamtyhila kwindoda yonke into evuyisayo yobomi obutsha, yamfundisa ukuba ayithande, ukufumana ubumnandi beemvakalelo ezintle, kwaye nguye le ndoda eyamfundisa ukuba nandipha ngokwenene.
Amadoda afuna ukuba yintando yokuqala yintombazana, njengoko bonke bayayiqonda le nto. Bayazi ukuba kwimeko apho intombazana iya kumthanda umntu onjalo. Emva koko, waba ngumfundisi wakhe ebomini, wamfundisa ukuba ngumfazi wangempela.
Ngokuqhelekileyo uthando lokuqala luphela emtshatweni. Oku kuyindlela efanelekileyo. Apha, indoda kunye nomfazi abayithandani kuphela, kodwa bayathembana ngokupheleleyo, bachithe. Ngokubambisana, ezi zibini zizuze kakhulu emsebenzini, nasekhaya, nakubhedlele. Emva koko, bahlangene kunye banokukwazi ukunqoba iindawo eziphakamileyo ezingaqhelekanga, baqhubekele kwiimfihlelo zesini kunye nokuziphatha, izifiso. Kwizo ntsapho iintlobano zesini zithethwa kakhulu. Emva koko, ezi zibini zithembana ngokupheleleyo. Apha kukho ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo, uthando, inkxaso. Ukusuka komnye nomnye, izibini ezinjalo zithatha amandla amasha, iimvakalelo ezintsha kunye nemizwa. Bonke bakwazi ukwenza oku, phantse yonke into. Bonke baya kunqoba zonke izithintelo. Kwaye ahlangani nantoni na.
Uthando lokuqala lentombazana indoda ifuna ukuba kwaye ngenxa yokuba bafuna ukuba yedwa ebomini intombazana ethandekayo, bafuna ukuba ibe yedwa kubo. Kwintsapho enjalo kulo lonke ubomi kukho iimbambano ezimbalwa, ukuqonda ngokubanzi kunye nothando. Ukunyaniseka, ukuthembela, umxhelo nonwabo, ukuzithemba kumlingane, umnqweno wokunika konke umntu othandekayo-konke oku kufumaneka phakathi kwezibini ezidibeneyo uthando lokuqala lokuphila. Uthando lokuqala nokuphela. Abaninzi banokuthi izibini ezinjalo zilahlekile kakhulu. Emva koko, abazange bahlolisise, mhlawumbi nabanye babeya kuba bhetele. Kodwa ezo zibini azidingi oku. Baye banelisekile, banqwenela kangangokuthi banakho konke okufunayo ukuze ube nolonwabo. Emva kwezi zibini, iintsana ezonwabileyo zizalelwa, ezikhuliswe ngokuthanda ngokupheleleyo kunye nokufudumala kwintsapho. Bafumana zonke iimvakalelo eziyimfuneko ukuze banwabe ngokupheleleyo. Emva koko, abazali babo bathandana. Bonwabile. Ngoko, yonke intsapho iya kuhlala kwindawo yolonwabo novuyo.
Amadoda afuna ukuba yintando yokuqala yintombazana, njengoko ephupha ngokuvuyiswa kwaye bafuna ukuzithemba kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini. Xa abantu bathandana, bakulungele ukuhamba baze baqhube kunye. Apha kukho ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kunye nentembelo komnye nomnye. Apha ayithandi into ethile, kodwa akakhange abukele nantoni na. Intliziyo yezibini ezinjalo zihlala zifuna ukuthanda. Kwaye nangemva kweminyaka emininzi yokuhlala ndawonye, uthando aluyi kuba ngumkhwa, kodwa litshisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngomlilo wothando nomdla. Emva kwakho konke, uthando lokuqala luyona nto iyona nto iyona nto intle kwaye intle kakhulu.
Kuyatshisa kakhulu ukuziva kwaye ufumane uluntu. Emva kwakho konke, u lonwabo alukho kwabangane kunye nezihlobo. Lo ngumbuso apho intliziyo yakho ilangazelela umntu ongamaziyo okwamanje. Kodwa kwiibini zibini, ngubani owakhulisa intsapho yabo ngothando lokuqala, ayiyi kuba yedwa.
Izibini ezinjalo ziya kuhlala zikhusela, zilwela ulonwabo.
Amadoda afuna ukuba yintando yokuqala yintombazana, kuba abayi kuzinyamezela okwesibini. Ukuba umntu akayintombazana yokuqala, ngaba ibuhlungu kakhulu? Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Yintoni le? Ukuziqhenya, unxanelwe ubuncwane okanye enye into. Enyanisweni, konke oku: kokubili ukratshi nokunyanzela ububaluleka, kunye nombono omkhulu wobunini. Amadoda ngokwemvelo banobugovu kunye nabanikazi, bahlala befuna ukuba ngabokuqala kunye kuphela. Nendawo yonke nakuyo yonke into. Amadoda afuna intombazana ukuba ibe yedwa kubo.
Amadoda afuna ukuba yintando yokuqala yintombazana, kuba ayinanto. Enyanisweni, lo luhlobo oluhle, xa indoda kunye nomfazi behlala emva kokuthanda kuqala ngonaphakade.
Kulo mbini kuya kubakho ukudibana kunye nokuqonda, abantu abanjalo baya kuba nako ukuqonda nokuxolelana. Baya kuhlala bevisisana nomnye.
Thandanani, thandani. Oku kusebenza kwizo zibini ezidibeneyo kamva, kungekhona ngexesha lothando lokuqala. Emva koko, akubalulekanga ukuba ngowokuqala okanye okwesibini, into ephambili kukuthanda, ukukhusela, ukuhlala usondele, kwiimeko ezinzima rhoqo uncedana kwaye ungalokothi ukhawuleze okanye ulimaze othandekayo. Emva kwayo nayiphi na intsapho kunye nokuvuya kuya kulawula. Uvuyo lwentlanganiso yonke, ukuvakalelwa kwintliziyo kunye nomphefumlo. Emva koko, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuthandwa, ukuthembela kumlingane wakho kwaye uhlale uhlambulukile kwaye uthembekile kwintando yakho. Uthande kwaye uthande. Musa ukuzibandakanya nabathandekayo bakho. Vumela abantwana bakho babe nekratshi lokuba abazali babo banobomi abonwabileyo kwihlabathi, ukuba bahlala kwintsapho evuya. Nonke unokwenza konke.