Obulalayo "ewe" ngokuphendula kwisiphakamiso sokudala intsapho, kwaye ... Yintoni ongayenza ngokulandelayo? Indawo yokutyela, i-honeymoon, iindwendwe ... Intloko iyajikeleza kuphela ekuboniseni zonke izinto ezifunekayo ukuba zilungele umhla womtshato. Akuyena umtshato kuphela, ngumtshato wakho. Iholide yentsapho, apho wonke umntu uya kukhumbula ixesha elide.
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze yenza uluhlu lwezihlobo ezikhethiweyo kunye nabahlobo, kunye kunye nabo oye wanquma ukugubha ukuzalwa kwentsapho yakho. Uze ubanike iimemo. Ekubeni umtshato ungenye yeeholide eziphambili ebomini nomyeni, isibini esibini esitshatayo sichaza abantu ngabanye. Kubandakanywa nokuyila kweememo zomtshato. Emva koko, "ithikithi yomtshato" -khadi elivakatyelayo yentsapho ezayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isimemo somtshato asiyena nje umthombo wolwazi malunga nesiganeko seendwendwe. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata banokumamela iimemo abazenzayo, ngamanye amaxesha benza imisebenzi yangempela yobugcisa. Isimemo esinjalo sisipho esincinci seendwendwe. Namhlanje siza kuthetha malunga nokwenza iimemo zomtshato ngezandla zethu.
Umgwaqo awusisipho, sinomdla. La magama asebenza kwisimemo somtshato. Emva kwakho konke kwiholide enjalo simema esondeleyo kunye nothando. Isithethe esikhethekileyo sokumema iindwendwe emtshatweni kwakuseRashiya mandulo. Umtshato ngokwawo wawunemibono eyahlukeneyo kunye neenkolelo, ngoko ke ookhokho bethu baphatha ngokunyamekela kwimicimbi yesimemo. Ngelo xesha, iindwendwe zamenywa ngumhlobo kunye nomyeni. Kwindwendwe nganye yafika ngokwabo, yabiza umthendeleko womtshato. Kwiimemo zomlomo abathetha ngamagama alula, kodwa iziphakamiso ezikhethekileyo. Kwaye iimememo zamakhadi zabonakala emva koko, ngekhulu le-18, phakathi kweentsapho ezizimeleyo nezityebi.
Namhlanje, abaninzi abasanda kutshata banokwenza iimemo zomtshato ngezandla zabo. "Intombi yesandla" esinjalo ayinakuxelela nje ngehlabathi langaphakathi labasandul 'ukutshata, kodwa godu xelela malunga nomtshato oya kubakho. Zemveli, okanye ezizodwa? Kungekudala, kukho isiko lokubhiyozela umtshato kunaluphi na uhlobo. Ibhola le-XIX leminyaka okanye i-jeans party? Umtshato we-elven okanye i-retro party? Isimemo sifanele sihambelane nesitala somtshato wentsha.
Izinketho zokudala izimemo zakho zomtshato zikhawulelwe kuphela ngcamango yomtshakazi nomyeni. Uncedo ekwenzeni izimemo nako kunokuba ngumculi oqhelekileyo-umzekelo, yenza umdwebo omuhle, oza ku funeka upheliswe kwaye uncediswe ngeenkcukacha. Kwaye abo "banomdla" kunye nekhompyutheni, mhlawumbi uya kuthanda ukhetho lokumema kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokucwangcisa umfanekiso. Kwanokuba izakhono zekhompyutheni ezilula kunye neentle ezilungileyo zomvelisi zinika umphumo omangalisayo wobugcisa bomtshato. Eyona nto iphumelelayo kwiimemo ezifana neentlagiji - umtshakazi nomyeni, kunye nesitwendwe esithunyelwe kuso isimemo. Okanye abasandul 'ukutshata ebuntwaneni. Iimemo ezimnandi zomtshato ziyafumaneka xa ukuhlobisa amakhadikhadi kunye ne-appliqués. Amakhadi amemo wokuhlobisa ancediswa ngama-paillettes, iidbhoni, ubunzima kunye noboya. Ukuba awukonelelwanga nesimemo, kuthengwa kwisitoreji, okanye oko uyenziwe ngopende, izinto eziyilungiselelo zokucwangcisa zingahlaziya kunye nokutshintsha imifanekiso esele i-podnadoevshie. Izimemo azidalwanga kuphela kumaphepha alula. Ungadala ukusuka kwikhadibhodi, iphepha leempawu ezahlukahlukeneyo zokubhala iphepha, "uvakalelwa", iphepha le "velvet" kunye neendwangu. Nangona uhlobo lwemiemo yomtshato alunakuba ngumgangatho oqhelekileyo werungxande, kodwa nangendlela yentliziyo okanye emibini intambo.
Uyilo lwekhadi lesimemo lixhomekeke kuphela kwiingcamango zabantu abasandul 'ukutshata. Ukuhlobisa, iintyatyambo kunye neminye imihlobiso yemifuno isoloko isetyenziswa. Yaye: iintliziyo, iinkube zokubanga, iingelosi kunye nomqondiso womtshato - amasongo amabini. Kwiimimandla zesimemo ungenza imingxuma, udlulise idibhoni kuwo kwaye ubophe isaphetha esihle. Okanye vimbela isimemo kunye ne-bandage nge-tape. Kodwa izimemo zesithethe zinikezelwa kwimvulophu. Yikuphi, ngendlela, unokuyihobisa.
Isicatshulwa sesimemo sinokuqala. Umzekelo, isimemo kwivesi. Nangona kunjalo, xa uqulunqa isicatshulwa, iimfuno ezininzi kufuneka zidibene. Isimemo somtshato kufuneka sibe nolwazi-oko kukuthi, ziqulethe zonke iinkcukacha eziyimfuneko ukwenzela ukuba i-addressee ayinayo imibuzo engadingekile. Kodwa ukukhawuleza kwesimemo kuyisalathisi sezwi elihle lomtshakazi nomyeni.
Akunakwenzeka ngabafazi abazayo malunga nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo baya kukhawuleza ukuthumela isimemo. Emva koko, le mini ibalulekile nje kuphela kwintsapho encinane, kodwa nakwiindwendwe zedini lomtshato. Akufuneki kuphela ukutshintsha ishedyuli yabo, kodwa nokunyamekela isipho somtshato kunye neendleko zabo.
Umcwangcisi womtshato akayena nje umvuyo womtshakazi nomyeni. Kukulungele umtshato womtshato ukuba iqabane elitsha elitsha elitshatileyo lisondele kwaye liqonde ukubaluleka komtshato. Yiyiphi, njengoko yaziwa, iyenziwa ezulwini, kodwa ilungiswa ngabantu abaqhelekileyo. Ngoku uyazi ukwenza iimemo zomtshato ngezandla zakho.
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze yenza uluhlu lwezihlobo ezikhethiweyo kunye nabahlobo, kunye kunye nabo oye wanquma ukugubha ukuzalwa kwentsapho yakho. Uze ubanike iimemo. Ekubeni umtshato ungenye yeeholide eziphambili ebomini nomyeni, isibini esibini esitshatayo sichaza abantu ngabanye. Kubandakanywa nokuyila kweememo zomtshato. Emva koko, "ithikithi yomtshato" -khadi elivakatyelayo yentsapho ezayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isimemo somtshato asiyena nje umthombo wolwazi malunga nesiganeko seendwendwe. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata banokumamela iimemo abazenzayo, ngamanye amaxesha benza imisebenzi yangempela yobugcisa. Isimemo esinjalo sisipho esincinci seendwendwe. Namhlanje siza kuthetha malunga nokwenza iimemo zomtshato ngezandla zethu.