Ukuzibulala: njani unokuthintela ukungenakulinganiswa?

NgokweSayensi yeZiko leNzululwazi yezoLuntu kunye neNzululwazi yengqondo. I-Serbsky, iRashiya inqanaba lesithathu kwihlabathi kwinani labantu abazibulala. Kunyaka ngamnye, amawaka angamashumi amahlanu anesihlanu amaRashiya azinikela ngokuzithandela ubomi bawo. Oku kuphantse kabini kunani leenjengezithuthi zendlela zendlela kunye ncinane ngaphantsi kwesithathu senani labantu abafa eRashiya ngonyaka. Izizathu zingahluka. Abanye abakwazi ukujamelana nobunzima obujamelene nabo ebomini, abanye abakwazi ukujamelana nobuhlungu bokulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, umntu ukhetha ukufa ngokuphelelwa yithemba, ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi umntu akanalo isizathu esicacileyo sokuzibulala. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela nokukhusela intlekele enokwenzeka ngexesha.

Yaye nangona izizathu zokuzibulala ngamnye zihlukile, izazi zeengqondo zazikwazi ukubonisa indlela yokuziphatha kubantu abaceba ukuzibulala. Ngaloo ndlela, kubonakala kunokwenzeka ukufumanisa injongo yokuzibulala yomntu ukuba zifana nezinye iimpawu eziphambili zokubonakalisa izizathu zokuzibulala.

Ukuziphatha ngokuzibulala, njengomthetho, kuhamba kunye nokuxinezeleka. Umntu onokuziphatha okunjalo uncitshiswe ingqalelo, kunzima ukugxila kwaye ucinge ngokucacileyo, uba ngumntu ongenakunqununu, uhoxiswe, kwaye uzame ukuzinza. Abafowunelwa baqhekekile, kubandakanywa umnqweno wesini, kodwa umva wokungahlambuluki, ukungabi namsebenzi kuqhubeka. Umntu ozibulalayo unokulahlekelwa yintlonelo kunye nomdla kwizinto ezithandwa kuye. Iimeko ezazisetyenziselwa ukuphakamisa iimvakalelo ezintle kuye aziyi kuzisa. Iindlela zokulala zokuhlala ziphukile, ukungazinzi kufike okanye kulandelelana, ukunyongeka okwandisiweyo, kunye nalo kuvela ukukhathala okungapheliyo, ukunyaniseka. Kubonakala ukuba umntu uba nevila ukuba akhulume-intetho kunye nokunyakaza kuncipha, ukutya kulahleka, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukulahleka okanye ukufumana ubunzima bunokwenzeka. Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngokusebenza kwayo nayiphi na imisebenzi yayo? Ukuzibulala kunokuba nexhala ngelixa elizayo kwaye libhekiselele kulo, lilahlekelwa likwazi ukuphendula ngokufanelekileyo ukudumisa nokuvuyela izipho ubomi obunikezayo. Kuza buhlungu buhlungu, kwaye ngezinye iinyembezi. Umntu uhlala ecinga ngokufa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ubonisa ngokucacileyo kwiintsapho zakhe, abathandekayo, umnqweno wokuzibulala. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle, iingcebiso ezingachanekanga zininzi. Umzekelo wokuzibulala, umzekelo, ungabonakala kwisangqa sabahlobo abanentambo, ityayi, umnxeba wocingo okanye enye into efana ne-noose entanyeni yakhe. Kuyakwazi ukudlala ngento efana nebhasti okanye isibhamu. Ukuzibulala kuzama ukudubula kwisitya "sokudlala" esinjalo.

Ingcamango yokuzibulala iyibamba loo mntu. Ulungelelanisa ngokuzayo umcimbi. Unokufuna imali yokuzibulala, umzekelo, iipilisi, izinto ezinobuthi okanye ezixhaphazayo, izinto zokusika. Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo yinkcukacha, njengendlela yokutshatyalaliswa kokungqalileyo kwimo engqongileyo. Oku kungabonakaliswa ekuhanjisweni kwamatyala okanye impahla yabo, iifoto, iiyure, azame ukuxolisa, njl njl. Ukuziphatha komntu utshintsho. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba athathwe kunye nomnxeba, ngoku kungenjalo ukuba kungavumelekile ukuba avaliwe, angenakuxhamla, anganciphise umsebenzi wezemoto. Inkqubo eyenzekayo kunye neyokujika - ukulula kunye nokuzola "ukuthula" kuqala ukuziphatha ngokungaqhelekanga, ngokuvuya. Kule meko, kukho iingxoxo rhoqo ngeziganeko zokuzibulala nokuxubusha kwimeko enjalo.

Lumkele abathandekayo bakho. Mhlawumbi ukuziphatha ongazange uyibone phambi kwabo akuyiyo impawu kwintlekele, kwaye mhlawumbi le "i-alarm alarm" kufuneka uyilalele ukukhusela intlekele kwaye ubuyisele umntu oyithandayo. Khumbula - ukulinda kwakho kunokusindisa ubomi bomntu!