Ijometri yendawo ejikelezileyo inempembelelo ebalulekileyo kwiimeko zesimo somntu ngamnye. Iimitha ngaphakathi zihlala zikhona, kwaye zininzi. Ungazibona kwimifanekiso, kwimidwebo yephepha lodonga, kwindlela yokwakhiwa kwamakhethini kunye nayo yonke indawo yokuhlobisa kwangaphakathi. Ukuze i-space ibe nenzuzo kumntwana, abazali kufuneka bazi indlela yokuhlela indawo kwigumbi labantwana kwaye bahambisane nemithetho elula:
- Kwindawo ejikeleze umntwana akuyikwesabisi, kuyinqweneleka ukuyisebenzisa ekwakheni kwegumbi kuphela imigca ehamba phambili kunye neefom ezongeziweyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, zenza iimvakalelo ezintle kuphela, zinike ingqiqo yokuthembeka kwaye zibonakala zilula.
- Abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezingafaniyo kunye nemigca ephukileyo, imigca yeigzag idala uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi kwaye inokucaphukisa. Nangona, kwenzeka ukuba baba luncedo, kuba banceda ukuvula ithoni yomzimba, ngoko ke banceda bazive bevuya.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi amathoyizi avela kumntwana ukusuka ebuntwaneni bokuqala kufuneka abe mnandi, aqaqambileyo. Kwaye malunga neenyanga kunye nesiqingatha, unokuxelela ibali phezu kwesikhalazo esiza kulinda umntwana. Kubalulekile ukunika amathoyizi omntwana enza izandi ezahlukeneyo, i-squeak, iindudumo. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana ewela ixesha elilodwa kunye nesiqingatha, unokuyifumanisa ngokunyanisekileyo kunyango lwezinto zekhaya. Unako ukunika umbhobho umntwana, iipuni. Makuyeke, i-rustles-ithetha ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo.
Naliphi na igumbi linga kunikwa umlingiswa womntu. Oko kukuthi, ukulungelelanisa indawo yezingane ngendlela abazali abangathanda ngayo ngokusemgangathweni njengomntwana.
- Ukuba umntwana akabi kakhulu, akafuni ukuthetha okanye umncinane. Oko kunokumtyhukumisa kwisenzo ngaphakathi. Yintoni efunekayo kule nto? Kule meko, kwaye kuza nezifosholo ezahlukeneyo, ukugubha, iigzags. Kwindima ye-action-induction agents (i-action-stimulation agents) ingaba umbhoxo we-fleecy, i-napkins yemimo engavumelekanga, ifowuni yeefoto, iifestile.
- Ukuba umntwana uchasene, unomdla, unomsindo, unobundlobongela kwaye ungabandakanyekanga, ngoko gumbini lakhe kufuneka uququzelele imeko yokuthoba. Nantsi kuyinqweneleka ukukhupha imigca ebukhali, ngaphandle kokungafani kunye neembombo ezibukhali. Zama ukwenza yonke imigca, usebenzise i-soft soft, texture. Ukuze uqaphele oku, kufuneka ufihle zonke iipaleni ngamakhethini ezenziwe ngamehlo amancinci, avulekileyo, izinto ezingaphakathi akufanele zibe nobugwenxa kunye nobubunzima obuhlukeneyo.
Ulwahlulo kwiindawo
Xa kulungiswa isikhala kwigumbi labantwana, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwahlula igumbi kwiindawo. Unika ntoni? Okokuqala, kunceda ukwenza ummandla womntwana ucebile ngakumbi. Kwaye okwesibini, ngale ndlela unokuyilungisa ubomi bomntwana, ngelixa lingenzi nto. Kwaye okwesithathu, ukwahlula kube yimida ekuncedisayo ukuhlanganisana kwiqela elinye lala macandelo enoxanduva lokuphuhliswa komntwana kwicandelo ngalinye ngokuhlukileyo.
Ukwahlula igumbi kwiindawo eziyimfuneko ngokusetyenziswa kweengxenye "zokukhanya", izikrini, unokusebenzisa ifenitshala kule njongo. Unokwahlula igumbi kwiindawo ezintathu.
Indawo yezemidlalo.
Apha unako ukuxhoma udonga lwesiSweden, ukuguqula okanye ibha engqambileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kule ngxenye umntwana angaphonsa amandla akhe, gxuma, ukhuphuke.
Umdlalo wemidlalo.
Kulo mmandla kuya kuba namathoyizi omntwana. Apha unako ukunamathela iphepha elikhanyayo, kwaye ungathengela okuncinci kwaye uvumele umntwana ukuba awapende.
Indawo yokulala.
Ekubhaleni kwayo kuphela imibala elula, eyona nto ibhebhe yonke eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nohlaza. Ukwahlula le ngxona kungabonakaliswa. Ukufakela i-canopy phezu kombhede.
Ukudala isikhala somntwana wakho kufuneka ukhokelwe okokuqala ngongoma yakho. Emva koko, umama kuphela kunye nobawo bayazi into enhle kumntwana wabo. Kwaye ke, ukuba umntwana sele esazi indlela yokubonisa uluvo lwakhe, kubalulekile ukulinganisa nalo. Emva koko, igumbi ngokuyinhloko lihlala kulo mncinane.