Qala ukufundisa umntwana ebhodweni olufunekayo ukuqala kwiinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezi-18, ngeli lixesha ukuba umntwana uqala ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo izenzo zakhe. Okokuqala, mfundise ukuba ahlale ebhodweni ukwenzela ukungeniswa. Kule minyaka, umzekelo wabanye abantwana abaselula okanye abazali basebenza kakuhle.
Makhe umntwana abone indlela abadala kunye noontanga abaya ngayo ngasese, kwaye mhlawumbi ufuna ukuxelisa abanye. Bonisa umntwana wakhe onobuncwane obuncolileyo, uchaze ukuba xa ekhupha okanye e-pisses, imbongolo yakhe ihlambulukile kwaye iphunga kakubi.
Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa zokukunceda ufundise umntwana wakho kumbindi:
- imbiza ibonakale emehlweni omntwana - kwigumbi lakhe okanye kwigumbi lokuhlala, makabe edlala naye;
- Ukuba umntwana uhamba ebhodweni, qiniseka ukumdumisa, ukubetha intloko, ngoko umntwana uya kuba nemvakalelo emnandi enxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwebhoyi. Ngenomdla ujabule ngempumelelo yakhe, ngoko uya kufuna ukukholisa kwakhona.
- ukuba umntwana usoloko eya kwi-diapers, kuya kufuneka asuswe. Intsana kufuneka ifunde umzimba wayo, yabone indlela ahlamba ngayo kunye nokukhwehlela.
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba angene kwindlu yangasese kungekhona ekhaya kuphela, kodwa nakwezinye iindawo ezahlukeneyo: esitrato, unokubhala phantsi kwehlathi, kunye nokutyelela indlu yangasese.
- ukuba umntwana akabhalwa ebusuku, ungamniki ukuba aphuze amanzi amaninzi ubusuku. Mfundise ukuba a tyelele indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokulala kwaye kamva emva kokuvuswa.
Xa unika umntwana omncinci ebhodweni, akufuneki ukuba uyamgxeka ngenxa yokwenza umkhonto ongenamdla. Mkhumbule ibhokhwe, kodwa ungammxhasi ukuba ahlale kuye. Ukuba uhlala uhlekisa kwaye ugxeke umntwana, ngenxa yeempazamo zakhe, uya kuyika ukuhamba ebhodweni, ukuze angakuchukumisi ukungahlali kwakho, kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukuyiqhelisela ebhodweni. Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuhlala ebhodweni, musa ukumphoqa ukuba akwenze. Zama ukuzama kwakhona kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, kwaye uzame ukufumanisa into engayithandi ibhodwe: mhlawumbi ayinakonwaba okanye ibanda kakhulu.
Kukho nawuphi na, ungalindelanga umphumo osheshayo. Yiba noxolo, ugweme ukucaphukisa nokuphelelwa yithemba. Khumbula ukuba ukuba ukukhushulwa akuncedi, isijeziso siza kuphazamisa le nto. Hlala ubukele umntwana. Emva kwexeshana yonke into iza kulungiswa!