Mhlawumbi umbuzo wendlela yokuziphatha xa ubona ipakethe yezinja ezibukroti ngesibindi sakho, zikhangele zifuneke zivela phantsi kweelusi ze-shaggy, ininzi yazo yonk 'inkxalabo ngoomama abancinci abakhupha abantwana babo ukuhamba.
Kuomama abatsha, sifuna ukunika iingcebiso kuqala. Okokuqala, ziphathe ngokubonakala kweenja ezinkulu ezikhungayo, ngokuzithoba ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokunikezela nantoni na. Iingcali zenzululwazi zibonakalise ukuba inja iphendula ngokukhawuleza ukukhululwa kwe-adrenaline, ehambelana noyiko lwabantu. Okwesibini, xa ubona ipakethe egijima kuwe, zama ukutshintsha indlela ngaphandle kokukhawuleza. Zama ukuya ngaphesheya kwendlela okanye ujika kwenye indawo. Okwesithathu, xa ubona izinja zingenzi izandi ezikrakra kakhulu, jonga ngenyameko umntwana - ingayitshintsha yini ingalo yakhe ngokumema, ukutsala ingqalelo kwipaki yejaji? Thatha izandla zeemvuthu ngento ethile, ingadli okanye idle. Okwesine, kunye nezipikili zobutsha, fundisa umntwana wakho isimo sengqondo esikhethekileyo sokulahleka izinja. Yaye qaphela ukuba lobu budlelwane abufanele bubekwe phezu kwenzondo kunye nogonyamelo. Abantwana bafanele baqonde ukuba izinja ezihlala kwisitrato zifana nezilwanyana ezifana nezasekhaya, ababanakho indlu kwaye abanalo ikosi-kodwa oku akubenzi ngakumbi. Fundisa kwakhona ukuba unokubukela umhlambi kude, awukwazi ukuwufikelela ngokusondeleyo, kuba awaziwa ukuba ezi zinja ziphatha njani abantu abangabazi.
Emva koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba bonke ubomi besitrato bafumana kuphela ukukhaba kwabo abadlulileyo - kwaye ke akukho mvakalelo enhle kumntwana uya kuhamba emphefumlweni wabo kwaye bayakwazi ukuyidlala lula kulo lonke uluntu.
Ngoko ke, ukuba ipakethe yezinja ezinkulu okanye ezincinci, ezihlambulukileyo okanye ezihlambulukileyo kunye ne-shaggy izinja zigijimela kuwe, kwaye awuboni abantu abangaba ngabaphathi babo - unokucinga ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba ezi zizinja zizinja. Yaye uqikelele: ziphi iintloko zabo? - awukwazi. Unokucinga nje ukuba ezi zinja azifuni ukubaziphathe. Le ngqondo yengqondo yonke inja enempilo kunye neleyo. Bayazi kwiqondo lofuzo lokuba umntu unamandla ngakumbi, ukuba nguye owawunqobayo waza wawagcoba. Ngako oko, ke ngoko abayi kukhwela kuwe. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba awudingi ukwesaba iinja ezilahlekileyo: phakathi kwabo abagulayo nabangenakulinganiswa kunye nabanobudlova abakwazi ukuhlasela umntu ngaphandle kwezizathu ezicacileyo banokubanjwa.
Ngaphambili, phakathi kwezihlwele kwakukho iingcebiso eziqhelekileyo ukuba xa uqaphela inja eya kukuhlasela, kufuneka ukhawuleze phantsi kwaye wenze sengathi uthabathe ilitye lokuhlaselwa. Ezinye izinja zisoyika ngokwenene, kodwa akufanele uzame ukuba unayo inja ezinkulu. Yingakho. Izinja ezingenazo ikhaya zihlobo oluthile lwezilwanyana, ziphucule kakuhle zonke iimvakalelo nezakhono zokulwa, iingcamango ziyabancedisa ukuba basinde - kwaye banokuyichukumisa inja enobungozi ukuhlaselwa kuqala kumoni. Okokuthi, gama uncike phezu kwelitye, inja iya kuzama ukugxuma phezu kwakho ngokukhawuleza kwaye ibambe isikhumba. Ngako oko, indlela enjalo ingabizwa ngokusebenzayo xa ingxoxo evezwayo idlula kuwe, kunokuba inja enkulu enonya.
Ungalokothi ukhange izinja ezilahlekileyo emehlweni - akukho nja ayithandayo "ukubukeka kwembonakalo", inokumcaphukisa inja kwaye, ngaloo ndlela, imshukumise ukuba ahlasele umoni.
Inkokheli yepakethi yile nja, ukusuka "kwisigqibo" apho ukuziphatha nezenzo zomhlambi wonke kuxhomekeke. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubona ukuba uhlaselo aluphepheki - kufuneka uqondise yonke imizamo yokunciphisa ukuzinza kwenkokheli. Xa uhlaselwa inja, kuyimfuneko ukuhlala phantsi ngokukhawuleza, ukubeka isandla esisodwa phambili, ukumakisha emqaleni weja. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka ukuba umthinte ngomqala, kwaye ngesandla sakho samahhala uqale ukubetha impumlo - indawo enobunzima kakhulu inja.
Kakade ke, ezo zakhono zobugcisa akunakwenzeka ukuba nabani na odla ukufumana ipakethi yeenja. Kwaye buhlungu kakhulu - kubonakala kum ukuba ukuba unayo ipakethi kwiseyadi yakho, ngoko kufuneka ufunde ngokukhawuleza.
Ukubaleka emehlweni omhlambi wezinja akukhuthazwa ngokukhawuleza - emva koko, izilwanyana zigijima ngokukhawuleza kunabantu. Zama ukudlulisa ingqalelo kwizinja-zilahle "ezinye", ezingayithatha umntu onobungozi obunobungozi. Into enokuthi ibe yilebhu yakho, isikhwama, iibhegi zokutya - ekugqibeleni, ngendlela, inokubamba abaxhasi abalambile ixesha elide, emva kwayo yonke into, kutheni bafuna iminyango engabonakaliyo, ukuba ivela kwiphakheji kukho i-flavors?
Kukho okunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuxelela, iqela elincinci labantu abaya kuhlaselwa khona izinja. Ngento edibeneyo - ayikwaziwa ekupheleni, nangona kunjalo. Ngoko, abantu abanjalo kufuneka bahlale bephethe iindlela ezinokuzihlaziya ukuhlaselwa kwenja. Phakathi kwabo ungabiza umtshini wombane. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza senza ukugcinwa - isixhobo asikhuselekile kumntu. Kwaye kufuneka ukwazi ukuwuphatha, ukwenzela ukuba umbane ongenawo ungena kuwe, kungekhona kwinja ehlaselayo. Sekunjalo kukho "isintu" isilungiso - sithwala isikhephe epokothini lakho ephaketheni lakho ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye xa inja ikufikela ngolunye uhlobo olusongelayo - uthele nje i-pepper into ebusweni. Ama-receptors yesilwanyana abhombola kulolu hlobo unyango kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, kuthatha umhlalaphantsi.
Eyona nto ingcono ukuhambahamba yedwa apho inja ingakuhlasela khona. Vumela amadoda, obawo, abazalwana, abahlobo banokuhlangana nawe ukusuka kwindawo yokuma kwaye bakubone ekhaya ngeepakheji. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthatha ibhet okanye intonga kunye nawe ukusuka ekhaya.