Umntwana wakho uneholide yokuqala ebomini bakhe - umhla wokuzalwa kwakhe. Ngomnyaka umntwana oye wafunda ukuhamba, uye wakhula ngokubanzi kwaye ufunda ngokuzimeleyo ihlabathi. Unomdla kuyo yonke into, ufuna ukufumana yonke into, uphonsa amathoyizi malunga nendlu. Umntwana uzama kuyo yonke into ukunceda unina, "uzisa umyalelo", uhamba. Xa ukhetha umhla wokuzalwa, kufuneka uqikelele ubuncinane bomntwana. Musa ukumnika izinto "ukukhula", iisethi zeelinen yelinen, umntwana akayi kubuxabisa lesi sipho kwaye ewe, akayi kumzisa. Xa ukhetha isipho, kufuneka uqikelele ukuba kufuneka ube nomsebenzi ophuculisayo kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Yintoni enokunika umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa?
Isipho sifanele sibe nesithakazelo kumntwana, ingaba ithoyizi eliqaqambileyo, ukuba inkunzi eneminyaka elilodwa ingayiqondi injongo yento yokudlala, iya kuyifumana ukuyisebenzisa ngokuqonda kwayo. Izinto kufuneka zinikezwe xa unokwazi oko akufunayo, umzekelo, umama womntu wokuzalwa "wayala" le nto.
Utatomkhulu nogogo, unkulunkulu unako ukunika isonka sesilivere emazinyo. Emva koko, umntwana uqala ukufunda indebe kunye ne-spoon ukususela ngonyaka kwaye uzama ukusingatha izinto zetafile ngokuzimela. Ngosuku lokuzalwa, esi sisipho esihle.
Unokunikela ngedonki encinci kwindlovu, yindlela yokushicilela abantwana, kuyo inkwenkwe iya kuba yedwa, igxotha ukusuka phantsi kunye neenyawo zayo, ijikeleza egumbini. Ukugqama, ukuxhoma, ukunikezelwa kumntwana, kuya kuhola umntwana ekuhlwithweni. Uya kufumana uvuyo oluninzi kunye novuyo, ehamba phezu kwabo.
Umntwana kuze kube ngumnyaka wayengumtshabalali, kodwa emva konyaka uzama ngoncedo lukaMama ukubeka enye ithoyizi kwenye, yakha into ethile. Mnike umklami eneenkcukacha ezinkulu eziqaqambileyo, umntwana uya kuvuyela "ukukwakha" kunye nexesha elithile uya kuba noxakeka ngento ebalulekileyo. Kufuneka uthenge amathoyizi enziwe ngaphandle kwamacangci abukhali, ngaphandle kweengcinci ezincinci kwaye zenziwe ngezinto zendalo. Emva kwakho konke, abantwana banamdla.
Abantwana abaneminyaka eli-1 badlala kakuhle kunye ne matryoshkas, baqaqambile kwaye bathanda ntoni kubo, bavala kwaye bavule, banokuvulwa kwaye bavaliwe izikhathi ezili-10. Unokuthenga i-self-propelled and clockwork toy. Ezi zinto, njengombandela, zixhotyiswe ngeempembelelo ezivakalayo kunye nokukhanya, baya kulonwa yinkwenkwe yokuzalwa. Isipho esihle siya kuba sisetyenzana seekhabhi ezithambileyo. Ngoxa uncedwa ngumntwana wakhe uya kuba nako ukuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi ezifanelekileyo kwaye uya kukwazi ukuqeqesha ukucinga nokucatshulwa kwendawo. Isipho siya kuthwala umntwana ixesha elide, kwaye uya kukwakha iinqaba ngexesha elide.
Xa kuthengiswa kukho iitente-izindlu zabantwana, abantwana baya kufihla kuyo, badlale, baphathe amathoyizi endlwini. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, kuyimfuneko ukufundisa umntwana ukuba awise, emva komdlalo okufuneka ubeke amathoyizi endlwini kunye nomntwana. Emva koko umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba amathoyizi akhe kufuneka abe endlwini kwaye uya kufaka izinto ngokulandelelana. Ibhayisiki iya kuzisa uvuyo olukhulu kumntwana xa umntwana engazange afikelele kuyo. Esi sipho sinokuthi "siyalwe" kumkhulu nomkhulu, ngenxa yokuzalwa komzukulu wakhe, akunakwenzeka ukuba akwazi ukulahla isilwanyana kwisipho eso. Kuhamba ngebhayisikile akuyi kuthatha indawo, ukuba umntwana usemncinci kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyakhathala, abazali bakhe baya kumthabatha. Kukho iibhasikidi zabantwana ezinesibambo, apho abazali bakhe bakhokela khona, njengothutho lomntwana.
Ukuvuyela umntwana ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa kufuneka unikezwe ngomphefumlo nangothando, kodwa sisiphi isipho - zigqibo kuwe. Emva koko, akusiyo isipho ngokwayo, kodwa umntwana uhanjiswe uvuyo. Ukuvuyela umntwana ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, kufuneka uvuyise umama wakho. Emva koko, mbulela umama, lo "mqondiso" ubonakala.
Xa kuthengiswa ukhetho olukhulu lwezinto zokudlala, kukho ininzi yokukhetha, ukhetha isipho somntwana oneminyaka elilodwa. Into ephambili kukuba ithoyizi ikhuselekile kwaye imgangatho.