Ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzekelayo
Ukuxhulumana komama phakathi komama nomntwana kubonakali, kodwa kunamandla kakhulu. Indodana okanye intombi ifundela urhulumente wakho kwaye ikhokelwa yiyo. Awuyifumani indawo, ukuqokelela umntwana enkulisa, uyabubula: "Unjani wena ngaphandle kwam?", Ukwahlukana kwaye awukwazi ukubamba iintlungu? Eyona nto, ingaba umntwana uyakholelwa ukuba uya kuthanda kwi-kindergarten? Siyaqinisekisa ukuba, ukuba ufuna usuku oluhle, ngokumomotheka, kwaye ngokuhlwa ubuya ngesimo sengqondo esilungileyo, kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba uphumelele ukuhlukana kwakho. "Kodwa mna, ndixhalabele!" - uyazibuza. Nceda musa. Ngomntwana wakho konke kuya kulungile. Uye wanyuka ebele? Akunjalo ngenxa yokuba ayiphutha. Kuphela nje ukuba usetyenziselwa ukuziva umntwana ecaleni lakho yonke iminithi, ukhangele zonke iinyawo ozithathayo. Phinda uthi: "Ingane isesandleni esihle, yenza kakuhle." Kwaba lula? Kuhle. Ukuze uqiniseke, musa ukubiza umnquli. Xa uthatha umntwana, ngoko yonke into ngokubanzi uze ubuze.
Enye inyaniso
Ngona karapuza enolwazi, oye wachaza oko aya kukwenza enkulisa, okokudlala kunye nokokutya, udangele ulindele. Amazwi kaMama ayiphulaphule njengengoma yefestile, kodwa apha ujongene nenyaniso. Ibhedi kwisibhedlele ayifani nekhaya, kwaye nangaphambi kokulala, akukho namnye utyhawula umqolo, akayi kucula i-lullaby. Ukutya akuqhelekanga, utitshala ufuna ukuba inhlangano engaqondakaliyo kunye nokuthobela. Kwaye abantwana babengenabungane. Omnye uphakamise, umntu uthathe umdlalo. Kwaye ngoku ubomi ebomini bubonakala buvuyo. Umntwana enezinyembezi emehlweni akhe uxelela ukuba e-nursergart ayingozi, kwaye akayi kuphinda ahambe apho. Uyakholelwa okanye akunjalo? Wonke amazwi! Omnye aze azisole. Kodwa uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto yenzekile? Egadi, akuyi kuze kube yinto efana nekhaya, kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba nayiphi na umntu ukuze aqonde ukuba yiyintoni kwindawo entsha, kuthatha iintsuku ezintathu. Musa ukukhawuleza izinto. Yaye xelela umntwana ukuba yonke into iya kulungeleka kungekudala, uya kukwazi abantwana, wenze ubuhlobo kunye notitshala kunye nayo yonke into iya kuqheleka. Nangona umcimbi u-ewe, makamthathe kunye nentonti yakhe ayithandayo. Baya kuba yonke indawo! Ibhere okanye inja iya kubelana nenkosi yayo yonke imihlali kunye nentlungu. Ukongezelela, bobabini bethu abesabi kakhulu.
Kancinci sisisetyenziselwa kuyo
Njengomthetho, iiveki yokuqala yomntwana ithathwa kwi-nursergart ngesiqingatha somhla. Abanye abamama bathatha i-crumb ngaphambi kokulala, abanye-emva. Kubalulekile ukuba inkunzi iqinisekise ukuba: kuya kufuneka ufike kuye. Mane ungabizi ixesha elichanekileyo - kuba inani elincinci alithetha nto. Yithi: "Emva kokutya kwesibini, uya kubuya ekuhambeni okanye xa uvuka ..." Nantoni na eyenzekayo, kufuneka ufike ngexesha. Zama ukugcina ixesha. Ekuqaleni, abantwana ngokuzithandela baya kwi-kindergarten, bathathe amathoyizi kunye nabo, bagqoke. Kubo, oku kuyintengiso, ithuba lokuzibonisa, ukuziqhayisa. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza bayaqaphela ukuba i-kindergarten ixesha elide. Usuku ngemini kuya kufuneka uhambe apho, usebenze, wenze imisebenzi. Kubalulekile ukuhamba nangona imini ngaphambi kokuba umntu aphuke. Emva koko ufumane uvavanyo olunzulu. Iingqungquthela zeebhokhwe kwaye akafuni ukugqoka, uyakhala ngandlela-thile, kwaye kufuphi nomnyango kwiqela eli liqela. Nceda kakhulu, qhubeka uzolile. Siyayiqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ishishini eliphuthumayo likulindele, ngakumbi ukuba ukukhwela kwintsimi kukuhambelana nokuya kwakho emsebenzini. Kodwa akavumelani nesibonelelo somfundisi ukuba athathe intsha kumngcakaza: bathi, apho uya kukhawuleza. Ewe, uyakwenza ngesizathu esihle. Inokwenene inokukholwa, ngeyure umntwana uya kuziphatha, ngokungathi akukho nto yenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, ungabaleki. Thatha kwizandla zakho, cinezela yona, thuthuzela. Chaza indlela ebalulekileyo ngayo imvume yakhe. Ngoxa ehleli engadini, ujamelana nezinto ezininzi. Ukukhuthazela ukuba ube nesineke kude kube ngokuhlwa. Uya kubuya, kunye kunye uya kupaki okanye uhambe ngebhayisikili. Okanye mhlawumbi uhlale ekhaya, bhaka ikhekhe kwaye ubukele i-cartoon. Iinyembezi zomile? Ngaba i-umnichka yakho ihamba kakuhle nawe? Ndiyakuvuyisana ngokuphumelela kwakho kokuqala! Ngokwemvelo, ngokuhlwa uza kuzalisekisa isithembiso-kwaye uza kuba nexesha elihle.
Ngokwethenjelwa
Indlela entsha yenza izilungiso zakho kubomi bakho. Oku kuye kwatshintshile. Ingane ithola ingqalelo encinane kubazali, ukusuka kwintsimi ithathwa ngumama, ngoko uyise, ngoko ugogo. "Uyandithanda?" - omncinane ubuza lo mbuzo kwakhona. Ngokungaqinisekiyo? Ewe. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uphendule amaxesha amaninzi kwaye ukhumbuze ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokusemandleni. I-Karapuzu kubalulekile ukuba uzive uthandwa, ungabalulekanga kubazali. Akunakwenzakalisa ukuba umkholise umntwana ukuba ukuba uya kwenza, uyayeka zonke izinto uze uze kuye. Kwakhona kunyanzelekile ukuxoxa ngeemeko ezinzima zamandla. Ngubani oza kukuqinisekisa? Ugogo, unesi? Umntwana kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba engadini akayi kushiywa aze athathwe, nokuba ngaba umama nobaba bahlala, bangena kwi-jam yokuhamba endleleni, imoto iyahla. Ewe, ukuba umntu okuncedayo, phambi kobuqili obonisa ukuzimisela kwakhe ukuza kuhlangula. Isidingo sokuya kwi-kindergarten kulula ukuqonda xa bobabini abazali bebasebenzi. Ukwazi ukuba umntu usekhaya, umntwana uya kwenza yonke imizamo yokuhlala, naye.
Ekhaya
Zonke iindaba ezivela ebomini ufumana endleleni. Ingane inokwabelana ngayo, ixoxa ngokungapheliyo. Mamela ngenyameko, ubuze imibuzo, khangela. Kuhle xa umama eyazi igama lomhlobo, uxhasa isondo esahlukileyo (ewe, uthando lokuqala lubi kakhulu), uyaziqonda imidlalo yezingane kwaye uyakhumbula amagama amathoyizi. Abantwana abaninzi badibana nabazali babo ngombuzo othi: "Wandizisela ntoni na?" Bayakwazi ukuqonda - kulungile ukufumana isimanga ngalunye imihla. Kodwa ufuna ukuba umntwana alindele ukufika kwakho, kungekhona into entsha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unomnqweno wokukholisa unyana okanye intombi yakho. Kutheni ungenzi ngamanye amaxesha, umzekelo, kanye ngeveki? Kuya kuba yinto enhle. Inqaku lokuba awuyikucinga into ethile. Makube ngumsebenzi ongaqondakaliyo, isiqhezu esincinci, isikhonkco, i-chestnut, nje ukwenza umququ wokuba uthethe kakuhle. Yaye ucinge ngesithethe. Yithi, bhinqa kwiintlanganiso okanye ugijime komnye nomomotheka. Ngaba unina ngaphandle kweengxaki? Emva koko thabathe umzekelo ukusuka kumaMerika, bayazi indlela yokwakha. Iintendelezo zekoton, ngamadolo. Bhuqa iiswini zakho, gxuma endaweni uze uthi: "Sawubona!" Uyayithanda njani le ndlela?
Iingqungquthela kunye nentukuthelo
Nantoni na eyenziwa ngumntwana kwintanga yesibini, kufuneka uhlale ekhusela. Ngaba bayakhalaza ngaye? Akuyimfuneko ukufumana ubuhlobo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ucele yonke into. Ungadana okanye uhlaziye umntwana. Mamela ilungu elenzakalisiweyo, bulela ulwazi kunye nesithembiso sokukufumana konke. Musa ukukhawuleza ngezigqibo. Enye imbono enomdla into eyenzekayo inomdla. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha yonke into icacile. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukuqonda kwakho kubaluleke ngakumbi kuneengxoxo zemfundo. Ngaba loo nto ihlupheke? Thatha amahlaya akho kwizityhilelo zakhe, phulaphula, uvelane. Kodwa zama ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo. Ukuba kwenzeka into enzulu, utitshala uya kuxubusha yonke into nawe. Ekubeni akazange ayithobele ingqalelo eso siganeko, akukho nto ithetha ngayo into embi eyenzekayo. Ngaba kukho into ekukhathazayo? Ngokukhawuleza kusasa, yifake. Kwiingxabano ezibandakanye omnye umntwana? Khumbula: awunalo ilungelo lokumfundisa. Yazisa umqeqeshi, udibane nabazali. Ngaba ufuna ukubuza malunga nento ethile umntwana onomhlobo wakho ngumhlobo? Kungcono ukwenza oku phambi kwayo kunye nemvume kamama okanye uyise. Kukho neemeko ezingathandekiyo xa utitshala unetyala. Izenzo zakhe azihambi Ingaba unobungqina, kodwa uyayiphika yonke into? Ndiza kufuneka ndidibane nomphathi. Musa nje uqalise, hlonipha, ububele, cacisa yonke into edibeneyo. Yaye ungesabi ukuba impikiswano iya kuthintela umntwana ngenye indlela. Utitshala ngumntu omdala, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuqala ukuqhubela ububi kwi-crumb. Ekubeni ungeke ukwazi ukuqonda kunye, umntu wesithathu onomdla kwisisombululo esiphezulu seengxaki uya kunceda. Kodwa ukuba uthe cwaka, soyika ukuzisa ityala ekukhangiseni, lungele uqhubeke neengxaki. Enyanisweni, abantwana, oomama abanamahloni kwaye abangazikhuselanga iimfuno zomntwana wabo, baqonde ngokukhawuleza: uya kuphembela kuwe kuphela. Abahlaseli balwa nabo. Abantu abathuthunyayo babekezelela ngokuthobeka ... Awufuni le nto umntwana!
Kuya kuba mnandi!
Iingcali zengqondo zithi: intsana eyazi indlela yokuzithatha, inezakhono zokudlala ngokuzimeleyo, ilungele ukuzilungelelanisa kwi-kindergarten. Indlela yokufundisa? Hlala phantsi nomntwana uze udlale ngeedodoli, iimoto, umyili. Kodwa kungekhona umbane, kodwa unentsingiselo. Yenza ibali elingenakuthobeka kwaye lifake ebomini. Kubaluleke kakhulu kunye nokukwazi ukuthetha noontanga. Ngaba usebenze ngaphandle kwebhokisi le-sandbox, kunye nabantwana bakho obaziyo, udade wakho omdala okanye umzalwana? Emva koko akuyi kuba neengxaki. Nangona usadingeka ufundise umntwana ukuba abe novelwano kunye novelwano, zama ukuqonda enye kwaye ungangeni kumlo. Futhi ukwabelana kunye nokutshintsha amathoyizi. Ngokubanzi, mncedise ukuba aqonde iimfihlo zobomi kwiqela.