Wonke umntu uyamoyika into ethile. Njengomntwana, sinoyika uBabu Yaga, ubumnyama kunye nesijeziso sabazali. Esikolweni sihlala sinoyika amanqaku amabi, amakhwenkwe ayamoyika amantombazana, kunye namantombazana amakhwenkwe. Emva koko sesaba iimviwo. Olandelayo-umtshato, okanye u lonwabo. Ngokuzalwa kwabantwana, sesaba ngabo. Ngaphambi kokubonakala kwemibimbi yokuqala, siqala ukwesaba ukuguga, kwaye ngokufanayo kunye noloyiko oluxhomekeke kwiminyaka esiyiyoyoyikayo, ukungazi, umbono womntu womntu, iindudumo, izibungulu. Sinoyika ukufa, emva koko. Kwaye ngoko bonke ubomi bam.
Makhe sizame ukuqonda uhlobo lwesaba, okwenza intliziyo yethu ikhule, kwaye amehlo ethu akhulisa ubukhulu obukhulu. Yaye sinokuyenza njani ukuze iintlungu zethu zisikhathaze kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngendlela, isayensi yengqondo iza kusinceda siqonde indlela yokwenza uloyiko lwakho kwaye unokuzithemba ngakumbi.
Uloyiko lusabela njani kwisimo sokuzinyamekela. Xa abantu beza kusinda endle, kwafuneka baphendule ngokukhawuleza ukuvela kwengozi. Ukugijima okanye ukuhlaselwa. Uloyiko luphefumlelwe ezi zinto. Ngoko sitsho ukuba sinoyiko kunye nejeni, njengempembelelo yecala lokulondoloza. Omnye umbuzo: ukwesaba kunobulungisa, okanye kuxoxwa kwaye kuyimveliso yengcinga yethu ecebileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu banengxaki yokwesaba okubonakalayo, okuyiyona nto ingaboni kakuhle imeko kwaye ibangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, okwenyuka kakhulu umgangatho wobomi bethu. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi banesibindi sezinambuzane. Ngokwemigangatho efanelekileyo, loloyiko lulungile, kuba kukho ezininzi ezinambuzane ezinobuthi emhlabeni. Olu loyiko luboniswa kwinto yokuba asithinti nje ezi zidalwa. Kodwa ukuba umntu, ebona igqabhambela ekamelweni elilandelayo, ephuma endlwini, ngoko uloyiko luya kuthiwa lubuhlungu. Uloyiko olonakalisayo luba luba luba ngaphezu komda obalulekileyo.
Uloyiko aluchaphazeli nje kuphela ukuqonda kwethu, kodwa nomzimba wethu. Yonke imikhosi emadodeni iyahlanganiswa ukuze ikwazi ukuzikhusela, umzekelo, ukubaleka kwi-tiger. Umzimba uvelisa i-adrenaline, zonke igazi liphuma kwiimisipha, isikhumba siphendukile, ukusetyenziswa kwenkqubo ye-nervous kuholela ekuthinzeni intliziyo ngokukhawuleza, abafundi abahlanjululwayo, banqanda umsebenzi we-digestive system, njl. Zonke iinkqubo ezenzeka nathi ngethuba loloyiko lwaluyiluncedo ekuqaleni, kwaye zakhulelwa ngokwemvelo ngenxa yethu. Kodwa ngeli xesha, abaninzi babo, ngenxa yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, baye bangenanto kwaye baphazamise ubomi. Uloyiko olunjengoko ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo, ukuduma kweendudumo, izifo ezincinane zaqala ukukholisa abantu. Kodwa endaweni yabo kwafika ipakethe enkulu yezinto ezithiwa ngabantu: ukwesaba iimviwo, uxanduva, ukuthetha koluntu. Kwaye xa uloyiko olunjalo lufikelela kwindawo yabo ebalulekileyo, abakwazi ukukhula kungekho nje ukwesaba, kodwa kungena kwifom ye-klinikhi - i-phobia. Musa ukulinda umzuzwana xa ngaphandle koncedo lugqirha alukwazi ukuhlangabezana nalo. Qala ulungele ukwesaba kwakho ngokukhawuleza xa uvakalelwa kukuba baphazamisa ubomi bakho.
Zininzi iindlela zokulwa nokuloyika. Ngezihlandlo ezahlukahlukeneyo iingqiqo ezinkulu zicinga ngale nto kwaye zathi, ngoku isayensi iyaqinisekisa le ngqondo. Okokuqala, kufuneka ufumane oko uloyiko. Zininzi izizathu zokwesaba. Ingaba ngabantu, iimeko, iimeko zobomi, iziganeko zendalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukwesaba akunazo izikhonkwane zekhonkrithi kwaye kuthiwa akukho nto. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba umntu utshintshe ukwesaba okwenene kunye nolula, okwenza kube lula ukufihla, apho umntu kufuneka abheke into eyona nto yokwesaba. Emva kokuba ufumene imeko yakho, qalisa ukulwa. Kwaye makhe sijonge imizekelo ethile yokunqoba ukwesaba kwakho.
Indlela yokujonga. Khawucinge uloyiko lwakho, jonga, uvale yonke into eyenzeka ngaloo mzuzu, uzive. Emva koko uzibuze umbuzo, yintoni ongayenza ukuze uloyiko luphele. Gqibezela ukucamngca okuyingqalileyo ngcamango yokuba ukwesaba kuya kuba mncinci kwaye kuyaphela. Ungasebenzisa nayiphina imifanekiso xa unikezela. Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukwesaba kwakho ngendlela yebhotile, uyihlolisise, uyiva kwaye uyiqhekeza zibe ziincinane. Njengoko uVissarion Belinsky wathi: "Indoda isaba kuphela into engayaziyo; Ulwazi luyolinqoba lonke uloyiko. "
Indlela yokulahlwa. Khangela ukwesaba kwakho njengokungathi uvela ngaphandle. Yaye xa uloyiko luqala ukuthatha ilifa lakho, xelela kuye - "Akuyena mna!". Zama ukulahla ukwesaba kwakho. Mkhangele njengento engenzi lutho nawe.
Imithombo efihliweyo. Khumbula ezo meko apho uphumelele khona, zaziziqhenyce ngokwabo kwaye zaziva zinamandla kakhulu. Zama ukubuyela kwimeko leyo. Ndiva ukuba unokunqoba nayiphi na imingcipheko, kwaye nangona kunjalo injalo into enjalo njengento yokwesaba kwakho. Izibonelelo ezinkulu zifihliwe kuwe.
Indlela yokuhleka. Hlaba uloyiko lwakho, fantasize. Cinga ngeemeko ezihlaziyiweyo apho abalinganiswa abasemgangathweni baya kuba nawe kunye nokwesaba okuthandayo. Emva kwakho konke, xa kukho ukuhleka kwezinto, ngenxa yokwesaba ixesha kwaye ingqalelo.
Ukuhlaselwa kwe Counter. Ungazami ukuphepha kwimoyiko lakho. Xa ujike umqolo wakho phezu kwakhe, kuba nzima nakakhulu ngakumbi. Ngokuchaseneyo, thumela ukuza kumhlangabeza uze uqaphele indlela yena uya kuthusa ngayo.
Cinga uloyiko lwakho kwimeko yonke. Ngokomzekelo, uloyiko lokungcatshwa komntu othandekayo, kodwa cinga ngento engento engathethiyo xa kuthelekiswa neengxaki zemali zehlabathi. Okanye ukuba ukwesaba iigundane, cinga nje oko kuza kwenzeka kuwe xa ubona ingonyama.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, zama ukucinga ngento encinci malunga nekamva. Hlala apha kwaye ngoku. Yaye uya kubona, kuba uninzi ukwesaba akuyi kuba nesizathu.
Ukuba ufuna, unokwenza indlela yokulwa nokwesaba kwakho. Akukho mntu uyazi kakuhle kunoko. Into ephambili, yinyani, musa ukwamkela ukukholelwa koyiko lwakho. Thatha phantsi kolawulo. Kwaye baya kuba yingozi nakakhulu kunokuba ucinga. Kwakhona inzululwazi yengqondo ineempendulo, indlela yokwenza uloyiko lwakho. Ukuba awukwazi ukujamelana noyiko wedwa, qha ga mshelana nomfundi.