Uke wambona indlela umntwana wakho abakhetha ngayo umbala othile? Xa ndabona intombi yam ibhola elibomvu, intombi yam yathi: "Ndifuna i-scooter efanayo, eluhlaza kuphela." Ngendlela, ukhetha iphepha lodonga kunye, sasithanda iphepha lodonga oluhlaza. Omncinci "wasusa" ipeneni yam eluhlaza, kuba sifuna ngokwenene loo nto. Ngokukhawuleza andizange ndibaluleke kakhulu kule nto, kodwa ke ndaqala ukucinga ngobudlelwane bombala kunye nomlingiswa womntu, kuba ibhukumaka isuka yonke yobuntwaneni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukususela ekuqaleni ukuba uqonde uhlobo lobume, ubuchule kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngumntwana wakho, kwaye sibonge ngolwazi olufunyenweyo, ukufaka isandla ekuphuhlisweni kweetalente zomntwana. Ngelishwa, sisetyenziselwa ukunyanzelisa umntwana into esiyithandayo, kodwa umntwana usemntwini, nakuba encinci, kodwa ngamakhono akhe, iitalente kunye nezinto azikhethayo. Kwaye ukuba umntwana ubandakanyekile ngokuthe ngqo kwimeko, mhlawumbi, uya kwenza umntu onomdla okhathazayo.
Ngoko, kutheni umntwana ekhetha umbala othile? Njengomthetho, abantwana bathanda imibala eqaqambileyo, kwaye le nto inentsingiselo yayo.
Abantwana abaBomvu banabantwana abanenjongo kunye nabasebenza. Aba ngaba iinkokeli ezizalelwe: umntwana ubeka injongo kunye nokufezekisa. Abantwana abanjalo baselula, banamandla kwaye banenjongo. Umgca weengqekembe kukuba abantwana "abomvu" badla ngokukhawuleza kunye nokunganakali. Nangona kunjalo, aba bantwana baqeqeshwa kalula.
Abantwana abakuhlaza kufuneka bakwazi ukwahlula okufana nombala ohlaza kunye neendidi ezahlukeneyo. Abathandi bombala oluhlaza obuluhlaza bayabulumko, bezolile kunye nabantwana abanethemba, benengcamango ecacileyo kunye nengqondo yokuhlalutya. Kodwa abathandi be-green shades, ngokuchaseneyo, bavame ukuvalela abantwana. Umbala onjalo, njengommiselo, ukhethwa ngabantwana, abaziva bengenakucatshulwa kubazali babo. Amadoda "aluhlaza" ayedinga ukunakwa kunye nokunyamekelwa kwabazali babo. Ezi zidalwa zifuna ukubandakanya ubuchule, ukuxubusha ngakumbi kunye nabantwana kwaye zihlolisise ihlabathi elibangqongileyo.
Abantombazane abantsundu banamahloni, abathandekayo kunye nabantwana abanengqondo. I-Pink ingumbala wobungqingili, umbala weengubo zeepopi kunye nezonyango zabantwana. Ukuba umbala wepinki ukhethwa yinkwenkwe - esi sizathu esibalulekileyo sokucinga, kuba ukhetho olunjalo lithetha ngokuzodwa, ubuthathaka kunye nokungaqiniseki. Nangona kunjalo, abafana banokukhetha loo mbala, kuba idibene neesekese okanye ingaba ngumphumo wokuvakalelwa kwengqondo. Ukuba umntwana ubamba i-pinki kuphela, ngumqondiso wokuba umntwana ufuna ukwandiswa nokunakekelwa kubantu abadala. Uvame ukumbamba kunye nokumanga umntwana wakho, ubonise ingqalelo kuye.
Ephuzi ngumbala wobunkokheli kunye nokuphumelela kwexesha elizayo. Bayiziqili ezinengqiqo enomdla, ngokuqhelekileyo kwiikhokeli ezizayo, abantu abachaphazelekayo, ezopolitiki kunye nabashishini. Abantwana abanjalo banentlalontle kwaye banomdla. Ukongezelela, ukhetho lomntwana oluluhlaza lubonisa indawo enokuthula kunye nobungane kwintsapho.
I-Orange abantwana bazalwa benethemba, banomdla, banomdla, banentsapho enentlalontle eneengcamango ezicebileyo. Kwixesha elizayo abantwana abanjalo banokukhulisa abaculi beetalente kunye nabaculi.
Umntwana ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka ngumntwana ozolileyo, onokuthula onomntu omdala onomdla. Bayabathanda imidlalo elinezolileyo, ezicingayo, ezinokuthandabuza, iintsholongwane. Zizolile yaye zihlale zingenangqondo. La madoda akhutheleyo, esoloko esheshayo, efuna ukuba yedwa.
Umbala we-Violet ukhethwa ngumntwana onengcamango, enomdla kakhulu kwaye enomdla. Aba bantwana banobuciko kakhulu, bahlala befuna ukudweba nokubetha. Kwixesha elizayo, ukusuka kumntwana onjalo unokukhula umculi, indoda yobugcisa.
Umbala omhlophe ukhethwa ngabantwana abaqapheleyo, abavakalelwa, abaneentloni, abafilosofi abancinci.
Umbala oMnxeba unokukhetha umntwana, uhlangabezana noxinzelelo oluthile, umvakalelo. Ukuba umntwana ukhetha umbala obomvu ngokusisigxina, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuphumla kubantu abadala.
Ukufunda umlingiswa womntu ngumbala owuthandayo kuwenziwe ngabaphathi be-psycho-chromotherapists. Ungalandeli isimo sengqondo ngokubanzi kumbono womntwana wakho, ngenxa yokuba abantwana bayanda, umbala wemibala uphinde utshintshe. Kuze kube yiminyaka elishumi, iintsana ezininzi zihlala zibiza umbala obomvu, ophuzi kunye obomvu, ngoko ukhetho luguquka ngokubanzi. Ukukhethwa kwimibala yabantwana kuhlobene ngokusondeza ngesondo. Kwaye akumangalisi, ngenxa yokuba sisuka kubuntwaneni buntoykodevaem ebuntwaneni, iingubo ezibomvu, zifana neenodoli. Amakhwenkwe agqoke imibala engaphantsi, ngaloo ndlela anqumle "umbala wabakhwenkwe".
Abavelisi beemathoyizi basebenzisa i-palette yombala xa bephuhlisa i-toy. Ulwazi malunga nemiphumo yemibala lunokusetyenziswa kwaye lufanele lusetyenziswe ngabazali kwinkqubo yokufunda, ukukhahlela nokukhuthaza umntwana wabo kwiziphumo ezintle kwizifundo, ubuchule kunye nophuhliso.