Ngaphambi kweziphi iindigane ebomini bam ubaba?
Ukuba umntu ophuphayo ubonile uyise, kuthetha ukuba ukuguquka kuye kwavela ebomini. Ixesha lokutshintsha iinjongo nobomi. Mhlawumbi isifo silungiselele utshintsho oluhle. Yilungiselele ukuba kuya kufuneka uhambe kwenye indawo yokuhlala okanye utshintshe uqeqesho lwakho. Kwakhona ezinye iincwadi zokuphupha ziguqulela la maphupha njenge-harbinger yesiganeko esibaluleke kakhulu, umzekelo, umtshato okanye intetho. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba la maphupha anamandla amakhulu kunkcitho ukususela ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibili, ukususela ngoLwesine kuya kuLwesihlanu nakwiSonto ebusuku.
Ngendlela, kukho umlandele ukuba ukuba le ntombazana inomntwana ongowokuzalwa, ngoko kungekudala uza kuba nendodana kunye nomlingane kayise. Amadoda afana nokuphupha kwimeko apho kusondele ukuba kulindeleke ukuba utshintsho lwabasebenzi lungcono.
Kuthekani ukuba ubone uyise oshonile ephupheni?
Oku kunokutolika ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba uyihlo uyaphila ebomini, kwaye ephupheni wambona ebhokisini, oku kubonisa ukuba ugula olunzulu luye lwahlala emzimbeni wesihlobo sakho, esinokubangela ukufa. Ngamanye amaxesha abatoliki bayichaza eli phupha njengokuba ubukho bomntu ongenalwazi-ngqondweni kwisangqa sazana okanye umsebenzi odibeneyo.
Ukuba upapa wafa ngokwenene, kwaye ephupheni wabonakala kuwe ephila, oko kufuneka kuthathwe ngokungathí sina. Zama ukukhumbula, mhlawumbi bakunike imiyalelo okanye into yokuxelela. Oku kungayilumkiso evela kwelinye ihlabathi. Mhlawumbi, ngale ndlela, isihlobo sakho esifileyo sizama ukukufumana endleleni efanelekileyo. Ukuba ngaba uyihlo wayenomsebenzi onzima, ngoko, mhlawumbi, awuhlali ubomi bakho, wenza into engalunganga. Zama ukucinga kwakhona ngesimo sakho, ukuziphatha kwakho kunye neenjongo. Ukuba ukholelwa incwadi yephunga kaFreud - yimbolo yokuba ubonisa isibindi nomonde kwiimeko ezinzima.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukugcina umfikazi ephupheni - ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwiimeko zemozulu. Ilanga elitshisayo lingathatyathwa ngokutyhala imvula, kwaye endaweni yesibhakabhaka sekhephu apho kuya kuza umhla ococekileyo.
Kwenzeka ukuba abantu baphupha ngoyise wabo wesibini. Esi sibonakaliso esiqinisekileyo sokuba ufuna ukunakekelwa kwabazali nothando. Uzibona ungenasidingo kunoma ubani, oko kukuchaphazela ubomi bakho. Kwakhona, ukuphupha iincwadi zibonisa ukuba emva kweenyanga ezintathu ukususela kumzuzu weli phupha umcimbi obalulekileyo ohambelana nosapho lwakho uya kwenzeka. Oku kunokuqhawula umtshato, kunye nokuxolelana, akunakho nokuba nokuzaliswa okucwangcisiweyo.
Njengoko ubona, oko uphuphayo uyise akuphathwa ngokuhlukileyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ngumfanekiso wopapa, iintetho zakhe kunye nemeko. Ukuvuya ngakumbi ngeli phupha, okuya kuba yinto echazayo. Zama ukucinga malunga nabathandekayo bakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, batyelele kwaye ubenze bavuyiswe. Yaye khumbula - indlela yethu yokucinga ayixhomeki kuphela kumaphupha, kodwa nakwixesha elizayo.