Abantu bonke bayazixolisa baze bazinyamekele ngenxa yentlupheko, becinga ukuba isityebi "asiyikufa." Omnye ukhalela ukuba wazalwa ngumfazi, omnye ukhononda malunga nomntu opheleleyo, umntu ukhononda ngokukhula, umbala wesikhumba, ubuzwe. Zibuhlungu kunye nomsebenzi ophantsi ohlawulelwayo kunye nobukho obunzima obubonelelwe.
Isixa semali sinquma impumelelo. Kaninzi oku kubakho ukuzimisela kubomi bethu. Ndiyindoda ehlwempu, kodwa ukuba ndibe nemali eninzi, ndiya kuvuya. " Kodwa le yiphutha eliqinileyo. Impumelelo ebomini ayinqunyelwanga kwiiyunithi zemali, kodwa ngovuyo, okuyiyo, okanye ayikho. Kwaye umntu ohlwempuzekileyo unesiqiniseko sokuba nemali ethile ebhanki kuya kumnceda. Kule meko, nangona unayo imali ethile, umntu ohluphekileyo akayi kuba nobutyebi. Kubalulekile ukususa uphawu lokulingana phakathi kwengcamango yobutyebi kunye nemali yemali kwi-akhawunti. Ubutyebi bokwenene bubunakho ukwenza imali, ukutsala, ukukwazi ukulungiselela iintlobo ezintsha zoshishino.
Esinye isici sabantu abahluphekileyo ngumnqweno wokufumana ngokukhawuleza kunye nayo yonke into, kwaye, mhlawumbi, ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Abantu abanjalo abayiqondi indlela ebonakalayo - ukuba uhleli kwiinkampani ezinamandla kwaye unemivuzo emyingenelo, ngoko kwiminyaka embalwa uza kuba nokuningi xa uzama ukufezekisa impumelelo, kunokuba uxoxwe malunga nokuba uzakufumana phi inyanga. Abantu abahluphekileyo abaziqondi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukutyalomali kwixesha elizayo. Yaye ungakhohlwa ukuba kukho umda omkhulu ekuchithweni kwemali-ukuthatha i-credit-disaster ukuze uthenge imoto engaphandle yexabiso eliqhelekileyo okanye umboleko osebenzayo uphuhliso loshishino.
Ngokuqhelekileyo asikho into evelisa ingqiqo, kodwa oko kuyimfuneko. Omnye akanako ukuma iingxelo zekota-kodwa akukho namnye awamasekela akhe angayenza. Omnye umfazi uyakuzonda ukucoca, kodwa akukho mntu ufuna ukumnceda. Okwesithathu kubangela ukuvakalelwa komsebenzi wabo - kodwa ke kuphela banokuhlawula imali mboleko ukuthenga imoto. Isidingo sokwenza "izinto ezingathandekiyo" kubangela ukuba bonke aba bantu bakulungele ukungazi kakuhle. Kanti ke, okwaneleyo ukufumana amacandelo achukumisayo kwinto esenzayo, kwaye umsebenzi ongathandekiyo uya kuba mnandi kwaye unelisekile. Kungenxa yokuba kuleso sizathu sinokufezekisa into ethile.
Ukulondolozwa kuhle kuphela kwimida efanelekileyo, xa ingaguquki. Wonke umntu uyazi le nto: "Uhlawula ngokugqithiseleyo kabini." Kungcono ukuhlawula iindleko zangempela into enhle, endaweni yokuthenga into encinci - yinto kanye isityebi. Ewe, ukuthenga into ekuphusheni okanye ekuthengiseni kunenzuzo kakhulu, kodwa ungenzi inkolo kuyo, ube ngumntu onomdla.
Ukuze kungabi yintsizana ehlwempu, ngokwaneleyo ukulandela imigaqo elandelayo. Okokuqala, ungazami ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu. Yaye makhe umhlobo wakho abe nabalandeli abangaphezu kwakho, kwaye ngokungafani nabahlobo bakho, usebenza kwiholide zasehlobo, khumbula - ulunge. Kwaye okwesibini - akakho, phantsi kweyiphi na imeko akahambanga nentsapho yakho. Emva koko, abantu abaneentloni ngeentsapho zabo bahlala bezityebi. Emva koko, yintsapho eyona mthombo wenkxaso yangaphakathi engcono ngamaxesha onke.
Ngoko musa ukucwina ukuba uhlwempuzekile, ungonwabi. Vumela ujikelezo, ulwaphulo-mthetho, urhwaphilizo kunye nokucalucaluleka - awuyiyo inkunkuma kwaye awuyi kuzinyamezela. Kwaye uza kuhlala ufumana indlela yokudala ukulungisa isiphi na imeko esingenakunceda kuwe kwaye uya kuphuma kuyo njengowinqobe !!!