Ukulinganisela emsebenzini kunye nobomi bomntu, kubalulekile ukuqonda imida phakathi komsebenzi kunye nosapho. Kule meko kuphela uya kukwazi ukuzincama ukwenza okuthandayo kwaye ujabule ebomini bakho. Nazi ezinye izicwangciso eziza kukunceda kungekho kuphela, kodwa kubomi bokusebenza.
Ngomsebenzi .
- Ukwazi ukuqokelela ukunqoba okuncinci ebomini. Zonke i-"pluses" ezincinane, kungekudala okanye kamva, ziya kuba zikhulu. Kwaye oku kufuneka kuhlale kuthathwa ingqalelo, kwaye ke awuyi kubona ukuba ufike njani kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zomsebenzi;
- ungaze uhlale unomdla, uhlale unomdla kwinto entsha, uqhubeke phambili, uceba, uphumelele kwaye uphumelele impumelelo;
- soloko ukhangele amathuba okufihlakeleyo. Zama ukuziphucula kwishishini apho usebenza khona, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba unethuba lobomi - sebenzisa zonke izakhono zakho kunye nolwazi olutholileyo. Uya kuphawula ngokukhawuleza ukuba ixabiso lakho likhuphuka kakhulu;
- ungayikhohlwa malunga nobuchule bakho bokudala, uhlale ubonisa;
- emsebenzini, cinga nje ngomsebenzi, kwaye uzame ukusombulula yonke into ngexesha layo lokuphumla;
- Funda indlela yokudweba emsebenzini wakho umrhumo wokuvuya kunye nethemba kwaye oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uphile ngobomi "ngoxolo." Khumbula ukuba ukuzonwabisa kwanoma yimuphi umsebenzi ngumlinganiselo wokuphelela ongekho wonke umntu onokuziqhayisa ngawo. Ngoko zama ukuthanda into oyenzayo.
Ngempumelelo .
- ungaqiniseki ukuba awuyi kuphumelela. Nikholelwa ngamandla akho kunye namandla. Phonsa entloko yakho yonke ingcamango ehambelana nento yokuba "ulahlekile", ukuba akukho nto iya kuvela kuyo kwaye akufanele ulwa. Kholelwa nje kwimpumelelo, kwaye oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ube ngumsebenzi kwaye ujabule;
- bobabini emsebenzini nasemakhaya, kuba ngumdlali onomdla wobuvila. Ewe, ukuhambelana nembono ephumla kuphela ngexesha lokulala ayilungelanga. Fumana ibhalansi epheleleyo phakathi komsebenzi kunye nexesha lakho lokuzikhethela, ozinikezelayo kwintsapho.
Malunga nabantu abakujikelezile .
- Ungaze ubekezele ukuxabana kunye nabo osebenza nabo kumalungu entsapho okanye ngokufanayo;
- soloko uzama ukuba ngumntu onobungane kunye onyanisekileyo nabo bonke abanye abantu;
- kholelwa kumathuba abantu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukunceda uzibonakalise kwaye uzibonakalise.
Malunga neengxabano .
- Funda ukulahla iimbambano, xa kukho ithuba kwaye akulimazi ukusebenza, kungekhona intsapho. Ukuba awuhlali ujabule ngento ethile, ngoko ngoxolo nobumnene, yithetha njalo. Musa ukuqhuba ingxaki ekujuleni, kuba, kungekudala okanye kamva, zonke izikhalazo eziqokelelweyo ziya kuphuma kwaye aziyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into enhle. Esi simo sengxaki kwiingxaki kunye neemeko ezichaseneyo ziya kukunceda ufumane uxolo ebomini bakho.
Ngothando .
- zama ukuphazamisa izinto ezininzi ezenzeka kuwe ngothando. Ungaphila wena, kodwa kwintsapho, kungenjalo ayithandeki kwaye ihlwempu. Yenza uvuyo kunye novuyo ebomini balabo abathandayo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqonda ukuba awuhlali ngeze. Mane ufunde ukuthanda nokuthandwa.
Malunga nosapho .
- udibanise ubuhlobo bakho nomyeni wakho ngemibala eqaqambileyo kunye neetestyle. Emva kwakho konke, yinkxaso yakhe eya kukunceda, okokuqala, ukufumana le nto ibhalansi kunye nokuvisisana kuzo zonke izenzo kunye nezenzo;
- kholelwa kwiimpawu kunye namandla oonyana bakho kwaye ungawafihla ngokunyamekela. Banike intando yesenzo, kungekhona ukumisela iingcamango zabo neembono zobomi. Kholelwa nje ngamandla abo, ukukwazi ukunqoba iingxaki kunye nobuchule. Siyabulela oku, abantwana bakho baya kuba bazimeleyo kwaye baya kuba nako ukwakha indlela yabo yobomi ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Kulo lonke .
- Zama ukuzibeka ngokucacileyo ixesha lokuphumla. Khumbula ukuba iholide enhle yiholide eninzi. Emva kokubuyiselwa kwemikhosi kunye nentsebenziswano eyintandokazi ukuqala ukuzingela. Ngendlela, ikhefu elinjalo lingaba luhambo lwentsapho ukuya kwendalo okanye ukuloba;
- Ngethuba leeholide, ungalibali ukuhamba nohambo lwakho kunye namalungu entsapho okanye ukufihla kwinqanaba lomzi kwindlu yelizwe. Khumbula ukuba ngexesha lokuphumla kufuneka ukhulume kwaye ucinge ngomsebenzi. Emva koko, yonke into inexesha layo. Ngaphandle koko, ezi ngxoxo kunye neengcamango zingaphazamisa ngokupheleleyo umyinge wobomi bakho ngeli xesha.
Ebonakalayo .
- soloko unamathela kwiingubo zesitayela esithile. Ngendlela, funda ukugqoka yonke imihla efanelekileyo kunye nentanda. Kwaye ngoko uya kuqonda ukuba indlela yakho yokuvusa ivukile kwaye yahlala ephawuntini "eyona nto intle." Ungaze unakekele oko ungayigqoka namhlanje. Emva koko, banokuthi bangayiqondiyo ngomso.
Malunga nendlu .
- Yithanda ikhaya lakho, kwaye "liya kukuphendula" ngenduduzo kunye noxakeka, okumele uyithande. Ngoko ke, kwintlalontle yekhaya lakho, ungaze uzame ukugcina imali. Landela izinto ezintsha zakutshanje kwi-design yangaphakathi, kwaye uzakujika ikhaya lakho kwikhaya elihle kakhulu, apho uza kukhawuleza emva komsebenzi ngokuzonwabisa okupheleleyo.
Nantsi ke, imigaqo eyisiseko, elandelayo apho ungayifumana ibhalansi yezabasebenzi kwaye uchaze umgca ocacileyo phakathi kobomi bakho. Ngenxa yokuba ngaphandle kwayo, awuyi kuze ukwazi ukulinganisela ubomi bakho kwaye wenze kube yimpumelelo kuzo zonke izikhokelo. Khumbula ukuba ukuvumelanisa nokuqonda kuphela ngabanye kunye nawe ngokwakho, banako ukwenza imimangaliso emikhulu kunye nokufezekisa izenzo ezingenakuze zibekezele. Sifisa ukuba ufumane ibhalansi yakho kunye nokulinganisela ebomini. Inhlanhla!