Ukutsalana kungahluka. Umyeni utshintshile ngomfazi ongaphandle okanye uThixo akavumelani, nomhlobo, umhlobo uxelele zonke iimfihlakalo zakho kubantu abangaziwayo, othandekayo uphumelele. Intsapho yakho ayizange ibonise imfesane kwaye ayizange incede xa uqala ukufumana iingxaki. Njengoko uyakubona, uluhlu lunokuqhubeka ngonaphakade kwaye alukho uluhlu kuphela lokungcatsha, kodwa luhlu lweemiphumo ezikulindele kwixesha elizayo. Olu luhlu lungabandakanya: ukunciphisa ukuzithemba, ukupheliswa kobudlelwane, ukulahleka kokholo kwiintsebenziswano ngokubanzi, ukusola okugqithisileyo, iingcamango ezimbi, ukukhathazeka nokudandatheka. Kodwa kukho iindlela ezininzi onokujamelana nazo iingcamango ezingekhoyo kwaye uxinzelelo olunokwenzeka xa uthengiswa.
- Cinga. Thatha ixesha lokuqonda konke okwenzekile kwaye uzama ukuqonda ukuba kulungile ukugcina ubudlelwane obudala obude bunike ikhefu kwaye akukuvuyisi. Zama ukufunda zonke iinkcukacha ukwenzela ukufumana izigqibo malunga nokuba kukukho ukuthini ukuba uthengise kwaye kutheni ufanelekile. Xa zonke iingcinga entloko yakho ubeka phezu kweeshefulo, uya kuba lula ukuthatha isinyathelo esilandelayo. Ukongeza, ukuqokelela nokudibanisa zonke iinkcukacha kuya kuzincama, ngoko unokucinga ngokucacileyo.
- Khangela imeko elula. Unokuthukuthela kumntu ongalithengelayo njengoko ufuna, kodwa apha ukucima intukuthelo ngokwakho-oku kucacile. Ukuba ufuna ukuqala ukuthatha imishanguzo eya kukunceda ukulibala kwaye usinde inhlekelele okanye ubandezeleke kwaye ubulawe iiveki, awuyi kulimaza umntu ngaphandle kwakho.
- Myeke. Indlela yokufumana inzuzo kwisizathu: yenza kuphela oko kukukwenza uzive ungcono. Bhala, uhambe ixesha elide ujikeleze isixeko, ungene kwimoto uze endaweni ethile ngaphandle kwenjongo ethile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba konke okungaqhelekanga kubonakala ngathi, ukuba kwenza kube lula kuwe, yenza njalo.
- Yiba nesibindi. Le nto ibuhlungu gqitha kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kunzima ukuyithwala. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuqonda ukuba uthengisiwe, ngelishwa, kuya kufuneka kwenziwe. Ukutsalana kukuyinxalenye yobomi bethu. Ukuba wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo uze ufikelele kwizigqibo ezifanelekileyo, oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ngakumbi abahlobo bakho, osebenza nabo kunye nabo osebenza nabo kwikamva.
- Isidima. Phinda uvavanyo kunye nentloko yakho ephakamileyo. Ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuthi ulungile, musa ukuzithethelela nabani na. Kungcono ukwenza abantu bayeke ukungabaza igama lakho elithembekileyo.
- Ndiyaxolisa. Yintoni edlulileyo, awukwazi ukubuyela, kunye nentukuthelo kunye nentukuthelo eqokelelwe ngaphakathi, iya kubangela ngaphezulu nangakumbi imihla ngemihla. Ngoko ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani kuwe, xolela. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuxolelwa yisona sixhobo esibi kakhulu kwiintshaba zakho kunye nabangathandi.
- Beka iinjongo phambi kwakho. Hlanganisa ngamandla kwaye uzama ukuthatha amava amaninzi kunokwenzeka kwiimeko. Oku kuya kukomeleza ngokwengqondo nangokomoya. Cinga kwakhona iimpawu zakho kwaye uzibuze izitsha ezintsha.
- Fumana ugqozi. Jonga i-movie oyikhonzile kunye nabalingisi bakho abathandayo, okubangela ukuba ube nemvakalelo emihle kakhulu. Mamela umculo oya kukuvuyisa, funda iincwadi ezincedo. Khangela into eya kukunika amandla kwaye ikuqhube phambili ngaphandle kokubuya.
- Zithembele kuwe. Ukuba emva kokungcatshulwa kwakho ukuzithemba kakhulu, thola indlela yokubuyisela yonke into endaweni, kwaye mhlawumbi uphinde uphucule isikhundla sakho. Unokufumana iimpawu ezintsha ongazi. Ukuxinezeleka, kumangaliswa, akukho mpawu ezimbi kuphela.
- Cinga ngolu hlobo. Cinga ngenyameko ngekamva lakho, malunga nobudala kunye nobuhlobo obutsha. Ngaba ufuna ukunika umzamo wesibini kubantu okanye kwiimbasa ezidlulileyo, uthathe ukuphumla okufutshane okanye ubeke yonke into?
- Khangela ukwesaba kwakho ebusweni. Yenza izenzo ezinobungozi, qalisa ulwalamano olutsha, nantoni na ukuba uhlaselwa yintlonelo yobudlelwane obudlulileyo. Kukho enye indlela-ukuxelela, malunga noko ukwesaba ngabahlobo, izalamane okanye abaqhelana nabo.
- Ukusebenzisana. Ngelo xesha ufumana ukungathengi kunye neempembelelo ezintle ziye zabamba ingqondo yakho, zama ukungabi wedwa nawe. Ncokola ngakumbi, thetha nabo abanokuzithemba, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuwe.
- Efanelekileyo. Yenza yonke imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla ngokuzithemba, ube nomoya omhle. Zisoloko uzikhumbuza ukuba unethemba lokuphila, ukuba ungazilibala ngokukhawuleza.
- Musa ukuziphindezela. Impindezelo ayiyona nto ingcono. Ngokuqinisekileyo akuyi kuba nako ixesha kunye namandla akho. Isigqibo esisamkelekileyo esifanelekileyo sokuthi umoni lowo akafanelekanga ukuphindisela kwakho kukubonakalisa ukukhula kwakho, kwaye ungabi noloyiko, njengoko ungacinga.
- Uphuhliso lomntu. Gxininisa ekuzikhuleni kwakho. Yiba nenxaxheba kwimfundo, kwimidlalo okanye kwimisebenzi.
- Musa ukuzilimaza. Ukuba unesimo sengqondo emini imihla ngemihla, qala ukusebenzisa iziyobisi okanye utywala, ushiye umsebenzi wakho, uyeke ukuzinyamekela, uya kuzilimaza ngokwakho, kungekhona umoni wakho. Wena-into ebaluleke kunayo yonke, ungavumeli nabani na ukuba basuse kuwe.
- Musa ukuzibulela. Funda ukujongana kakuhle nokubonakaliswa kokungakhuselekanga. Khumbula ukuba ungubani kunye nento omele uyenze. Misa sele uziva uxolo. Ngoko awuyi kuzuza nantoni na. Ewe, awuzange wenze okusemgangathweni, kodwa kufuneka ube namandla kwaye ufumane amandla okuqhubela phambili. Ukuzihawukela yintliziyo ewonakalisayo echaphazela impilo yakho.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo kubhekisela kwi-intuition. Kufanele kukukhokele ebomini kwaye uncede xa ukhetha abahlobo.
- Buyela othandweni kwakhona. Ewe, emva kokungcatshwa kunzima ukuqala ulwalamano olutsha, kodwa khumbula ukuba akusiwo wonke umntu ofana nesoka lakho.
- Cinga ngekamva lakho, apho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nakho konke okulungileyo.
- Yeka ukukhathazeka. Gxininisa izinto zangempela. Musa ukuvumela iingcamango ezimbi ukuba zithathe.
- Yiba nomonde. Ukuhlawula akuyi kukushiya yedwa ixesha elide ukuba awuhambisani neengcebiso kule nqaku. Ngoko ke, nya mezela, ungaphumi umsindo wakho kwabanye.
- Cela uncedo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba unokukwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo ngokwakho, uye kwi-aphoyintimenti kunye nengcali yengqondo.
