Ukususela ekudalweni kwehlabathi, abantu bayaphikisana malunga nokuba isini kubaluleke kakhulu: indoda okanye ibhinqa. Ukususela kumzuzu ofanayo, kukho umzabalazo ongabonakaliyo phakathi komfazi kunye nendoda kwindawo enkulu yenkokheli kulwalamano.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, umahluko phakathi komfazi kunye nendoda iyaqondakala. Ibhinqa kwixesha elidlulileyo libhekwa njengomgcini wendlu yokulala kunye nonina, indoda - umcebisi kunye nomkhuseli. Namhlanje ezi ngcamango zitshintshile. Nangona kunjalo, umahluko ophezulu phakathi kwesini esenzeka kwintsibano yesini.
Malunga namadoda
Ayikho imfihlo yokuba amadoda athande amehlo kwaye atyathwa ngumfanekiso obonakalayo, kwaye umfazi, ngokuchaseneyo, akanandaba nomfanekiso obonakalayo, kodwa ubeka ingqalelo kumnandi wesilisa wakhe. Xa ulala ngesondo, indoda yenza njengobundlobongela, kwaye umfazi uzimisele ngokungeniswa kwakhe. Ngoko ke, kumntu ukuba afinyelele kwindawo ephakamileyo yokuzonwabisa, isenzo ngokwawo sanele, kuba sivuyiswe kulunye uhlobo lomzimba wesetyhini. Ininzi yamadoda ifumana i-orgasm ekuqhagamshelaneni kokuqala ngokwesondo, xa ilahlekelwa ubuntombi bayo. Kunzima kowesifazane ukuba aphumelele i-orgasm, ngenxa yoko ufuna amava, ukuba azi kakuhle umzimba wakhe kunye nemimandla yakhe engafanelekanga, ukuba afunde indlela yokuzikhupha ngokomoya aze akhulule umboniso wakhe ngezinto eziye zafundiswa kuthi ukususela ebuntwaneni.
Malunga nabasetyhini
Xa kuthelekiswa nendoda, i-orgasm yowesifazane inamandla amaninzi kwaye ihlala ixesha elide, njengoko amandla kunye nomgangatho we-orgasm yowesifazane ibangelwa yimpembelelo. Ukuba ibhinqa ayithembekanga kwindoda, ebusweni bayo ivakalelwa yintliziyo engathandekiyo, isaba ukuba iqabane lingayiphosa okanye likhubekise, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukufumana i-orgasm kunye nomntu othandekayo.
Njengoko iziphumo zophando zibonisa, inani elincinci labasetyhini likhalaza ngokungabikho kokufudumala nokuthandana kubalingane babo. Kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, izikhalazo zolu hlobo ukusuka kubantu ziza kathathu ngaphantsi.
Ubomi bentlobano yesini yowesifazane naye uphelelwe ngamandla ngentshukumo yakhe yokuya esikhathini. Imvakalelo yabasetyhini ixhomekeke ngqo kwimvelaphi ye-hormone yowesifazane, isizathu sokuba ngamanye amaxesha ubonakala enomsindo. Ukongezelela, umnqweno wesondo unyuka okanye uyancipha ngokuxhomekeke kwimihla yokuhamba kwimihla, inqaku eliphakamileyo lifikelela ngexesha lokunyuka kwexesha-ixesha lokunyanzelisa.
Kwakhona, inani elikhulu lamadoda linesimo sengqondo esingalunganga malunga nokuhlambalaza umfazi kunye nokubonakaliswa kwesicwangciso sakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo bajonga ukubonakaliswa kweli nyathelo njengophawu lokungcola. Ukongezelela, kukho imeko eziqhelekileyo apho indoda ithatyathwa ngoloyiko lokwenyuka kwayo kwaye iqala ukuziqhathanisa kunye nabalingani bangaphambili kwiimeko ezithile. Ngelishwa, uphando lubonisile ukuba malunga nama-60% wamadoda abalisa abafazi ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwabo ngokwesondo, kwaye ukucoca kwamabhinqa kunye nokubandisa kubonakala ngathi zizathu zezi, kunye neqhinga eliqinileyo.
Ukuhlaziya i-indastri yowesifazane yindlela enye yokufunda nokuqonda umzimba wakho, kwaye ufezekise ngokuvisisana ngesondo. Amadoda amaninzi asabela kumabhinqa amabhinqa ngokukhethekileyo, kuba bakholelwa ukuba kule ngxaki awaneliseli iqabane. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabadlali be-sexopathologists bafana ngoluvo lokuba i-female masturbation iyona nyathelo lokuqala lokunyanga kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-frigidity.
Ukufezekisa ukuvumelana ngokupheleleyo
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulwahlulo lwengqondo kunye nolwasemzimbeni phakathi kwowesifazane kunye nendoda akusiyithintelo ekufezeni ukuvisisana nolwalamano, kufuneka umntu azame ukuqonda iqabane lakhe kunye nengqondo yakhe. Ukuba nolwazi lwemigaqo ephambili yokuziphatha komlingane wakho, uya kubona okanye uza kuba nokulindela ukuphendula kunye nezenzo ezinokukunceda ukuba ungenzi iimpazamo kwintsebenziswano.