Kunye noogxa
Ukuba uzama ukucaphukisa, ukuhlazisa okanye ukuphosa, into ebalulekileyo kukuba ungesabi ukulwa. Akufanele ube nokwesaba ukuba kuya kuba ne-mpikiswano, into ephambili ayiyikuphosa umzuzu, ngaphandle koko ungalahlekelwa yintlonelo, kunye nokuzithemba kwaye ube yinto nje yokuba "idlwengula". Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinokusetyenziswa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Iqonga le-Absurd
Ukuba wakho umlingane uthatha isigqibo sokukukhuphaza ngesigqibo esisisithakazelo okanye ukukhathazeka, awuzange ummangele ngomsinga wokuxhaphaza nokugxeka, kodwa ngokusabela ngokungekho nto. Musa ukuhlambalaza, kodwa ubeke kwisimo esingenakukhuseleka. Ngenxa yale njongo, izivakalisi eziziwayo, iziprofeto okanye amazwi ashintshiwe zifanelekile.
Ulungile
Esikhundleni sokuchazela nokukhusela, uyavumelana "nomhlaseli", kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ukunyanisekisa ingcikivo yakhe. Ngaloo ndlela, uphepha ingxabano evulekile, kwaye abanye bacinga ukuba uyakwazi ukuzihleka, oko kuya kuthi, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kufaka amaphuzu kuwe. Umzekelo: "Tanya, yiyiphi imimoya yakho ekhohlakeleyo!". "Uqinisile, babuthabisa iintambo zase-Iceland!"
Kindergarten
Ukuba awufuni ukuphendula kwiintlanzi zabanye, bacinge njengabantwana abancinci. Abantwana bafunga, bakhala, bakhala, balwe, bazibize ngamagama. Umntu osisilumko esilumkileyo ulindele ukuba bahlale bezolile. Awusabele kumagama kunye nokuhlaselwa, uhlekisayo ukuwajonga njengomntu omdala ozilumko.
Hamba ngomso
Ukuba awukwazi ngoku kwaye awuyi kuhlaziywa, yenza isigqibo sokuba uya kucinga ngalo ngomso. Awukwazi ukuhlala ugcina impendulo efanelekileyo ekulungiseleleni.
Iindlebe zeendlebe kwiindlebe
Uzenza ngathi awuyiva ukuhlambalaza okanye ubukhali bomdlali wakho ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uguqule inxalenye yendima kwindlela oyifunayo. Kuhle kakhulu kwiimeko apho kukho abaphulaphuli abasondeleyo.
Kunye nomphathi
Ngamanye amaxesha u-boss akayikuzilawula, ukukuhlambalaza okanye ukuhlazisa isidima sakho. Ungashiyi ngaphandle kokuqwalasela.
Ukulinda
Lindela de ukuba umphathi aphelise ukukukhahla. Awudingi ukuphazamisa okanye ukulungelelanisa. Kwinkqubo ye-tirade, kunokuvela ukuba wanikezela omnye umsebenzi, kodwa ngoku ufuna isigqibo malunga nomcimbi ohluke ngokupheleleyo, okanye ngokungaqondi kakuhle izenzo zakho malunga neprojekthi. Xa ekugqibeleni, unokuvavanya ngokucacileyo amabango akhe kwaye uphephe.
Ukungavumi
Ukuba umphathi uhlambalaza, kwaye akayi kuxoxisana nomsebenzi, kufuneka uphazamise kwaye uthi: "Uxolo, andinakukuthetha nawe kule toni. Xa uxolo, ndiya kuza. " Uya kuba nexesha lokucinga ngezenzo zakhe, kwaye awuyi kuvumela ukuba uhlaziswe.
Gcina u mgangatho wangaphakathi
Xa uhlambalaza, uchithwa okanye utyumbile, kukuthabatha. Ngoko ke, awukwazi ukuhamba. Xa kwenzeka imeko engathandekiyo, qinisa ngaphakathi kwesikrini sakho sokukhusela. Kuya kukuvumela ukuba ugcine umgama, kodwa ngelo xesha uhlale ukhululekile nakwiindawo ezifudumeleyo.
Jonga ukuhamba
Ukungaqiniseki kwethu kutyhilwa ngumzimba wethu. Ukuzithemba okuqinisekileyo kuya kukunika amandla okuphelisa. Yima phaya, usasaze umthwalo kwimilenze yakho, omnye akufanele ahlale ecaleni kwelinye. Musa ukutshintsha rhoqo i-pose: uza kufumana ingcamango yokuba uhlazekile.
Kwisijikelezo sabangani
Abantu abasondeleyo, nabo, kwenzeka ukuba badlulele intonga. Ngoko, ihlaya linokulimaza ubunzulu bomphefumlo, kunye neepods zihlala ziphazamise kwaye zihlazise. Kodwa nangenxa yezi ziko kukho izisombululo ezintle.
"Ndiyavuma"
Ukuba abahlobo bakho bahlala beklolokra malunga nento efanayo okanye isenzo sakho, vumelani. Benza oku ukuze bafezekise ukunyanzeliswa kwakho, kodwa xa beyeka ukufumana, amahlaya aya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba umntu akayiqondi ukuba le yintloni ekhohlakeleyo, kufuneka nje umxelele ngalo. Mhlawumbi wayedla ngaphandle kokucinga, kwaye ngaloo mzuzu wayedakisa, kwaye wena-uphoswe. Into ephambili ayinqikazi ukuyivuma, kuba le mpawu ye-joker inokuphinda iphindwe kaninzi, ukuba ayiyi kuchazi intsingiselo yimeko. Awuyi kuba yinto ephosakeleyo, kodwa gcina uxolo lwakho lwengqondo, ukuzola kunye nokukhusela ukuvela kwala mahlaya okuhlaziya isithunzi sakho.