Impembelelo enkulu kakhulu ebomini bethu iyintandokazi yamaphulo. Umntwana ucela ukuba uxelele okanye uyifunde kwakhona. Emva koko uyakhula, ayikhohlwe iindaba, kodwa izicwangciso zakhe, imizekelo, izikripthi ziyaqhubeka zichaphazela ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Iimpawu zamabali ethu
Iingxelo zefestile, njengommiselo, umveliso wobugcisa bendoda. Kwaye ukuba bahlala kwipeni lomlobi odumileyo, bayathandwa kwaye bayathandwa, ukuba isalathiso nokuziphatha kwabalinganiswa basondele kwaye baqondakala kuninzi. Iingoma kunye neengcamango zibonisa iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezivela kwikhulu leminyaka ukuya kwixesha leentshukumo zabantu okanye amaphupha abo (kungekhona into, umzekelo, iifilimu malunga neCinderella yohlobo "Ubuhle" kunye noJulia Roberta baba yi-blockbusters). Ngako oko, kwiingxelo zamazwe ahlukeneyo zizo zombini zifana, izifundo zabantu bonke, kunye nokungafani okuhambelana nokuzikhethela kwengqondo yengingqi.
Ziziphi iimbali eziqhelekileyo zeengoma zamaRashiya? Okokuqala, umlingisi obalaseleyo akenzi nto nto - ngokususa kwakhe udla izinto ezininzi zemilingo, zonke iintlobo zezilwanyana kunye nezidalwa ezikulungele ukumnceda. Okwesibini, iqhawe liyi-Ivanushka ekhangeleka ngokugqithisileyo isilumko, ekuboneni kuqala ilula kwaye ivila. Kodwa ekugqibeleni ufumene ikosikazi kunye nesiqingatha sobukumkani ngaphezu koko, eshiya kude emva kwabakhohlisayo abanobuhle.
La mabali amnandi aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa kwiintengiso. Khangela ukuba bangaphi abalinganiswa bemilingo abaza kunceda umntu onokuba ngumnini-mveliso-banike iingcebiso eziwusizo, aziphathe kumazwe amangalisayo, kwaye uMnu uhlambulule yonke indawo. Abakhangisi abazami ngeze - emva koko, sifunde ingoma encinane malunga nendlela "umlingo uza kuphaphazela ngokukhawuleza kwi-helicopter eluhlaza", kwaye ubomi buya kuba yinto ngaphandle komgudu omkhulu.
Ewe, ngubani ongayazi namhlanje u-Ivanushki? Ukuhlutha "phantsi kwesidenge" kunenzuzo kakhulu kuthi. Abantu abanentlonelo baya kuhlala bezisola, bancedise, baxhamle: osebenza kunye no-Ivan umsebenzi uya kwenza, u-boss uzonika kwaye izinto ezimbi ziyakusindisa. Emva koko ukhangelekile: isidenge sethu sesele isekela-sikhulu, kwaye sele sele "isiqingatha sobukumkani" kuye.
Iimbopheleleko zabanye abalinganiswa bee-fairy aziqhelekanga. Unako ukuva amabali malunga neenkokheli ezithintele "ukuthatha" isihloko sikaKoshchei the Immortal. Amanye amabhinqa abiza ngokusemthethweni uninazala uBaba Yaga. Phantse kukho nayiphi na iqoqo kukho uSage owaziyo ukuhlala ngokuchanekileyo - unengcebiso nakweliphi na ithuba. Okanye uSisyphus ungumntu ophelela ukugqibelela ophandle ilitye kwiintaba ezingenakufumaneka ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ewe, oomama abathandana nabo bajika kwiCinderella, kunye nabasetyhini abanobukhwele, bezama ukunyusa i-apple enobuthi ngamanye amaxesha, sele beyingxenye yobomi bethu.
Yenze ibali lenzeke ...
Nangona kunjalo, iziganeko ezithile zeengxaki zenkcubeko zifezekiswa ebomini ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela kwizesondo ezifanelekileyo. Ngezinye izihlandlo ezifanayo zigqithiselwa kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana: ke bonke abafazi bentsapho batshata utywala, ngoko bonke abayeni bayashiya, ngoko baba ngabazali abangatshatanga. Kutheni iimeko zeengxaki zefestile zichaphazela abafazi? Abafana, ngokuqinisekileyo, bafana neenganekwane. Kodwa ngaphandle kwale nto banakho umqambi, i-laser pistol, kunye nebhola. Yaye le midlalo yeentombazana kunye neengubo ziyamlungiselela ukuzaliseka kwephupha elixabisekileyo - ekugqibeleni ukuba yindoda yokumkani (ubuncinane, umzekelo, emtshatweni). Kwaye uBarbie oqaqambileyo, kunye neengubo ezimnandi zixhasa i-fairytale enxulumeneyo.
Nazi ezinye iimeko ezithandwayo zeziganeko zobomi ukuba ubomi bukhulile kunye:
Ukulala Ubuhle
U-Natalia uneminyaka engama-30 ubudala, ukhangeleka kakhulu kwaye uyaziqhenya kakhulu ngale nto. Usebenza kwinkampani yemoto ejikelezwe ngabantu, kodwa kusekho yedwa. Abaninzi bazama ukumnyamekela, kodwa uNataliya uyaphuma kakhulu, uyaqiniseka kwangaphambili: "Lo akuyena mna ndiyidingayo, umphefumlo wam awunamanga - andithandi." Kodwa mhlawumbi kufuneka simnike loo mntu ithuba lokuzibonakalisa ngandlela-thile, ngokukodwa ekubeni wamemela kwivenkile yokutyela kaninzi, kwi-theater, kwi-cinema? U-Natalia uyabubula: "Ndiye ndacinga-mhlawumbi simele sivume kanye. Kodwa lo mntu akabizi kwakhona ... "Ngokutsho kwesicatshulwa sikaNataliya, iNkosana akufuneki ukuyifumana kuphela. Ubuhle, kwinqaba, kodwa kwakhona ukuba aphule kuye ngevava kunye neengqungquthela, esenzile izinto ezimbalwa. Kwaye-ke ukuvusa intombazana ngokumanga. U-Natalia akayithandi nayiphi na enye indlela. Kodwa ubuhle kwimbali yamanqaku-ekwazi ukulala ngokuthula! Yena kunye neminyaka eyikhulu uya kuba seshumi elinesibhozo. Kodwa ngobomi bokwenene, ngelixa iNkosana ikufumanisa, inqoba izithintelo kwaye ivuke ngokubanga, sekuyisikhathi sokuthenga ukhilimu onxamnye nemibhikane.
I-Red Red Riding Hood
U-Alina ngumfazi oselula kunye nobuso bengelosi. Kodwa ku-25 wakhe wakwazi ukufumana impindiselo ngendlela yendawo yokuhlala kunye nemoto evela kumthandi otshatileyo aze awele ezandleni zeqabane lakhe elizayo, owaba ngumsindisi wakhe emva kwencwadana engaphumeleli. Ngoku u-Alina unomdla kunye nomphathi kunye nokukhuthazwa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Yiyo imeko ye-Little Red Riding Hood, leyo, nangona imiyalelo kaMama, incokola kwi-Wolf, emva koko, kunye neHunter-uMsindisi, ngokunyanisekileyo ukukhwaza ngamathuba (ngokufana nokuphela kwesi sifo). Isazi sengqondo esaziwayo u-Eric Berne sithi "kungcono ukuba iingcuka zihlale kude namantombazana abonakala engenacala." Ngendlela, unina ka-Alina, ephakamisa intombi yakhe engenayo uyise, wayedla ngokumthuma ebuntwaneni bakhe yedwa kwiindlela zakhe "ehlathini".
Elena the Beautiful
Enhle u-Anya uvavanya ngokuqinisekileyo abaviwa abanokuba ngabafundi-ufuna umntu okhethiweyo ukuba abe ngumntu wokwenene aze amthande ade adeke. Indawo ehambelana nayo kufuneka iqinisekise rhoqo: "Ndifuna ukuzivelela njengendlovukazi eceleni kwayo," uthanda ukuphinda. Ukususela kumfana osempilweni ophumelelayo kufuna iimpumelelo ezilungileyo, ukuncoma okuninzi kunye nokusebenza kwabasebenzi ekuqaleni komntu othandekayo. Kodwa akubona bonke abakwaziyo ukunqumla kwipisi, balwe nenyoka, bakhuphe ii-aples ezincinane kunye no-kisses kwi-princess frog. Kwaye ukhetho lwemisebenzi luqhubeka.
Ukulindela
Ngamnye wethu, nakumntwana osekuqaleni, iishedyuli isicatshulwa sakhe, esenza ngokuqhubekayo ukuqonda. Asikhumbuli nokuba sibhala njani eli bali, kodwa liyaqhubeka lihlala kwisimo sethu esingenalwazi nokulawula. Ewe, isizathu sokuba iziqhelo eziphindaphindiweyo ebomini bethu akukhona kuphela ukuba sasiyakholwa kwiimbali - umntwana unempembelelo eninzi. Kunoko, nangona kunjalo: emva kokuhlaziya iziganeko eziphindaphindiweyo, izenzo, abalinganiswa, sinokuzifanisa namabali amabali, iincwadi, imidlalo.
Iingcali zengqondo zihlala zibuza umbuzo othi: "Ubungayilinganisa nobomi bakho na?" Nangona impendulo enokuqhayisa ingakuxelela kakhulu. Kwaye oku sele kuninzi, kuba abantu bahlala bejikeleza kwinqanaba elincinci, bazichazela bona le "yi-destiny", "karma". Ukuqaphela ukuba usebenza kwimbali efanayo, unokwazi ukutshintsha ikhosi yeziganeko - ungaphenduli kakuhle ngamazwi nangezenzo, wenze ngendlela eyahlukileyo, okanye uphathe abanye ngokwahlukileyo. Emva koko, nokuba silawula iskripthi sethu, okanye sisithi. Ukuthatha uxanduva lobomi bakho, unokwenza ube ngumsebenzi wodwa wobugcisa.
Iingcebiso zengqondo
Ngasemncinci, abantwana banomdla kakhulu. Ukuphulaphula inkcazo yamantombazana, iimvakalelo ezivezwa ngumntwana womntu oyintloko - ngokwenene lo mlingiswa uchazwa ngokugqithiseleyo nangaphezulu ngokubanzi. Ingazi ukuba umntwana uyazibandakanya naye. Kwaye ubomi bakhe buqala ukwakhiwa ngokubhekiselele kwimeko ethile. Akuninzi kakhulu kubo. Ngesinye isikhathi, u-Eric Berne owaziwayo ngengqondo ye-American, wahlola waza wachaza ezi zihloko: Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, njl njl. Iingcali zengqondo ziqwalasela ezinye izinto ezimbini namhlanje, ezenziwa ngobomi ngokwazo - "Bambi" no "Godzilla." Ukudlala indima ye "Bambi" ibhinqa libuthathaka kwaye alikhuseli. Uqinisekile ukuba uthando kufuneka luzuze. Amaqabane anjalo aphangaleleyo afikelela kumaqabane aphanga, ama-egoists, i-gigolos, ngelizwi, abathengi bothando abangenako ukunika into ngokubuyisela. Kwindoda ka-Godzilla, ibhinqa lisenza kwisimo samandla, ifuna ukulawula yonke into, yenza wonke umntu adlale ngemithetho yakhe. La mabhinqa azimeleyo kwaye anamandla. Bangakwazi ukwenza konke ngokwabo, bahlala bekulungele ukuzondla kwaye bancede. Ngenxa yoko, "i-Godzilles" ihlangene nabantu ababuthathaka, abangazithandi kakuhle. Kunzima kakhulu ukubala nokulandelela iskripthi sakho. Ngoko ke, ukuba utshintshe ngokukhawuleza le meko ibe ngcono, qha ga mshelana neengqondo.