Indlela yokuqaphela ubuxoki ngemisebenzi yabantu

Nangona abaxoki abanamakhono abanakukwazi ukuhlangabezana nemisebenzi yabo. Ewe, mhlawumbi, ngaba ngabameli beenkonzo ezizodwa zemfihlo. Imisindo iyadluliselwa ngamagciwane, oko kukuthi, izalamane, ezingakaze zibonane, sebenzisa imiqondiso efanayo xa uxhulumana. Imimic and gestures ilawulwa yinxalenye yesicatshulwa sethu, enzima kakhulu ukulawula. Yingakho, emva kokufunda ulwimi olusenokuba nolwazi olungenanto, sinokuqonda ngaphandle kwamagama into enokucinga ngayo umntu, nokuba uyathetha inyaniso.


Oobuxoki amehlo

Amehlo - kungekhona kuphela isibuko somphefumlo, kodwa kunye nomqhubi wokuqala weemvakalelo zethu. Siyazijonga ngokugqithiseleyo ubuso bomnxibelelwano, ukuba sifuna ukufumana impendulo echanekileyo neyinyaniso kumbuzo. Enye yeempawu ezisemgangathweni apho udibanisa wakho olalayo, kuya kubakho "ukugijima" amehlo. Okanye uya kuhlala efihla amehlo akhe, ezenza ngathi bajonga into ethile. Amadoda ngokuqhelekileyo enza lo mqondiso, ukuba ubuxoki bunzulu. Abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo banciphisa amehlo abo phantsi, ngelixa abafazi bebukela phantsi. Nceda nceda! Le miqondiso phantse ikhulwini ekhulwini ithi uzama ukukhohlisa (ngaphandle - ukuba umntu unentlobo yesifo sokukhathazeka, phantsi kwamehlo "asebenzayo"). Olunye uphawu olungqalileyo lobuxoki lukuziphatha apho, ekuphenduleni umbuzo, umnxibelelwano uzakuzama ngamabomu ukuba athathe igesi eceleni, okanye, ukuvula ngokubanzi, ukujonga ngqo emehlweni akho. Ngokuqhelekileyo isenzo esinjalo sihambelana nomthamo womzimba phambili: u-interlocutor ke "u-press" kuwe, ekunyanzela ukuba ukholelwe amagama akho.

Umlomo womlomo

Le ngenye yezinto eziqhakazileyo zobuxoki ezigxilwe ebuntwaneni bethu. Khumbula into abayenzayo xa bephosa inyaniso kumntu, banika imfihlelo yomntu okanye "baqhambuka" into ababengafuniyo nhlobo? Ngokuchanekileyo, waphakamisa isandla sakhe, efihla idiot. Ingaba umntu omdala olalayo: isandla sakhe sithela ngokungaqondisi ukuphazamisa ukuhamba kweenkcukacha zobuxoki. Enyanisweni, ngamanye amaxesha le nto isetyenziswe ukuba umntu ufuna ukufihla inqweno yokutshiza. Nangona, kunokwenzeka, kunoko, ukuba umntu akanakuphulaphula, kwaye akazithethi.

Pochesyvaniiosa, amehlo okanye iindlebe

Enyanisweni, isenzo esifanayo, kodwa senziwe ngumntu, uzama ukuzigcina esesandleni aze avumele kuphela ukuthinteka kwexesha elide. Lo mqondiso uqhelekileyo kubasetyhini: benza uhlobo lokusula phezu komlomo ophezulu ophakanyisiweyo. Hlalani nilindile, ngokuqinisekileyo lo mfazi uqhinga! Kalula nawuphi na umntu ofuna ukufihla umlomo, engavumeli amagama angadingekile amkhokele ekuhlambuleni amanzi. Ngomzuzu wokugqibela umqambimanga ukhunjulwa kwaye enye indlela yokuphuma, indlela yokuchukumisa impumlo, akenzi. Ukuba umntu unempumlo enobunzima (oku kwenzeka kwakhona), ngoko uya kuwuqhola, kwaye kungekhona ukuchukumisa. Le nto isetyenziswe ngabo baphulaphula ubuxoki baze bazi ukuba bayamkhohlisa.

Olunye uphawu, olubonisa ukukhohlisa - ukutshitshisa okanye ukuxubha amehlo okanye iinkophe. Oku kunqwenela ukufihla ekukhohliseni okanye ukufihla emehlweni omntu omi kufuphi naye. Amadoda kwiimeko ezinjalo ahlamba ijwabu leso, abafazi bashesha bathabathe umunwe phantsi kwejwabu lezantsi, njengokungathi ukulungisa i-makeup. Ngokuqhelekileyo le nto isetyenziswe xa umntu elele "omkhulu". Amadoda enza oku ngakumbi ngamandla, ukuba ukukhohlisa kunzima, ke konke oku kuhamba kunye nokuhla kwemehlo ukuya kumgangatho nokungafuni ukujonga emehlweni omnxibelelwano.

Ukukhawula okanye ukubetha iindlebe kunye nommandla we-parotid kubonisa ukuba umxoxisana wakho ulala. Oku kuchazwa yinyani yokuba umntu othetha izinto ezingamanga azinzi kakuhle emzimbeni nasezindlebeni: ukubetha, ukubuyisela kwakhona isikhumba. Ukuze unqabise ukuvakalelwa kwesi siqhelo, umqambimanga kufuneka anyulelwe okanye achukumise le mimandla.

Thetha amazinyo akho

Isizathu saloo nto-ukwesaba ukukhulula igama lobuxoki, ukubeka isithintelo ngendlela yamazinyo avaliweyo. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha abantu bathetha njengaye, kuba bengenelisekanga ngento ethile. Masiqaphele lo mqondiso - musa ukukhawuleza ukuba unetyala lokuxoka. Kodwa akumele ukholelwe umntu oyimfama.

Ukulila

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba umntu ulala, ubhala ngokukhawuleza indawo phantsi kweendlebe okanye ecaleni kwentamo kunye nomnxeba wenkomfa. Kuye kwaphawula ukuba kule nto isenzo umntu wenza ngokukhawuleza ukudibanisa ezintlanu. Lo mqondiso uphinde uthethe ngokungathandabuzeki komphulaphuli ngokufanelekileyo komnxibelelwano. Umntu uhlala engazange aziphathe ngendlela enjalo xa engathethi ukuba ucinga ntoni. Umzekelo, uthi: "Ndiyakuqonda", kodwa i-swamis ayivumelani.

Ukutsala i-collar

Kubonakala ukuba ubuxoki kumntu bangela ukuba kutyumle kwiisisu ezintle zobuso nentamo. Ngamanye amazwe ndifuna ukukhawuleza ukuzola le ntliziyo. Ukuba umntu ngokukhawuleza uyayiphakamisa ikollar, ngoko uyakrokrela ukuba ubuxoki bakhe abufunyanwanga. Ngamanye amaxesha ungumqambimanga uphakamise i-droplet ebunzini lakhe. Nangona kunjalo, isenzo esifanayo umntu angasebenzisa ukuba uyathukuthela okanye uyashukukuthela kakhulu - ngoko uyayiphindela ikollar, ezama ukupholisa. Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba uveze umntu, umlinde. Ngamanye amaxesha, "ukugqiba" umqambimanga, umbuzo omnye ukwanele: "Ngaba unokucacisa?". U-Etaphraza uya kuphoqa umculi ukuba ashiye ngokukhawuleza ukuqhubeka kwamanga akhe.

Iminwe

Loo mntu uthi umntu udinga inkxaso. Lo ngumzamo ongezantsi wokubuyela kwiindawo ezikhuselekileyo ukususela ebusaneni, xa kungekho mntu walala. Umntu ufuna inkxaso yakho ebuxoki bakhe, ngoko ke ukuba lo ngumhlobo wakho, musa ukumgweba. Inokwenzeka ukuba, unako kwaye uyayifuna into kwaye ufuna uncedo, kwaye ubuxoki bakhe buyindlela yokukhusela.

Lawa ngamanyathelo ayisiseko ekukhohliseni, ethi othungelwano lwakho uxela amanga. Kodwa khumbula: nawuphi na umntu ungumzimba onzima ongenakuyinyamezela indlela engabonakaliyo. Mamela ngenyameko umxhasi wakho, qwalasela iimeko, ungaphuthelwa iinkcukacha. Mhlawumbi loo mntu uyangqinela iinyaniso ukuba wenze uthanda, okanye ucinga nje into enomdla kuye nakwawe. Kwenzeka, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuzityhaphazela ngokuqonda ngobuxoki bamanga. Mhlawumbi isenzo sokugubungela umlomo ngesandla sitsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umnxibelelwano uxela amanga, kodwa ukuba, umzekelo, wayelibale ukuxubha amazinyo.